P411 Ladies - question about activities

[BigOldZero]

Originally Posted by GracePreston

My philosophy is... unless you are running over your time, I NEVER get dressed before you. Some guys choose of their own accord to get back to work or wherever they need to be, others want to rest, relax, and go for round 2. I let my company at the moment dictate my action.... and I stay naked so that it is known that I'm not pushing you out my door until your time is up.

Gracie... I think I love you.

[randall flagg]

Originally Posted by M A X

In other words, you prefer being stimulated in some sexual form or fashion during an entire hour, whether it appears to her that her efforts are in vain or not. (I'm not judging, just clarifying.) If that's the case, you should communicate this directly to her ahead of time and maybe you will discover you experience less disappointment. Most of us can not read your minds and everyone's expectations are different. Mayhap, why many ladies seem mechanical is because no matter what they offer or do, they will be picked apart anyway, ya think? 100% of everyone she sees will not be 100% satisfied since they didn't tell her EXACTLY what they want and expect.

Communication is always key to any successful union, whether it be an hour or a life time.....ijs

In other words yes --- but definitely not an interpretation of my words. My words were that I dont like to have the lady assume or try to read my mind by telling me that the session is over by dressing completely - or asking me if i want a shower or a drink before I go ---implying that it is time for me to go with 20 or 30 minutes remaining. I dont require being sexually stimulated for the entire hour ---I am not paying for any specific activities - only for their time -- and anything that may happen in private is a personal choice between consenting adults. I expect that the lady acknowledge my existence - and the time that has been scheduled - whether it be engaging in conversation -or just laying next to me. I have recd good advice - both thru pm's and on this board - basically saying that I should communicate better - which I admit I havent done in those instances.

The ladies I choose to repeat with ---whether or not a 2nd round is attempted --- are those who validate that I have chosen to be with them for an hour -by not trying to rush me out the door long before the agreed upon time is over.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by randall flagg

In other words yes --- but definitely not an interpretation of my words. My words were that I dont like to have the lady assume or try to read my mind by telling me that the session is over by dressing completely - or asking me if i want a shower or a drink before I go ---implying that it is time for me to go with 20 or 30 minutes remaining. I dont require being sexually stimulated for the entire hour ---I am not paying for any specific activities - only for their time -- and anything that may happen in private is a personal choice between consenting adults. I expect that the lady acknowledge my existence - and the time that has been scheduled - whether it be engaging in conversation -or just laying next to me. I have recd good advice - both thru pm's and on this board - basically saying that I should communicate better - which I admit I havent done in those instances.

The ladies I choose to repeat with ---whether or not a 2nd round is attempted --- are those who validate that I have chosen to be with them for an hour -by not trying to rush me out the door long before the agreed upon time is over.

Yes, but No. That's not confusing at all....LOL

You wanna be naked and in bed without her offering you refreshment, shower, or anything that is making you feel rushed out the door just because you popped. When is it appropriate for a lady to initiate "wind down" with you? 1, 3, 5 minutes before your time expires? Or is this something you prefer to do?

Let us know how this communication thing works out for ya, hon. I imagine your time with someone new will go much more as you hope when you tell her ahead of time what you prefer.....best of luck.....xoxo

[ItalianaPrincess]

MSOG is strongly encouraged...per my website.
Sometimes guys, YOU know YOUR BODY better than WE know your body...so just ask beforehand...I'd rather have a heads up (pun intended) before the rendezvous, so that I can leave time in between to relax, enjoy your massage, and build-up another one!

It's like when I visit a new Nail Salon...I tell them up front WHAT I would like.

If they immediately say "Oh no, we can't do that" (for whatever reason)... then on to the next Salon who will.
Needless to say, I've found a cpl that I really like, and they know what I like, and they do them well! LOL

[Taylor Sims]

I like Msog but then again I like alot of stuff.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by randall flagg

In other words yes --- but definitely not an interpretation of my words. My words were that I dont like to have the lady assume or try to read my mind by telling me that the session is over by dressing completely - or asking me if i want a shower or a drink before I go ---implying that it is time for me to go with 20 or 30 minutes remaining. I dont require being sexually stimulated for the entire hour ---I am not paying for any specific activities - only for their time -- and anything that may happen in private is a personal choice between consenting adults. I expect that the lady acknowledge my existence - and the time that has been scheduled - whether it be engaging in conversation -or just laying next to me. I have recd good advice - both thru pm's and on this board - basically saying that I should communicate better - which I admit I havent done in those instances.

