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guest060112-3 · 05-26-2011, 12:04 PM

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Originally Posted by Puffin

I am reading this thread and my jaw is on the floor!! I am one of those new, stupid girls that is NOT screening! A client told me on IM this morning about a girl that got busted...her neighbors got suspicious and called LE and they did an investigation on her! I was spooked and came to read some of the message boards and I found this one. I feel like a total idiot for not knowing about screening and not doing it for the past year! I have never had any problems, so I figured I was fine...big DUH!

Well like Maya Angelou says: When you knew better, you did better.

I'm on P411 as well, but I have never taken the time to figure it out. I am now! I have received emails from men I have seen asking if I will be a reference for them, and I always say yes happily. But I have never received a request from a provider. I am going to change the way I do business TODAY! Eyes wide open!

Well, hey, at least you found out sooner rather than later.

I recommend: http://www.theinternetescortshandbook.com/

Naomi4u · 05-26-2011, 12:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Puffin

I am reading this thread and my jaw is on the floor!! I am one of those new, stupid girls that is NOT screening! A client told me on IM this morning about a girl that got busted...her neighbors got suspicious and called LE and they did an investigation on her! I was spooked and came to read some of the message boards and I found this one. I feel like a total idiot for not knowing about screening and not doing it for the past year! I have never had any problems, so I figured I was fine...big DUH!

Well like Maya Angelou says: When you knew better, you did better.

I'm on P411 as well, but I have never taken the time to figure it out. I am now! I have received emails from men I have seen asking if I will be a reference for them, and I always say yes happily. But I have never received a request from a provider. I am going to change the way I do business TODAY! Eyes wide open!

Bless your heart.

Honestly.. Amanda doesn't give a howto on screening.
You're better off checking out the link I just sent you via pm AND buying Amanda's book (Great if you're new).

Oh and you might want to check out this thread: http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=162287

guest060112-3 · 05-26-2011, 12:32 PM

^huh. I keep meaning to get it but have been traveling and it's not like barnes&noble is going to stock it

I would have thought she would have had screening in one of her books since there's now three.

Naomi4u · 05-26-2011, 12:40 PM

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Originally Posted by SugarBeth

^huh. I keep meaning to get it but have been traveling and it's not like barnes&noble is going to stock it

I would have thought she would have had screening in one of her books since there's now three.

No.

I have both of Amanda's book and it does not offer screening advice anywhere in it. There is advice about marketing'/branding, whether or not to get into this work and other things and that's about it. Again, No screening info.

When did Book 3 come out and where is it for sale exactly? I'm looking at that link you posted and I don't see a tab for Book 3.
please post the direct link here if you have it.

I hope Book 3 (whenever it comes out) does have screening info. It would help a lot of girls out for sure.

Oh I had a client buy both books for me from Amazon.com

guest060112-3 · 05-26-2011, 12:58 PM

Damn-- I could have sworn she had book three out since I was reading her blog a couple months ago and thought I saw her mention it was coming out soon.

here is the brief synopsis of what it's going to include though:
http://www.theinternetescortshandboo...nistration.php

crankiness!

Naomi4u · 05-26-2011, 01:03 PM

Book 3 is long overdue

. I hope it's out soon for newbies!

Tiffany Cums · 05-26-2011, 01:10 PM

wow, I had no idea those handbooks were in existance! I want!

When I first started out, I was lucky enough to find a nice hobbiest on BP very early on who directed me to ASPD and P411, from there I only visited with gentlemen from P411 with at least two 'OKs'. It was over a year later that I started taking none P411 members, and about 6 months after that did I start seeing newbies.

I am very thankful I was only new and dumb for about a 2 week period before I was helped and directed to the right place. That is the risk you run when you do not have anyone to help you out. Each time I see a new lady pop up in oklahoma, I don't hesitate to introduce myself and offer to help. I hope most seasoned ladies are doing this! It really does keep us all safe!

guest060112-3 · 05-26-2011, 01:17 PM

By the way, Naomi, I'm totally digging the thread you posted that has a bunch of threads and sites listed about references.

