TRUE GFE POLL. Provider/Hobbyist

[Copierguy0]

GFE is attitude N services must include (BBBJ, DATY, DFK, and MPCFS, cuddling, MSOG.)

Ladies, if you don't Agree then DON'T advertise that you are GFE. If you don't kiss then you are NOT GFE

LIMITED GFE = Don't make me Laugh, You can't get a little bit Pregnant. Either you are GFE or You are NOT. Thank God for Reviews, they will tell us if you are GFE. And Thank God for the abundance of Ladies to choose from who ARE GFE.

Just say: NEXT

END OF STORY

CG

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

Ok guys tell ya what....

Since we are comparing what a real girlfriend would do then how about this...

I will call your phone constantly because you are 10 min. late getting to my hotel. I will then yell at you, tell you I am going to kill the other woman you are with when I catch her, and drain all the money out of our joint account. I will make you pay for a gym membership I never use because I would rather annoy you every night when we are both home. You will have to take me to at least 3 restaurants every week and buy me lobster, champagne, and Botox. Hair, nails, tanning, yoga, and you have to be nice to my parents.

Then if that's not enough, I am going to nag you to kiss me, daty, cry when you don't talk to me for an hour after your first pop, and put my bowling ball head on your chest while all you want to do is sleep. I will leave the TV on during sex so you can watch the game, then bitch at you because you are actually watching it!! I will ask you over and over again if you think I look fat, if I am still beautiful or if these pants make my azz look big, all the while I am probably only banging you once a week and thinking about your brother lol.

Now is it not much easier to go pay 2-1000 bucks, get off, and get the hell out of there without all the bs?? Even if your girl at home does do bbbj, she obviously aint doing it right or enough because you are still here lol.

Let each provider do what she feels is best for her. I don't offer what I do because I think it's what you guys consider gfe...I do it because I want to! If I wanted to please every guy out there I would be available 7 days a week and cut my rates by half lol.

Let's look at the other side

I still think it's the hobbyist that decides what is GFE. We are the funding party. I'm not trying to be disrespectful but just honest. I still haven't received any gifts from a provider. I have from a SO. I havn't had any providers wash my clothes.... well you get the point. I don't have an SO now so I choose to hobby. If I did have one then the hobby game would be out for me. Nothing meant to anyone who does and chooses to hobby. that's just my choice. When all is said and done it's a service industry and usually( not always) it's the buyer that sets the inventory

[MaxiMilyen]

Originally Posted by burkalini

Let's look at the other side

I still think it's the hobbyist that decides what is GFE. We are the funding party. I'm not trying to be disrespectful but just honest. I still haven't received any gifts from a provider. I have from a SO. I havn't had any providers wash my clothes.... well you get the point. I don't have an SO now so I choose to hobby. If I did have one then the hobby game would be out for me. Nothing meant to anyone who does and chooses to hobby. that's just my choice. When all is said and done it's a service industry and usually( not always) it's the buyer that sets the inventory

Guess all the ladies can now depart the board. I'm gonna go sit next to the beanie weiners on aisle 5 down at a local grocery store and hope a hobbyist walks by. Gotta get my label with the list of my GFE ingredients applied first.

[China Doll]

The buyers "set the inventory" by buying what they want, and, as a group, influencing the market; they do not "set the inventory" by telling individual sellers what they will sell and what they will call the product. There are gentleman who are willing to pay any lady regardless of assigned labels to her services anyway, so your point is moot.

I still don't see how it matters as long as everyone is clear about what is being offered...

[offshoredrilling]

Originally Posted by burkalini

Let's look at the other side

I still think it's the hobbyist that decides what is GFE. We are the funding party. I'm not trying to be disrespectful but just honest. I still haven't received any gifts from a provider. I have from a SO. I havn't had any providers wash my clothes.... well you get the point. I don't have an SO now so I choose to hobby. If I did have one then the hobby game would be out for me. Nothing meant to anyone who does and chooses to hobby. that's just my choice. When all is said and done it's a service industry and usually( not always) it's the buyer that sets the inventory

WOW I am doing something wrong. I have receved gifts. Two have cut my hair for free. One cleans my boat for me. I have taken and been taken out for dinner. movies and dancing, ect. I better get my act together and put a stop to this!!!!!!!

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by offshoredrilling

WOW I am doing something wrong. I have receved gifts. Two have cut my hair for free. One cleans my boat for me. I have taken and been taken out for dinner. movies and dancing, ect. I better get my act together and put a stop to this!!!!!!!

