Why are overnight rates so expensive?!

[Old-T]

The basic fact about overnights is they aren’t for everyone, and guys who think they are too expensive, they aren’t for you. That’s not a slap at “you”, it’s a recognition that if you only count the value of a session by how much time you spend in erotic activities, then you should save your $$$ and spend it on an hourly basis.

Overnights are usually about a level of personal connection that goes above and beyond that. I much prefer overnights, but then for myself I am greedy. I want the initial sensual interlude before a show/dinner/etc. I desire the relaxed flirting and conversation, in good weather maybe a post-theater stroll to a quiet coffee shop that is open all night. The anticipation of bringing the lady back to my hotel (or hers), opening the bottle of wine and spending a couple hours exploring each other before falling asleep. Breakfast in bed before breakfast downstairs in the restaurant. Letting the morning linger as long as we care to before departing each other. For all that I consider 4 to 6 times her hourly rate a bargain (and the more a lady knows from past experience that I will treat her well, take her to a nice restaurant, and not expect to pound the mattress for 10 hours straight, the better deal she is likely to offer). When I look at getting 10 or 12 or more hours for the price of 5 I consider that I am getting a good deal; when I factor in the very different attitude I see in a lady for an overnight vs the same lady for an hour, I consider it a great deal.

As to why she charges “so much”, I guess the reverse is worth asking: Why should she give a guy a 75% discount for the “privilege” of having to stay in character all night with a guy who is marginally tolerable? (Again, I am talking in general, not about YOU). Do you give your boss a discounted rate when you work overtime? Getting a sitter for the kids overnight is a lot tougher than getting a sitter for a couple hours. Having to scramble home at 6 AM to get them off to school (or herself to her day job) when she isn’t sure if she will be kept up all night by your snoring—that by itself makes me sometimes wonder why they give discounts at all. There are a lot of things that can make a 12 hour overnight FAR more hassle than six 2 hour dates. And we haven’t touched the issue of other things she could be doing with her time. To suggest that her overnight rate should be her regular rate + $100 is oblivious to her side of the situation. Again, what do you know in the real world that is “Buy 1, Get 11 more for a penny”?

I suggest you go back and read this whole thread. Most the guys who posted here are telling you a consistent story:
--If you are interested in orgasms per dollar, there is absolutely no reason to feel guilty about it, and absolutely no reason to spring for an overnight. Most guys aren't generally interested in overnights.
--Overnights are NOT 12 one-hour sessions back to back, they are a completely different thing
--IF that’s what you enjoy at times, they are fantastic and worth every cent—WITH A COMPATIBLE LADY YOU ALREADY KNOW PRETTY WELL
--With a compatible lady you already know pretty well, the rate structure can be very flexible

[Jackpotvinny]

Sure, I plan on posting when I got back, and Old-T wrote exactly what was on my mind.

I enjoy Overnights. I do a lot of contact before to make sure we seem compatable, and because of that I'm 3 for 3.
Like he said, if it's for sex, and only sex, then the overnight is definitely not for you. On the other hand, and I'm going out on a limb here, the "older" guys are getting the whole package. Meeting, dinner, then unlimited time and attention for both of you till you fade into a sleep with a huge smile on your face.
To complete the package, nothing like waking up next to the person who just made last evening everything you wanted, topped with an eye-opener.

Yes, a 12 hour is not 12 one hour sessions. There is a lot more going on, something us older gents take a liking to.

In this conversation, everyone is right, and nobody is wrong...it just depends on what you are looking for...to each his own...

[Old-T]

Vinny, thanks. There is nothing that gives me a rejuvenating boost that lasts for days more than an overnight with the right young lady--and at my age they are all young ladies, making my selection all that much larger!

[Missy Mariposa]

Originally Posted by donuts

Considering that you'll be sleeping most of the time

Well that sounds like a terrible use of an overnight visit o_o Most of mine are MAYBE 5-6 hours of sleep and 12 hour visits. While you may be sleeping a bit under half of it (if you're lucky), I am still a paid companion so sleeping (literally) with me is not free.