I had a guy a couple weeks back who I'm pretty sure tried to fake a reference through Yoko of Dallas. She didn't think she'd ever seen him. Now I want to go back and providerbuzz him for trying to pull a fast one.

Naomi4u · 05-26-2011, 01:20 PM

You're welcome.

You have to be careful being new. When the guys know that you're new or "sorta new" they WILL try to pull a fast one. Thank goodness no none tried that with me. ProviderBuzz and Dangerzone411 is where you should post the alerts.

Chica Chaser · 05-26-2011, 01:26 PM

http://www.amazon.com/s/ref=nb_sb_no...ndbook&x=0&y=0

Sounds like it might be the $25-30 you might ever spend in this business.

AimeeAims · 05-26-2011, 11:18 PM

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Originally Posted by IDMT

Even though a provider may be verified on ECCIE, I still find it quite disconcerting when a provider's sole method of screening is to ask me via text if I'm LE.

That's it. Nothing else.

Am I overreacting by backpedaling as fast as I can from her? If her screening is as flippant and haphazard as she makes it out to be then I can't help but wonder what else she is sloppy about (and not the good kind of sloppy).

Equally amusing is the number of guys who think that one review and an Eccie handle is enough to screen them by.

Mercenary · 05-27-2011, 04:56 AM

How would a newbie like myself go about getting references if no one is willing to give him a chance, there must be a starting point, is there other means of verifications if a newbie has no providers references?

LAVixian · 05-27-2011, 06:03 AM

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Originally Posted by Mercenary

How would a newbie like myself go about getting references if no one is willing to give him a chance, there must be a starting point, is there other means of verifications if a newbie has no providers references?

Yes there are other ways, you just have to find a newb lady & she can tell you what she requires.

JoanJet · 05-27-2011, 07:44 AM

[quote=MsElena;1321014]Don't knock all BP ladies. For some of us, that's the only venue to advertise in when visiting smaller towns.

To be honest, I've some of my best clients from BP and CL (when it was open to us).

There's ladies from all the sites who don't screen. There's local ladies here in Omaha that don't screen and I've had clients call me to tell me they're using me as a reference and guess what? No calls from the ladies. It happens when I tour also.

Well said BP was hot now it's not. Allot of men cannot sign up at web sites. I have also met very genrous men on BP.

Makayla of Missouri · 05-27-2011, 08:35 AM

I was once one of those girls, too! I worked BP and CL solely and did not do much screening. I was lucky for the first year.... but I also was in a small city where busts only happened once every other year or so. The first time through a LARGE city (and I picked the wrong damn city!), I had begun screening, asked for his references, but did not wait until the girls called me back.... and I was sooooo sorry I didn't!

Since then, I have asked other providers how they screen, read and re-read posts on how to screen, and did a lil research on my own. Needless to say, EC and P411 are new, GREAT friends in my search! I have called other providers for refs and they have called me for refs.... Thank goodness everyone I have talked to thus far have been wonderful and helpful... But there are a couple of providers I will NOT take a reference from for personal reasons... Not EVERY provider has helpful intentions!

I suppose I can say my experience has made me ultra 'noid.... i have turned down many clients I'm sure would have been perfecly fine... but safety and staying safe for my family and kiddos is top priority now!!!

Good luck in your future endeavors....

Makayla

Quote:

Originally Posted by Puffin

I am reading this thread and my jaw is on the floor!! I am one of those new, stupid girls that is NOT screening! A client told me on IM this morning about a girl that got busted...her neighbors got suspicious and called LE and they did an investigation on her! I was spooked and came to read some of the message boards and I found this one. I feel like a total idiot for not knowing about screening and not doing it for the past year! I have never had any problems, so I figured I was fine...big DUH!

Well like Maya Angelou says: When you knew better, you did better.

I'm on P411 as well, but I have never taken the time to figure it out. I am now! I have received emails from men I have seen asking if I will be a reference for them, and I always say yes happily. But I have never received a request from a provider. I am going to change the way I do business TODAY! Eyes wide open!