Feeling ripped of by my Regular - need advice

[MOTOXMAN]

Sounds like OP is getting a little emotionally tied.
Back off that shit.
Chicks = Trouble ..........

[Sonya]

So she should get less because you like her the most?

[Sexy Katrina]

If and when she is running a special you should get the special rate.
I believe most providers give there regulars some type of discount or extra attention so it shouldn't hurt to ask. If your not happy with the answers you get then it might be time to start shopping around.

[Fancyinheels]

I have a "Fancy Frequent Flyer" program. (The little punches on the card are shaped like shamrocks. Accrue 10 and you get a free shillelagh polishing.) Seriously, I do offer discounts to gents who become regulars, and I give my reliable repeat gentlemen friends extra time all the time, but you have to ASK. I have no idea what's in another person's mind. He may just have a few weeks of opportunity with the wife out of town, or just be here off and on for business, and I may not see or even communicate with him again for a substantial gap afterward. That has happened, and then the lads expected the lower rate 3 months later. Not exactly what most ladies are thinking of when instituting a "loyalty" discount. Some fellows became worried that I was getting too attached to THEM when I offered them a break.

Polite communication works wonders, but both parties have to converse openly and honestly.

Unless I have a cancellation or the fellow is a true FFF, I am less likely to offer a rate reduction on a Friday or Saturday. Those are prime time Dinner Date, Chick & a Flick, and Fantasy Field Trip days.

[Fancyinheels]

Originally Posted by Sonya

So she should get less because you like her the most?

Another good point. Many of my gentleman have actually given me MORE after becoming a regular friend, sometimes monetarily, sometimes in other ways.

Every situation is different. Alas, I'm thinking it is already too late for the OP if he is discussing this HERE. I wonder if billrich's ATF will start avoiding his calls or suddenly become "pre-booked" most of the time?

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Sonya

So she should get less because you like her the most?

We do not know if he ever engaged in tainted activities with her. If she charged by the inch I would have one happy 1.3" of dangling death.

[TX Bulldog]

Originally Posted by billrich

I say this because I see during the week she offers specials for up to $ less than what I give her. Should I say something? Or am I looking at this the wrong way ladies? Should I try and find a new regular?

Sounds like she learned her marketing from Comcast.

[69UILTAZ]

I agree with Poppy71! !
But do have Fun!

[Out_of_Bounds]

Entitled? No.
Good customer service for a regular client to keep you coming back? Yes. Even if it's every so often she does this, not necessarily every time.
But I agree with boardman, looks like something else is developing there with you and maybe you should try adding variety to your hobby.

[rduke4923]

Clever.
I have to ask who you think is the best Batman?

[billrich]

Sonya brought up a great point in regards to her being my ATF. Yes so far she is my ATF and the sessions are incredible. I guess on the one hand I shouldn't seek a discount from the ATF, but on the other hand I feel I should be offered on, since other non regulars receive one.
Several of you guys mentioned feeling attached, I know for sure I am not, I understand the hobby world, and as far as her finding out, I don't think she will know it's me I contacted her on the "P" under a slightly different name. And if she does find out and ignores future appointments, then I have no choice but to find a new ATF, which is hard to do for me.

[GlobeSpotter]

Originally Posted by billrich

....... if she does find out and ignores future appointments, then I have no choice but to find a new ATF, which is hard to do for me.

Cash will heal all her wounds.

[SofaKingFun]

billrich stated,

Thank you for the advice, I have asked her she tells me she is not running the special that day.

Not to burst bubbles or anything but my inner wakeup leads me to believe that, perhaps,;

a) she sees you as an easy mark and knows she'll get her full rate from you, regardless of whether your appointment occurs during her rate special, or not.

or...(and you might want to sit down for this one)

b) she might not enjoy being with you, and couldn't care less whether you get bent that she's not extending the special rates to you.
But being that you see her regularly and are a safe client, she'll still see you, just not at a discounted rate...

or,

c) who the hell knows?

You've asked about the special rates and (maybe, all-too-conveniently..?), that discounted rate that she's been running in her week-long ad, doesn't apply the day of your encounter. uhhhh,....wait. What?

-Did her ad specify any particular day(s) that special rate was to be in effect?

Either way, you put yourself in an awkward position when you start down The Ol' Chiseler's Highway, because you've already asked and have been answered.
Continued inquiries mean that you need to make sure that you don't bump your head as you rapidly slide down the other side of that bell curve.

Either continue seeing her and have this always plying in the back of your mind, or find another who meets your desired criteria. (BCD, Frequent-Fappin', etc.)

Me? I'm still searching for one who'll start giving, 'Roll Over Minutes'.

Good luck and happy trails.

Regards,
SKF

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[cabletex7]

I didn't go thru this whole thread and I am sure someone has already told you this.

You're over thinking this whole thing. After 8 weekly shots, I'm assuming that you thoroughly enjoyed your visits with her. When you heard about the specials you went into a tizzy and rather than gently bringing it up with her directly during a post-coitus cuddle, you decided to go ahead and screw the pooch and post it here.

Is it going to be worth it? Even if she starts giving you a discount now, do you really think she is going to give you what you really want, which is to fuck you like she really, really means it. You're going to feel a chill.

So, my suggestion is to tell her that someone hacked your account and offer to pay her an extra $50 per session. And after 8 more sessions, go ahead and buy that ring.

[Sinfonian]

Ok, I'll bite...

What the fuck is taint?