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Ms. Milani · 04-09-2012, 10:02 AM

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Originally Posted by sanantonioman37

Wow, gone for a day and I miss all the excitement. Glad it got cleared up and your family and you are safe.
Besides, I thought I was your stalker.

So who was muscling in on my stalking turf. lol

Just glad

LOL I thought I saw you sitting outside!

BoomShakaLaka · 04-09-2012, 10:16 AM

What a douchebag --- I mean who does this shit

I treat people the way I want to be treated -- I mean you dont know what someones situation is. Something like that could crumble their world in a matter of seconds,

Sorry to hear about the asshat move --- Hope yall have a great day

BigAl69 · 04-09-2012, 01:52 PM

VERY sorry that happened to you, Malaya. Some guys just don't get it (it seems)...

Ez5417 · 04-10-2012, 12:27 AM

Anything that remotely puts babies in danger makes my skin crawl!!! As I've said before, if I saw or knew the faces that did crazy shit like this, and there are children involved are dead. And I WILL end up in jail!!! No hesitations, mamma bear inside of me takes over, and then YOU'RE OVER!!! Period. Have you posted in powder room yet?? I'd love to know this soon to be hospitalized deuche's info.

Mossman · 04-10-2012, 07:09 AM

So, someone who was told he could be a friend, makes the unforgivable mistake of leaving a friend a note. And now he's accused of stalking, threathening children and whatever else is in the minds of those who posted their disapproval. Paranoia reigns. I suppose none of you have ever left a note for a friend. As I said earlier, the contents of the note may have been a clue. As far as threats, seems like posters are the only ones making them. Does "rush to judgement" mean anything to you? Information and communication are wonderful things.

Doc_rob · 04-10-2012, 09:32 AM

Malaya - You are right that is just inconsiderate and impolite...and in my opinion, too close to being a stalker type. Thinking about that body wrap...I have lost about 20lbs and would like to drop another 10 - 15.

repete offender · 04-10-2012, 10:26 AM

Ezra- you are NOT a killer-just passionate about protecting the loved ones-if a guy said that, police might be called-careful!!!!

Ms. Milani · 04-10-2012, 11:12 AM

Mossman, I can see where you are coming from. In this instance perhaps I was too nice. He wanted to be friends and I didn't want to be mean. Some clients always want more than just a professional relationship. I have a few clients that also consider themselves friends but they wouldn't be moronic enough to come by my home unannounced because they know I have a family. Some men don't understand we do have kids AND significant others. That's like me going to a client's home (hey he said we were friends!) unannounced WHEN his wife and kids were there.

atxdream · 04-10-2012, 11:21 AM

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Originally Posted by Mossman

So, someone who was told he could be a friend, makes the unforgivable mistake of leaving a friend a note. And now he's accused of stalking, threathening children and whatever else is in the minds of those who posted their disapproval. Paranoia reigns. I suppose none of you have ever left a note for a friend. As I said earlier, the contents of the note may have been a clue. As far as threats, seems like posters are the only ones making them. Does "rush to judgement" mean anything to you? Information and communication are wonderful things.

She was right to post the alert when she didn't know who it was and I believe that she clarified appropriately when she found out who left the note. Security is the # priority for the San Antonio Sweethearts and, friend or not, it is unacceptable to leave an unsigned note on a provider's car (I assume unsigned bc she didn't know who left it). Talk about making someone's heart stop. We have all made the mistake at one point or another of allowing a hobbyist (or another provider) into our personal lives and it rarely ends well. I have several hobbyists who I consider to be close friends; however, I am still careful in the amount of personal info I share with them and they still follow hobby etiquette. Friends or not, this is the hobby and hobby etiquette always applies.

homer13 · 04-10-2012, 11:27 AM

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Originally Posted by ExoticEzra

Anything that remotely puts babies in danger makes my skin crawl!!! As I've said before, if I saw or knew the faces that did crazy shit like this, and there are children involved are dead. And I WILL end up in jail!!! No hesitations, mamma bear inside of me takes over, and then YOU'RE OVER!!! Period. Have you posted in powder room yet?? I'd love to know this soon to be hospitalized deuche's info.

Got a little fire in you, mamma bear sounds like a bad ass..

I got my two boys though that I would not hesitate to protect by any means.

rockerrick · 04-10-2012, 11:53 AM

Second time I've read those words, and I believe her!!!!!
Sorry you ladies have to deal with that uncalled for BS!

guest092513 · 04-10-2012, 12:01 PM

ezra is so hot when she is pissed......well she is hot anyway.
Mossman that is not a rush to judgement. This is a buisness ,and even if a friendship had been established showing up at someones home is out of line.....way out of line. What if someone else in the house found the note. The dude that did this is a complete F***ing idiot with zero consideration for Malaya. If he wanted to contact her there is always the phone. notes on a car is just flipping creepy

Yoyoma · 04-10-2012, 12:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Malaya

See. There is a downfall for rocking someone's world. We get stalkers and creeps.

I know that sh*t happens to me all the time. What can I say, I'm a love machine ....

Mossman · 04-10-2012, 03:26 PM

Geez some of you have gone completely overboard. Clearly some type of "friendship" existed and just as clearly the "friends" involved didn't properly establish the guidelines for the "friendship". Now it seems the mystery is solved and words were exchanged and guidelines are in place. I don't hear her saying he is stalking her or means any ill will or even that he is a creep. That's coming from some of you, who know absolutely nothing about the situation. If that isn't judging without the facts, I give up!

homer13 · 04-10-2012, 03:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Mossman

Geez some of you have gone completely overboard. Clearly some type of "friendship" existed and just as clearly the "friends" involved didn't properly establish the guidelines for the "friendship". Now it seems the mystery is solved and words were exchanged and guidelines are in place. I don't hear her saying he is stalking her or means any ill will or even that he is a creep. That's coming from some of you, who know absolutely nothing about the situation. If that isn't judging without the facts, I give up!

It's just not good etiquette. She has a private life with kids and possible so. A man should not be leaving a lady a note on her car in this situation just like it would be inappropriate for a lady to leave a note on a man's car in same situation. who know's who could find it. Especially under the circumstances in which they met.