The ladies I choose to repeat with ---whether or not a 2nd round is attempted --- are those who validate that I have chosen to be with them for an hour -by not trying to rush me out the door long before the agreed upon time is over.

Sounds to me like the ladies you visit must contact Madam Chloe the psychic to figure out what you want.

[randall flagg]

not at all pyramider - all i request is that they honor the time i have scheduled and not rush me out the door long before the time is over -as stated - i cant expect any activities - i have paid for their time only and expect that it be honored

[randall flagg]

Originally Posted by Truly Passion

I like Msog but then again I like alot of stuff.

TP - I will make sure to communicate with you when we meet so I am sure to engage in I like a lot of stuff with you

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by randall flagg

TP - I will make sure to communicate with you when we meet ...

Now we get to the heart of this threAD - flirting with hot chicks. As it should be, no?

[Taylor Sims]

Johnny I think his boss at work has him alittle shy. He told me about the boss from hell. I hope you dont mind Randall but I had to tell the story. Let me know if you are pleased about it. Randall and all men want the time they pay for if it is a hr then a hr not 15mins and ran out the door.

( Randall check it out on Passions Erotic Adventures : Dallas coed)

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Truly Passion

Randall and all men want the time they pay for if it is a hr then a hr not 15mins and ran out the door.

I must beg to differ and do speak from experience.....ALL men do NOT want the same anything. While I agree cutting it short is not a good thing and something I'm not fond of hearing that others do. Many men will linger after their time if ya let them. Not something I normally have a problem with.....

The time does not begin upon entry into a ladies body, but rather at the allotted time he has scheduled to arrive at lady's place or when the gent walks in the door. Entertaining and having a refreshment is often something that many offer as part of spending time with a gent, before and/or after. If a gent prefers not to partake of anything else the lady has to offer, but rather he prefers to "dive in" the whole" hour, he's got a better chance of that happening if he indicates such prior to the appointment, not with me, but many will agree to this. ijs I prefer having a few moments chatting and whatnot as opposed to having him disrobe immediately upon arrival and get after it as if I were a not much more than a glorified "glory hole" or something.....LOL. (Maybe why I don't mind if they go over a bit and it''s more of an experience than an opportune time to "get off" as much as they can in an hour) The clock "race" is not on when ya walk in the door at my place or even with some others, however, please don't take advantage and most won''t. Many of us are low volume, do not offer 15 and 30 minute sessions, so we are normally not rushed to get to the next one.

Many men actually do enjoy chatting, having a refreshment, and some even appreciate being offered a shower, before and/or after "play" time. At least this has been my experience.

WALDT.....ijs

[Taylor Sims]

All men may not want the same experience but I bet alot of men want to feel special and not an atm. If we all wanted the same experience in life we would be bored. I am saying that most men want the time they paid for weather if it is 15mins, 30 mins, 2hrs or even just 5 mins. It is not just bcd but talking or getting to know each other.

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by Truly Passion

All men may not want the same experience but I bet alot of men want to feel special and not an atm. If we all wanted the same experience in life we would be bored. I am saying that most men want the time they paid for weather if it is 15mins, 30 mins, 2hrs or even just 5 mins. It is not just bcd but talking or getting to know each other.

gotcha!

[randall flagg]

Originally Posted by Truly Passion

. I hope you dont mind Randall but I had to tell the story. Let me know if you are pleased about it.

( Randall check it out on Passions Erotic Adventures : Dallas coed)

TP I am not at all pleased by the fact that the fantasies I come up with for myself - pale in comparison to the awesome fantasy you wrote for me. I should probably actually act out the first sentence of your story - show up late for work -- and hope that my boss 'punishes me' in the way you so eloquently described === or maybe I should just visit you late one night and you can punish me - then i would have a legitimate excuse for being late --- would you then write a note to my boss explaining my tardiness