I guess your the best hobbyist that's out there today. Too bad the other 99 percent haven't received what you have. I still maintain the reality that when we hobby we pay for a service as much as it might go against the grain to some providers we choose who we perceive as the best . By all means I am not saying you should offer things you are uncomfortable with. China I do believe you are a class act and have said that I would love to see you even though you have some exceptions. With that said when you offer true GFE in the hobby sense as the poll shows you should show fantasy connection along with the array of services. To only show a fantasy connection I am sure is sufficient for some hobbyist but not the majority. As far as the gifts go I guess your the best. I don't really care for suck-ups. Just my opinion

[novacain]

OK, I'm gonna split hairs here there is a flaw in the wording. GFE is attitude N services must include (BBBJ, DATY, DFK, and MPCFS, cuddling, MSOG.) this should read GFE is attitude N services should include (BBBJ, DATY, DFK, and MPCFS, cuddling, MSOG.) It is after all an experience, is every experience with your real GF or SO the same every time............. I doubt it, if it is you have a mechanical sexual relationship(which maybe why you are hobbying). As I said all those items should be able to happen at the discretion of those involved BCD. As to the emotional content of your time together. No it's not reality it's fantasy, she's not your real GF and you are not her real BF but you both should be able to have the basic human emotions to play out the fantasy that you are BF/GF. If you treat her as your GF she in kind should return that. If you treat her as a grocery list of sexual items, then don't be pissed when she treats you as a walking ATM machine and vice versa! Just remember that when the time is up, it was just a grand orgasmic fantasy!

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by novacain

OK, If you treat her as a grocery list of sexual items, then don't be pissed when she treats you as a walking ATM machine and vice versa! Just remember that when the time is up, it was just a grand orgasmic fantasy!

I think I just had my first cyber "O" lol. Spoken like a TRUE Tennessian lol. Now where is my Kenny Chesney so we can go shopping.

[novacain]

Originally Posted by London Rayne

I think I just had my first cyber "O" lol. Spoken like a TRUE Tennessian lol. Now where is my Kenny Chesney so we can go shopping.

London, glad it was as good for you as it was for me now can we cuddle??

[Maggie McNeill]

Originally Posted by China Doll

The buyers "set the inventory" by buying what they want, and, as a group, influencing the market; they do not "set the inventory" by telling individual sellers what they will sell and what they will call the product. There are gentleman who are willing to pay any lady regardless of assigned labels to her services anyway, so your point is moot.

I still don't see how it matters as long as everyone is clear about what is being offered...

Thank you; you said that much more tactfully than I would have!

[Maggie McNeill]

Originally Posted by novacain

If you treat her as a grocery list of sexual items, then don't be pissed when she treats you as a walking ATM machine and vice versa!

Thank you, thank you, THANK YOU!

[jokacz]

The market will judge the viability of any business model.

Like they say in the automobile business, “There is an ass for every seat”.

[London Rayne]

Originally Posted by novacain

London, glad it was as good for you as it was for me now can we cuddle??

Cuddle? You must be kidding lol...get a real girlfriend for that lmao! I will bbbjtcimnqns until you drop baby, but keep all that other crap...joke.

[KlassyKelliAnn]

I believe that everyone has and claims their own definition of GFE in general.

For me, I chose #2 because while it is more about attitude and the way a provider treats the gent during the session- it is all about the demeanor- acting like a GF and not a machine or fly by night wham bam thing.

GFE should not specifically mean certain acts are included because a provider is your GF for the hour- because honestly if half the GFs out there were doing these things- us providers would have no jobs! People come to us because we do what others (wives, lovers, GFs, SOs etc) DONT do. So just because it is called GFE doesnt mean these things are included because it is not really something every girlfriend does anyway and thus the reason men go elsewhere to get that satisfaction. It is more about the attitude and the no mechanical FEEL of the OVERALL time spent and the way the session is carried out that defines the GFE act IMO, that is.

Just my thoughts about it.




XOXO
KKA

[burkalini]

Originally Posted by KlassyKelliAnn

I believe that everyone has and claims their own definition of GFE in general.

For me, I chose #2 because while it is more about attitude and the way a provider treats the gent during the session- it is all about the demeanor- acting like a GF and not a machine or fly by night wham bam thing.

GFE should not specifically mean certain acts are included because a provider is your GF for the hour- because honestly if half the GFs out there were doing these things- us providers would have no jobs! People come to us because we do what others (wives, lovers, GFs, SOs etc) DONT do. So just because it is called GFE doesnt mean these things are included because it is not really something every girlfriend does anyway and thus the reason men go elsewhere to get that satisfaction. It is more about the attitude and the no mechanical FEEL of the OVERALL time spent and the way the session is carried out that defines the GFE act IMO, that is.

Just my thoughts about it.




XOXO
KKA

While I appreciate all the input the reality is GFE should include the services according to the poll. That's just the reality of it. I know the business will continue as it is now but if you want to know what the majority wants then you need to pay attention.