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Old 10-14-2021, 06:15 AM   #46
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And you're the genius who thought Rainbird was her mandle
instead of just giving her unfettered posting and access to said handle.....

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Old 10-14-2021, 07:25 AM   #47
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No one has ever used Rainbird4668 handle but me... nice try.
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Old 10-14-2021, 10:07 AM   #48
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No one has ever used Rainbird4668 handle but me... nice try.
as a regular took dictation n orders well ???? just askin
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Old 10-14-2021, 10:24 AM   #49
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as a regular took dictation n orders well ???? just askin
I only give dick-tation. Never receive.
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Old 10-14-2021, 12:10 PM   #50
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but takes orders well then as a regular
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Incorrect.

Most everyone here and absolutely everyone who is on Twatter knows better....
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The thread is not about Rainbird. Get back on subject folks.
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Old 10-17-2021, 10:38 AM   #53
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I've had some regulars and I've also had some non regulars. I do prefer the comfort of having regulars but occasionally I like to try a new one or two that could possibly also become a regular. It all just depends on the situation.
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I've had some regulars and I've also had some non regulars. I do prefer the comfort of having regulars but occasionally I like to try a new one or two that could possibly also become a regular. It all just depends on the situation.
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I love my regulars and I feel our attraction only intensifies with each encounter. Most of the time, it feels like reuniting with an old college fling. I enjoy exploring each other together. My regulars get priority access to me whether that means more flexibility of my schedule or sometimes I’ll rearrange my personal calendar for them if they only have a small window of opportunity to “get away”. They get almost immediate responses, pics, sexts, and I offer up better rates but they always pay me in full. Having a healthy balance of regulars and new clients is critical to growing and sustaining most successful businesses.


That’s right, Boys. You heard it here first: even BIG GIRLS attract regulars. Something to be said for a not-so-ugly looking female who is RELIABLE, SAFE, CLEAN, TOP NOTCH TCB, clean incall with good service and affordable rates. Oh, and not “on” anything…I can do this job sober because I am comfortable with what I do and enjoy most of my encounters; I am truly blessed to have so many amazing new and regular clients. I treat them with respect and let them know how grateful I am for choosing me.
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I've had some regulars and I've also had some non regulars. I do prefer the comfort of having regulars but occasionally I like to try a new one or two that could possibly also become a regular. It all just depends on the situation.
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I love my regulars and I feel our attraction only intensifies with each encounter. Most of the time, it feels like reuniting with an old college fling. I enjoy exploring each other together. My regulars get priority access to me whether that means more flexibility of my schedule or sometimes I’ll rearrange my personal calendar for them if they only have a small window of opportunity to “get away”. They get almost immediate responses, pics, sexts, and I offer up better rates but they always pay me in full. Having a healthy balance of regulars and new clients is critical to growing and sustaining most successful businesses.


That’s right, Boys. You heard it here first: even BIG GIRLS attract regulars. Something to be said for a not-so-ugly looking female who is RELIABLE, SAFE, CLEAN, TOP NOTCH TCB, clean incall with good service and affordable rates. Oh, and not “on” anything…I can do this job sober because I am comfortable with what I do and enjoy most of my encounters; I am truly blessed to have so many amazing new and regular clients. I treat them with respect and let them know how grateful I am for choosing me.
Great points Lexi. Thank you. I would add from my experiences that the familiarity of being a regular gives me more to talk about and sessions have more of an opportunity to be unrushed.

Questions for the ladies: How often do you see your regulars? Is there a normal range of frequency for someone to be considered a regular i.e. scheduling once a month, a few times a month, etc.

Can or do regulars become overcommunicative and is that an issue?

Do you regulars ever tell you that you are the only person they see?
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Not so ugly looking has become the standard. Pitiful.
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How often do you see your regulars? As often as they'd like. I've had regulars that I see weekly, regulars that come once a month like clockwork, and regulars that I see once every 2-3 months. Not everyone can afford to see me regularly, but that doesn't make the connection any less important to me.

Can or do regulars become overcommunicative and is that an issue? While I do encourage communication, because I believe the best way to a trusting sexual relationship is by starting with great communication- Over communication can become an issue, but it rarely has been in the past. I put up firm boundaries from the beginning, for my sake and for the clients. I don't really come across issues because I'm up front - if you're texting me too much, I'll let you know. Rarely is it an issue of a client taking up my time by texting, but not respecting my personal boundaries.

Do you regulars ever tell you that you are the only person they see? I've had people say this, yes. It is not a requirement for my services, nor does it bring about any perks if you aren't seeing another provider. Honestly it is all up to the client - some of them don't need more than one provider, and hey, cool! I'm glad to help where I can.

It's sweet, but it also does makes me nervous because I feel like clients looking for a single partner have a tenancy to become .... attached, and if I wanted to fake being in a relationship, I would be a sugar baby LOL. I'm here to fuck, not date.

I try to encourage my clients to see other providers as well as myself. We all bring something different to the table!
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How often….? When in my homebase of BUF, I’d consider someone to be a regular if they visit at least every 6 weeks, however I have clients that visit almost weekly. When I’m in ROC (monthly) and SYR, ALB, & PGH (bi-monthly), the consideration changes to at least every other visit, although some visit me every trip! Anything over that, I’d simple consider them to be a “repeat” visitor.

Overcommunicative….? Ironically , I find that my non-regulars are the biggest offenders here. Some regulars will text frequently and if it’s simply a “good morning, just letting you know that I’m thinking about you” text, I may not respond if I’m busy and they understand my boundaries. When I get the 3am “Thinking about you” text from a client I’ve only seen once…instant block.


Provider/client monogamy…? Moot point?? I’m not monogamous to any client so I don’t expect it from them. I don’t even believe in monogamy in my personal life, I certainly wouldn’t change my views, for lack of a better word, in my “professional” life.
I have observed that almost none of my regulars use me as a reference for any local ladies, LOL, except when traveling out of state.
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