Also, if you DO plan on sleeping a longer time that's always worth mentioning - some ladies will absolutely adjust overnight rates based on what YOU want to do. Mine even goes up (gasp) if you want to spend the entire 12 hours awake and having fun. In that instance, you're paying for the next day I need to take off to rest.

[pyramider]

I always nap after I am done on one hour appointments and no one ever adjusted the rate. But I do get about a 58 minute nap ...

[Jewish Lawyer]

Originally Posted by Old-T

The basic fact about overnights is they aren’t for everyone, and guys who think they are too expensive, they aren’t for you. That’s not a slap at “you”, it’s a recognition that if you only count the value of a session by how much time you spend in erotic activities, then you should save your $$$ and spend it on an hourly basis.

Overnights are usually about a level of personal connection that goes above and beyond that. I much prefer overnights, but then for myself I am greedy. I want the initial sensual interlude before a show/dinner/etc. I desire the relaxed flirting and conversation, in good weather maybe a post-theater stroll to a quiet coffee shop that is open all night. The anticipation of bringing the lady back to my hotel (or hers), opening the bottle of wine and spending a couple hours exploring each other before falling asleep. Breakfast in bed before breakfast downstairs in the restaurant. Letting the morning linger as long as we care to before departing each other. For all that I consider 4 to 6 times her hourly rate a bargain (and the more a lady knows from past experience that I will treat her well, take her to a nice restaurant, and not expect to pound the mattress for 10 hours straight, the better deal she is likely to offer). When I look at getting 10 or 12 or more hours for the price of 5 I consider that I am getting a good deal; when I factor in the very different attitude I see in a lady for an overnight vs the same lady for an hour, I consider it a great deal.

As to why she charges “so much”, I guess the reverse is worth asking: Why should she give a guy a 75% discount for the “privilege” of having to stay in character all night with a guy who is marginally tolerable? (Again, I am talking in general, not about YOU). Do you give your boss a discounted rate when you work overtime? Getting a sitter for the kids overnight is a lot tougher than getting a sitter for a couple hours. Having to scramble home at 6 AM to get them off to school (or herself to her day job) when she isn’t sure if she will be kept up all night by your snoring—that by itself makes me sometimes wonder why they give discounts at all. There are a lot of things that can make a 12 hour overnight FAR more hassle than six 2 hour dates. And we haven’t touched the issue of other things she could be doing with her time. To suggest that her overnight rate should be her regular rate + $100 is oblivious to her side of the situation. Again, what do you know in the real world that is “Buy 1, Get 11 more for a penny”?

I suggest you go back and read this whole thread. Most the guys who posted here are telling you a consistent story:
--If you are interested in orgasms per dollar, there is absolutely no reason to feel guilty about it, and absolutely no reason to spring for an overnight. Most guys aren't generally interested in overnights.
--Overnights are NOT 12 one-hour sessions back to back, they are a completely different thing
--IF that’s what you enjoy at times, they are fantastic and worth every cent—WITH A COMPATIBLE LADY YOU ALREADY KNOW PRETTY WELL
--With a compatible lady you already know pretty well, the rate structure can be very flexible

Well said, both by you and Jackpot Vinny.

[Eva Damita]

Originally Posted by Old-T

The basic fact about overnights is they aren’t for everyone, and guys who think they are too expensive, they aren’t for you. That’s not a slap at “you”, it’s a recognition that if you only count the value of a session by how much time you spend in erotic activities, then you should save your $$$ and spend it on an hourly basis.

Overnights are usually about a level of personal connection that goes above and beyond that. I much prefer overnights, but then for myself I am greedy. I want the initial sensual interlude before a show/dinner/etc. I desire the relaxed flirting and conversation, in good weather maybe a post-theater stroll to a quiet coffee shop that is open all night. The anticipation of bringing the lady back to my hotel (or hers), opening the bottle of wine and spending a couple hours exploring each other before falling asleep. Breakfast in bed before breakfast downstairs in the restaurant. Letting the morning linger as long as we care to before departing each other. For all that I consider 4 to 6 times her hourly rate a bargain (and the more a lady knows from past experience that I will treat her well, take her to a nice restaurant, and not expect to pound the mattress for 10 hours straight, the better deal she is likely to offer). When I look at getting 10 or 12 or more hours for the price of 5 I consider that I am getting a good deal; when I factor in the very different attitude I see in a lady for an overnight vs the same lady for an hour, I consider it a great deal.

