my wife used to give me head....

[Hiker78]

Originally Posted by colt

Its your own fault, when was the last time you did her on the kitchen counter or the table, or bent over the arm of the couch? Yeah, that's right, you been having boring ass marital sex in the bed room. go figure. Its not a bed time thing, morning noon or after work. Try putting some music on and dancing in the living room. Just about all women like to dance.

But the biggest sin against good sex is you stop being the man, that's right quit agreeing with everything she says, stop doing everything she wants, start being in charge, she needs a good man to follow.

And finally ask in a nice way "baby I'd love to feel those lips down there", sure eat it but remember the golden rule you only give her 2 for every three, make her work for your approval. Just praying for a blow job won't get you one, you got to ask.

I think what colt is talking about is similar to one of those dating websites/books. This is a marriage I'm sure there are many other factors involved.

[Hiker78]

I am unmarried but if I was married and my wife's confidence was that low to respond positively to some of these suggestions instead of just an honest conversation I would personally be much more concerned about resolving other issues and put the blowjob on the back burner for awhile.

[colt]

Originally Posted by Hiker78

I think what colt is talking about is similar to one of those dating websites/books. This is a marriage I'm sure there are many other factors involved.

Nope all those relationship books are written by people that aren't getting laid. 45 years of marriage 1 death, 3 failures, lots of MLR, multiple long term relationships.

Having a simple conversation about not getting BJ?