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Originally Posted by Seeking ~P
I'd like the answer from a newbie.
What are you willing to give as a way to verify who you are for a providers safety and yours?
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i'd be more than willing to provide a name, cell phone number, a work phone number, occupation, area of town i live in, etc, because i'd only solicit a provider i trust by doing my homework. i wouldn't provided specifics, like my address or work address, but enough to make her feel comfortable. i'd even be more than willing to get lunch or a coffee or something with them a few days before hand to test the waters and get to know each other first.
besides, i know that i wouldn't do anything to make her try to find me out of revenge or something, and most providers aren't stalkers. from what i've read on here the last few weeks, it seems to be mostly the other way around. anywho, all that, and i know that she'll most likely just throw my info away once the date is over. it's not like she's going to sell my info to some spam mailing list or anything.