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Old 06-21-2020, 09:17 AM   #61
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Is she housebroken yet
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Old 06-21-2020, 09:55 AM   #62
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Flipping the narrative again,ANSWER THE FUCKING QUESTION
Gladly. Here's the reality. What these girls may or may not do with their money is none of my business. Much like it's none of my business what anyone would do with their money if i was paying them to represent me in court. Or wait on tables in my establishment. And granted, it's always possible that this business may be more a sign of desperation than someone being a waitress or a lawyer, but that doesn't always have to be the case. Nevertheless, when deciding whether or not to do business with someone, i will judge them solely on whether or not they seem to have their head on straight, in spite of where their money may go. Because if they seem to have their head on straight, then the safe assumption is that they are also paying their rent, their utility bills, grocery bills, and purchasing other legitimate things they may need to survive.

Do i hope a girl is completely clean? Absolutely. Do i feel any guilt to think that maybe, just maybe my money is going towards anything that may be causing them harm? Yeah, i do. But the reality is, a girl doesn't need to have holes in her arms to possibly end up dead over her participation in this business. So all i can do is attempt to weed out those who i feel are likely to end up 6 feet under because of their participation here, and stay away from them. And frankly, i'm more than comfortable with my decisions in that regard.

Now you, you on the other hand, you seek out the troubled ones. You want them to have issues. The more issues they have, the more likely they are to become reliant on someone. And your hope is that that someone is you. And so long as they're willing to give you attention, you're just as willing and eager to see them as anyone else is, irrespective of whatever issues they may have. It's only when they don't become fully reliant on you, when you don't get as much attention as you want to insist they give you, when they tire of your obsession with them and refuse to see you anymore, only then do you become critical of them and anyone else who sees them.

You're the lowest of the low on this board. And you're the last person who should be calling anyone out on anything. Christ, i got more respect for JB, Carlos, or Plasticman than i have for you. At least they're open about who they are or wanna be around here. You're just a loathsome, angry, bitter phony who has absolutely zero self awareness and you always have been.

There's my damn answer.
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Old 06-21-2020, 10:01 AM   #63
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So is it none of your business, or do you try to decide which ones might be making better decisions with the money you pay them? Because if you’re doing the second, your not really following the first....
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Old 06-21-2020, 10:38 AM   #64
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Is she housebroken yet

I thought not being... was part of her charm to her playmates I not being one of

LOL I found just having drinks with would go from fun to WTF back to fun ... etc.

If one enjoys the unexpected she be awesome drinks or as playmate



Sir op,
any plans for a side trip to Iowa ?
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Old 06-21-2020, 10:45 AM   #65
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There's my damn answer.

Yep, you just don't give a shit as long as you stay ignorant of reality and can get your wick wet.


Well, 3 strikes and you're out.


When they have a decent head on their shoulders it makes it all the more tragic.



Who knows maybe another trip to PA will finally take.


They say it takes 3 of those as well.
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Old 06-21-2020, 11:07 AM   #66
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Yep, you just don't give a shit as long as you stay ignorant of reality and can get your wick wet.


Well, 3 strikes and you're out.


When they have a decent head on their shoulders it makes it all the more tragic.



Who knows maybe another trip to PA will finally take.


They say it takes 3 of those as well.
jokacz one of my very favorite whores, who prostitutes herself a touch north of Albany, recently went underground.

I think she has some of the problems you're talking about here.

Anyway she won't return my texts but some of the male lesbians claim she'll still fuck them if they ask nicely.

I'm in mourning over this.

Does this make me any worse than I already was before this happened.

Please don't hold back at all to spare my feelings, I genuinely would like to know your opinion.
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Old 06-21-2020, 11:11 AM   #67
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Also forgot to add I do not think she has a decent head on her shoulders and from what I can tell she probably never did.

Excellent physical appearance.
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Old 06-21-2020, 11:17 AM   #68
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jokacz one of my very favorite whores, who prostitutes herself a touch north of Albany, recently went underground.

I think she has some of the problems you're talking about here.

Anyway she won't return my texts but some of the male lesbians claim she'll still fuck them if they ask nicely.

I'm in mourning over this.

Does this make me any worse than I already was before this happened.

Please don't hold back at all to spare my feelings, I genuinely would like to know your opinion.

