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Old 10-08-2011, 02:55 PM   #46
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When people say things so idiotic that there is no way they can have anything worth reading like this guy did they need to simply be put on ignore.
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Old 10-08-2011, 02:57 PM   #47
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It's ok....as I said to him in another post. "Enjoy your vacation" lol.

Did you notice that Chica put his original post back then showed him quoting HIMSELF after? LOL priceless!
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Old 10-08-2011, 03:04 PM   #48
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Lets keep it on topic here please
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Old 10-08-2011, 04:43 PM   #49
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I really like this lifestye its my high...I get such a rush its great
I went to school and got my cert for a medical assistant it was fun learning but to be in a doc office everyday to work is no fun and I can't work my own hours and I can't travel much
But being a provider I can choose any city I would like to go and just go and work and enjoy and the trip pays for itself I mine as well do it while I'm young and work later in life.and I don't want to be 35 yrs old and look back at my life and see all I did was live to work and work to live.
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Old 10-09-2011, 08:30 AM   #50
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Ha ha agreed. There is no way in hell I could raise a toddler, have went to school, work for free in the hospital, and travel the world at my leisure without this business.

I don't think people realize just how hard it is to get a job that pays what we make here...even with a BS or Masters. Starting salary with those degrees and NO experience, is only 40-65k depending on the field. Take taxes out, and you're not making what you do here...and you are putting in 50 hr. weeks.

You can make more in sales these days vs. with certain degrees...pretty sad considering the average student loan debt is 50k...over 80 if you attend a private school.

Providing is one of few jobs that if you go broke one day, you can make it up in an hour. It's a false sense of security when you think about it.

There are more risks here than any other job as well... being found out, stds, getting robbed, raped, killed, arrested, etc. The rates are according to the risks we take...not really for screwing strangers. That's the easiest part of this job IMO.
Damn that was a good post and really put things in perspective for me in terms of what you ladies do. Wow just wow.
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Old 10-09-2011, 09:33 AM   #51
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Damn that was a good post and really put things in perspective for me in terms of what you ladies do. Wow just wow.
Doesen't it though? Having sex with you guys is the fun part. It's the rest of that crap that really makes us want to charge what we do.
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Old 10-09-2011, 10:44 AM   #52
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Doesen't it though? Having sex with you guys is the fun part. It's the rest of that crap that really makes us want to charge what we do.
Interesting response. I know this thread is about what motivates providers, but what motivates me is a need to connect on more than just a physical level. The ONLY providers I see more than once are the ones who truly seem to enjoy our time together and with whom there is some kind of connection, beyond the obvious physical? And these are really few!
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Old 10-09-2011, 10:55 AM   #53
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Well said...I tend to feel the same way. I can see anyone for an hour mind you, but the ones I spend more time with are the ones that have impressed me beyond their wallet.
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Old 10-09-2011, 11:03 AM   #54
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Money=Motivation...Civie & Hobby World..

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Old 10-09-2011, 12:18 PM   #55
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That a lot of questions Let me see if i can answer them one by one!

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Is it really easy? Yeah, from afar, it may look easy-- lay back, let some guy screw you, suck some strange guy's cock, moan at the right time, etc, etc, etc..

"She just laid there" does not work for top notch companions. Sure, there is a subset of providers who will chew bubble gum, watch fav soap opera and text while you are screwing her, but these girls usually leave the biz as quickly as they enter it

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However, strip away the basics. It isn't just sex for money. It is a sophisticated operation.
You bet it is! Internet has changed the industry. For once, it allowed ladies with day jobs, degrees and sophistication to enter the industry.

These ladies actually know big words like SEO, risk reward analysis, etc.

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Do you girls consciously ensure you maintain a certain image?
Absolutely, and image is not just about the appearances. Some men love curvy ladies, some men love spinners, some go crazy over man made boobs, other won't see anyone who's been enhanced, list can go on forever.

To me, maintaining "image" is not just about the appearance, it is about maintaining expectations.

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Forget about looks and focus in on the business side. How easy is it to advertise? How many websites are you on? Are they all up to date? Do you do market research to find out in city X they expect activity Y, but in city Z, activity Y is not a big issue. Do you compare donation rates based on your expectations or the current market's expectations?
Actually after being a companion for 2 years I learned so much about on line marketing and websites that i opened my own main stream on line based business. One can't be successful escort today without knowing a thing or two about on line commerce.


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How do you live a double life without your escort persona/life encroaching on your real life?
I've noticed that majority of well to do, balanced, emotionally stable companions have one commonality - they actually HAVE a real life. Anyone who does not extend some effort and allows escorting to completely take over their life gets burned out pretty quickly.


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Is being an escort really easy?
Hell no! But its a lot of fun
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Old 10-09-2011, 12:21 PM   #56
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Totally agree with everything Lina posted.
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Old 10-09-2011, 01:21 PM   #57
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I'm relatively new to the boards but I must say London, Ive enjoyed reading your comments on all the different topics here. I don't quite get "the one you love to hate" thing on your avatar though. Although you are beautiful woman, I think I would enjoy an evening with you and a couple bottles of good wine in conversation as much as anything sexual that one may experience. Beauty and brains is a hard combination to find! Maybe someday...
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Old 10-09-2011, 01:24 PM   #58
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I'm relatively new to the boards but I must say London, Ive enjoyed reading your comments on all the different topics here. I don't quite get "the one you love to hate" thing on your avatar though. Although you are beautiful woman, I think I would enjoy an evening with you and a couple bottles of good wine in conversation as much as anything sexual that one may experience. Beauty and brains is a hard combination to find! Maybe someday...
Wait til you get into a debate with me, and you'll get the avatar comment lol.
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Old 10-09-2011, 01:34 PM   #59
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Doubtful...would only attract me more as I love to hear other views. I'm sure it would be a lesson well recieved
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Old 10-09-2011, 07:30 PM   #60
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I'm relatively new to the boards but I must say London, Ive enjoyed reading your comments on all the different topics here. I don't quite get "the one you love to hate" thing on your avatar though. Although you are beautiful woman, I think I would enjoy an evening with you and a couple bottles of good wine in conversation as much as anything sexual that one may experience. Beauty and brains is a hard combination to find! Maybe someday...

Better keep her mouth full or you will regret it.
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