As to why she charges “so much”, I guess the reverse is worth asking: Why should she give a guy a 75% discount for the “privilege” of having to stay in character all night with a guy who is marginally tolerable? (Again, I am talking in general, not about YOU). Do you give your boss a discounted rate when you work overtime? Getting a sitter for the kids overnight is a lot tougher than getting a sitter for a couple hours. Having to scramble home at 6 AM to get them off to school (or herself to her day job) when she isn’t sure if she will be kept up all night by your snoring—that by itself makes me sometimes wonder why they give discounts at all. There are a lot of things that can make a 12 hour overnight FAR more hassle than six 2 hour dates. And we haven’t touched the issue of other things she could be doing with her time. To suggest that her overnight rate should be her regular rate + $100 is oblivious to her side of the situation. Again, what do you know in the real world that is “Buy 1, Get 11 more for a penny”?

I suggest you go back and read this whole thread. Most the guys who posted here are telling you a consistent story:
--If you are interested in orgasms per dollar, there is absolutely no reason to feel guilty about it, and absolutely no reason to spring for an overnight. Most guys aren't generally interested in overnights.
--Overnights are NOT 12 one-hour sessions back to back, they are a completely different thing
--IF that’s what you enjoy at times, they are fantastic and worth every cent—WITH A COMPATIBLE LADY YOU ALREADY KNOW PRETTY WELL
--With a compatible lady you already know pretty well, the rate structure can be very flexible

STANDING OVATION!

And from a provider's pov, I will honestly say half of my gents tip really well...that's 300 + great tip. Some even come back the same day for another session. If I have 2-3 multi hour appointments, I could make about the same as an overnight or more. Some ladies choose this route, feeling reaching out to more multi-hour/hour appointments will be more frequent than that overnight and therefore most beneficial in the long-run. Others, like myself, will prefer to have less contact with that many in one day, focus on one person for the day, and give my uncompromisable best and utmost dedication. I applaud the women who can give 110% with high volume multi-hours and sessions. True, to each her own. I couldn't hang.

[donuts]

Originally Posted by Old-T

--IF that’s what you enjoy at times, they are fantastic and worth every cent—WITH A COMPATIBLE LADY YOU ALREADY KNOW PRETTY WELL
--With a compatible lady you already know pretty well, the rate structure can be very flexible

fair enough

[Captain Midnight]

I have never booked an overnight session and based on my snoring and farting, probably never will. I have had ladies stay over twice and not charge. One was too drunk to go anywhere safely and the other time the girl loved the hotel and said it made her feel like a princess. We both got some benefits and neither of the girls asked for more money. I did give them both pretty hefty tips though in appreciation.

[Alyssa Marie]

Exactly what Old-T said!

Not everyone does this only for the sex. Some people miss the true aspect of dating. Some don't. To each their own.

[Valerie]

Originally Posted by donuts

Considering that you'll be sleeping most of the time, I think it's ridiculous that providers are charging 4-5 times their normal rate for overnight sessions. What do you guys think? How do providers justify such high prices?

Because we generally don't really want to be around you perverts for that long, so we charge extortionate rates, and should one still want to pay them, (and they do), the money is usually a pretty good motivator for one to suck it up for the evening...

[LNK]

Originally Posted by Valerie

Because we generally don't really want to be around you perverts for that long, so we charge extortionate rates, and should one still want to pay them, (and they do), the money is usually a pretty good motivator for one to suck it up for the evening...

I'll thank you, young lady, to label me properly. I'm a degenerate, not a pervert.

Otherwise, Ding! Ding! Ding! We have a winner!

[Jackpotvinny]

Someone once called me a dirty old man....NEVER CALL ME OLD!

[offshoredrilling]

I have had lots of overnights and never got charged.

[Ross B]

Don't take it personally it's business. If the lady stays over she is missing the potential clientele.