Honestly, I don't quite follow you.


Sometimes when they go utr they won't respond if you weren't a big enough cash source.
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Old 06-21-2020, 11:21 AM   #69
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Does this make me any worse than I already was before this happened..

Explain


OH, I get it now, you're asking if this applies to you as well as me:


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Now you, you on the other hand, you seek out the troubled ones. You want them to have issues. The more issues they have, the more likely they are to become reliant on someone. And your hope is that that someone is you. And so long as they're willing to give you attention, you're just as willing and eager to see them as anyone else is, irrespective of whatever issues they may have. It's only when they don't become fully reliant on you, when you don't get as much attention as you want to insist they give you, when they tire of your obsession with them and refuse to see you anymore, only then do you become critical of them and anyone else who sees them.

No , it's just the ranting of a sick mind.
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Old 06-21-2020, 11:23 AM   #70
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Honestly, I don't quite follow you.


Sometimes when they go utr they won't respond if you weren't a big enough cash source.
She disappeared, re-emerged briefly, has gone underground again, and some of the betas are claiming she'll respond only to them.

It might be because of what you said - ie not being a steady enough mark.

My question is does being upset about her disappearing (ostensibly because she had some unmentionable issues) make me a bad guy, or any worse than I already was/am.
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Old 06-21-2020, 11:25 AM   #71
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Keep in mind I have never ever claimed to be a support system for these whores, although I think of myself as a lot of fun and certainly don't nag, stalk, or harass them. I also do not think of them as my girlfriend and try not to leave them with this impression as I'm familiar with the built-in emotional frailty the typical prostitute suffers from..
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Old 06-21-2020, 11:27 AM   #72
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So is it none of your business, or do you try to decide which ones might be making better decisions with the money you pay them? Because if you’re doing the second, your not really following the first....
Fair point, if you ignore my larger overall point. Is there not a difference between someone who might provide for the purpose of living their life, whatever vices notwithstanding, and someone who might provide to accomplish nothing but destroying it? How they may spend their money is little more than a function of either, so as long as i view them as doing the former rather than the latter, then as i said, what they ultimately choose to do with their money is none of my business.

One person might walk into a gun shop to buy a gun because she's being stalked by someone from here. Another might walk into a gun shop to buy a gun because he wants to kill his neighbor whose dog barks after 9:00. I'll judge the person, their motives and intent, not what they spent their money on.
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Old 06-21-2020, 11:34 AM   #73
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When they have a decent head on their shoulders it makes it all the more tragic.
And your empathy is just *so* obvious.


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Who knows maybe another trip to PA will finally take.
They say it takes 3 of those as well.
See what i mean?



You're left with nothing but "no i'm not" or "yes you are". You're offering nothing but obvious disdain over what you claim to be concerned about. As i said, lowest of the low.



Now, since i've answered your question, how about we get back to your visitations with Maggie B, Kristi Love, Hot Little Heather, who knows who else, and your starting this thread to encourage people to see SAB?
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Old 06-21-2020, 11:41 AM   #74
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My question is does being upset about her disappearing (ostensibly because she had some unmentionable issues) make me a bad guy, or any worse than I already was/am.

I suppose it could be written off to little head thinking, it can fuck up the best of us.


Now if she were trained in a certain profession, and lost the ability (license) to practice that profession because of her issues. And turned to hooking as her sole means of support, plus a sugar daddy or two. Then you should feel bad. But it doesn't make you a bad guy.
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Old 06-21-2020, 11:46 AM   #75
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I suppose it could be written off to little head thinking, it can fuck up the best of us.


Now if she were trained in a certain profession, and lost the ability (license) to practice that profession because of her issues. And turned to hooking as her sole means of support, plus a sugar daddy or two. Then you should feel bad. But it doesn't make you a bad guy.
Yes this would be a far sadder story, particularly if I were trying to convince myself, or even worse the victim whore, that I gave a shit about her or her self-inflicted predicament.

Taking part in the deconstruction of a weak individual's life is nothing to be proud of, especially if all you're getting out of it is a 30 second long, inept fuck.

The only thing that deadens the impact of how fucked up this kind of behavior is, is that you can pretty much bet that the whore is laughing her ass off at the deluded moron who's happily participating in the enabling of her behavior, every step of the way.
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