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sixxbach · 10-22-2011, 04:36 PM

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Originally Posted by Booth

Nice catch, GG. What's up with that, Sixx? Or is it Sixxx?

It isn't me. I was rumored to be humpty at one time.....

sixx

WyldemanATX · 10-22-2011, 05:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Booth

You, Sixx and Sixxx?

That's not funny! I am so disappointed in you Booth.

Actually I wanted Maxeen, Maci, and Darien.

Sexy Roxanne · 10-22-2011, 05:28 PM

Nice 2 Sixx's.....NOT!

The "real" sixx, it is not professional for another lady to not give a reference AND to call said client and TRY to get him to see her instead. For all she knows he very well may HAVE wanted to see her Thursday too.

IF she does NOT want to give references then SHE/any lady, needs to make that KNOWN to their clients and providers, so we don't bother asking!

Now SIXX, think if the shoe was on the OTHER foot and there was this pretty young thing you have been getting at in chat from Dallas.... Just so happens she is here and YOU want to see her AND none of your references will VOUCH for YOU?!

Would you be pissed? I am sure you will say no, just so you can keep White Knighting, but in TRUTH you'd be pissed.

sixxbach · 10-22-2011, 05:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Sexy Roxanne

Nice 2 Sixx's.....NOT!

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Now SIXX, think if the shoe was on the OTHER foot and there was this pretty young thing you have been getting at in chat from Dallas.... Just so happens she is here and YOU want to see her AND none of your references will VOUCH for YOU?!

Would you be pissed? I am sure you will say no, just so you can keep White Knighting, but in TRUTH you'd be pissed.

If I send her my P411 info and she won't see me... fuck it, not worth the hassle.

sixx

Maxeen Monroe · 10-22-2011, 05:43 PM

Beside all of that Six, you liken it to a dog eat dog world right? Ok, so you're saying it's ok to be aggressive and on the hunt because it's a rough time all around. Yet, you HATE threADs and jump on the chance to complain....yet you're saying you can understand her contacting the client and pushing for him to wait for her to get to town almost a week away? For Godsake man! PUHLEEEZ!

BLove, you said it well. I agree.

This is amazing that someone would even defend the behaviour at all.

I'm thinking I need to start pushing and being aggressive! Look out! Next time I receive a ref request I will call you, pressure you and deny the request and HEY!!!!! I'm understood right? Get the fuck out of here!

WyldemanATX · 10-22-2011, 05:47 PM

I wonder if Maci is ever gonna respond.... Well we are awaiting the cat fight... I am tired of the Dog and cat fight...

mastermind238 · 10-22-2011, 05:53 PM

Consider this ... every now and then I find that some provider's P411 page is temporarily unavailable. Invariably, when I contact P411 about this situation, I'm told it's because the provider failed to respond to a request from a client for a "Provider OK." There are probably many other reasons for a P411 page to be suspended, but that's the only one I've encountered.

Is a request for a reference from a provider all that different from a request for a P411 "Provider OK?" I don't think so, and apparently the management of P411 feels that ignoring such a request is worthy of sanction.

Because I mostly see providers who have a presence on P411, I can avoid asking anyone for references. They're already there in the form of a "Provider OK."

sixxbach · 10-22-2011, 05:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

Beside all of that Six, you liken it to a dog eat dog world right? Ok, so you're saying it's ok to be aggressive and on the hunt because it's a rough time all around. Yet, you HATE threADs and jump on the chance to complain....yet you're saying you can understand her contacting the client and pushing for him to wait for her to get to town almost a week away? For Godsake man! PUHLEEEZ!

I have never been pressured by a provider to do anything but hurry up and write a review. The hobbyist can hang up the phone or tell her to fuck off he needs to. I sure hope some guy would not see Maci or anyone because of pressure.

This is amazing that someone would even defend the behaviour at all.

I'm thinking I need to start pushing and being aggressive! Look out! Next time I receive a ref request I will call you, pressure you and deny the request and HEY!!!!! I'm understood right? Get the fuck out of here!

Go ahead and I will just hang up on you, not a big deal. No provider has power on a guy for him to CHOOSE who he sees.

sixx

Maxeen Monroe · 10-22-2011, 05:57 PM

Six, you ignore my point. Is it ok for me to cold call a client when I get a ref request or not????

WyldemanATX · 10-22-2011, 06:00 PM

It is a warm call if you have seen him before....You warmed him up for her to strike while the iron was hot.

Maxeen Monroe · 10-22-2011, 06:03 PM

And btw, the client is as sweet as pie.
I can see why she wants to keep him for herself but it is still NOT OK.

He is no victm so everyone can just stop. He is voicing his experience to me and y'all are basically blaming the harrassment on him! Give me a fucking break! "Ooooh, I wouldn't be forced" or "If it was me...." STFU! Seriously, it's her fault NOT his! What is wrong with this picture?!!!!!

ElisabethWhispers · 10-22-2011, 06:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Maxeen Monroe

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This is amazing that someone would even defend the behaviour at all.

I'm thinking I need to start pushing and being aggressive! Look out! Next time I receive a ref request I will call you, pressure you and deny the request and HEY!!!!! I'm understood right? Get the fuck out of here!

I won't defend it, I am GREAT with giving references, but I don't get overly concerned when ladies do NOT give references or ... even worse ... go behind my back and try to wrangle the appointment away from me.

If she feels that she needs to do that, it's her life and she's the one that has to look in the mirror.

I have a close friend in Dallas who just doesn't give references. A few years ago, I did ask her why and didn't really get an answer to speak of. We're still friends. Everyone is different.

It would be great if we were always just here for each other, etc. Rah rah sisterhood. Yeah, right. It's just not like that.

But it's not like that in the regular world, either. When I was involved with the non-profit sector with all female staffs, Jesus ... those women would eat their young!!! I don't see the viciousness here (well, most of the time!) that I've seen in the corporate world.

Of course ... I tend to surround myself with the really nice ladies! LOL.

Sorry you're so upset. But it's best to shake those feelings off and go forward. You'll sleep better!

Hugs from chilly Chicago,
Elisabeth

P.S. Just because someone else is being difficult, or just not acting appropriately, doesn't mean that you should change your attitude. Be above the fray. Honestly ... it just works better that way!!!

Maxeen Monroe · 10-22-2011, 06:05 PM

Dear dear dear Wydleman (Or however you spell it) wtf r you talking about? Let us have a show of hands on how many clients want to be "warm" or "cold called . . . .anyone . . .anyone. . .bueller...bueller...

WyldemanATX · 10-22-2011, 06:10 PM

Just joking with ya Maxy.

WyldemanATX · 10-22-2011, 06:11 PM

Come on Maci defend yourself.