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Old 02-11-2015, 08:00 PM   #61
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Bingo, so much for my memory, thanks anita

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Old 02-11-2015, 08:30 PM   #62
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There are three scenarios to F&L.
Then there is the third one. This is my mode. It is Fuck and Like. For me to see a girl more than once or twice I have to like her and believe she likes me. Not in love with me just likes the fact I am her customer. As we get to know each other better then we learn how far we can go in that friendship. But always I know where my personal minimums are. And if I get to close to them and feel I might be drawn into a situation that would be detrimental I slow it down or stop and reasses. Always keep the big head in the game.
That being said I better go. I have a bunch of valentines presents to buy. ��
I have begun seeing a utr provider on a regular basis and like most others confess a "connection" has been established between us. As sappy as this may sound I look at our time together as "making like" which is more than just fucking but less than making love.
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Old 02-11-2015, 08:42 PM   #63
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I know one of things I like about hobbying is an escort knows how to talk to a man. i always thought if wives or civie girls could grasp that concept, the escort business would dry up. Escorts know how talk to us, stroke our egos, compliment us, thank us for gifts. keeps us coming back.
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I have f and left, had friendships and have liked many but every time the line has been crossed beyond that it has been a disaster. Careful it is a human experience and it is up to us, the hobbyist that it is predicated on $ and a fantasy.
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Old 02-11-2015, 09:18 PM   #65
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I know one of things I like about hobbying is an escort knows how to talk to a man. i always thought if wives or civie girls could grasp that concept, the escort business would dry up. Escorts know how talk to us, stroke our egos, compliment us, thank us for gifts. keeps us coming back.
They are getting paid they will say whatever they need to for you to come back and pay again and again and again.
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Old 02-11-2015, 10:07 PM   #66
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I know one of things I like about hobbying is an escort knows how to talk to a man. i always thought if wives or civie girls could grasp that concept, the escort business would dry up. Escorts know how talk to us, stroke our egos, compliment us, thank us for gifts. keeps us coming back.
You have to keep in mind that your wife has to talk to you about real life stuff. The bills, the kids, yard work, jondalart jr. not doing his chores. The escort gets the easier fantasy life stuff. (and of fistful of money when your time is up)
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but every time the line has been crossed beyond that it has been a disaster.
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Then there is the third one. This is my mode. It is Fuck and Like. For me to see a girl more than once or twice I have to like her and believe she likes me.
Great third option that has also werked well for me over the hobby years!.....
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Old 02-12-2015, 05:26 AM   #69
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Your "connection" is nothing but your $!
smh, you will be made a fool out of sooner or later.


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I have begun seeing a utr provider on a regular basis and like most others confess a "connection" has been established between us. As sappy as this may sound I look at our time together as "making like" which is more than just fucking but less than making love.
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Old 02-12-2015, 05:43 AM   #70
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Any one of you guys who think there is an emotional connection need to have your head examined because there is nothing but a $ connection. Try telling her no just once and you'll see how strong your connection is better yet ask her to give you one on the house and see her response. We are a means to them nothing more nothing less make no mistake.
They are expertes in what they do if they do there job right (GFE) you will fall in love and then they are on your pay role. Tell them you are going to see someone else or write a review about someone else and you better duck.
I know of a guy on here who saw someone else had a great time but won't review her because he doesn't want to catch flack from the one that thinks she has him on the hook. I also know of a nother who saw the same girl but yet writes reviews on the his "ATF" all the time stating that the ATF is the ONLY one he sees. What a joke on both parts. If he did a review the ATF would get so pissed she'd out him like she's done to a few others. They are masters in acting and blackmailing. here are some lines I'm sure we've all heard.
"I've stepped over the line with you and I've never done that before with anyone esle."
About 2 months into the connection she drops the "i love you" but only as friends. about 1 month later it turns to "I'm in love with you."
the hook has been set and she's smiling on the other end of the phone.
"I do it for my kids it's my job."
"I dont like my job but I have to do it Honey."
"all the others are just for the money but you have my heart."
The lines go on and on. Ive seen the most seasoned hobbyist go down in this game thinking he was different from all the rest and he was the only one she felt this way about. bahahahahahahahahahhaaaaa!!

PAY FUCK LEAVE!


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I know one of things I like about hobbying is an escort knows how to talk to a man. i always thought if wives or civie girls could grasp that concept, the escort business would dry up. Escorts know how talk to us, stroke our egos, compliment us, thank us for gifts. keeps us coming back.
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I have f and left, had friendships and have liked many but every time the line has been crossed beyond that it has been a disaster. Careful it is a human experience and it is up to us, the hobbyist that it is predicated on $ and a fantasy.
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You have to keep in mind that your wife has to talk to you about real life stuff. The bills, the kids, yard work, jondalart jr. not doing his chores. The escort gets the easier fantasy life stuff. (and of fistful of money when your time is up)
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Old 02-12-2015, 06:22 AM   #71
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A lot of good valid points. But in keeping with the OP's statement, she is simply trying to say that with her regulars the relationship doesn't end the minute you walk out the door. I talk to her daily. We actually do care about each other and that is pretty hard to find. And no one is denying that $ is priority one. Without it there might very well be nothing. But $ is what almost every aspect of the hobby is about. Most of us know that. But with my current regular (guess who lol) I know my investment gives better returns than with just any old provider. And she doesn't "force" me to see only her, that's my choice.
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Old 02-12-2015, 06:22 AM   #72
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Any one of you guys who think there is an emotional connection need to have your head examined because there is nothing but a $ connection. Try telling her no just once and you'll see how strong your connection is better yet ask her to give you one on the house and see her response. We are a means to them nothing more nothing less make no mistake.
They are expertes in what they do if they do there job right (GFE) you will fall in love and then they are on your pay role. Tell them you are going to see someone else or write a review about someone else and you better duck.
I know of a guy on here who saw someone else had a great time but won't review her because he doesn't want to catch flack from the one that thinks she has him on the hook. I also know of a nother who saw the same girl but yet writes reviews on the his "ATF" all the time stating that the ATF is the ONLY one he sees. What a joke on both parts. If he did a review the ATF would get so pissed she'd out him like she's done to a few others. They are masters in acting and blackmailing. here are some lines I'm sure we've all heard.
"I've stepped over the line with you and I've never done that before with anyone esle."
About 2 months into the connection she drops the "i love you" but only as friends. about 1 month later it turns to "I'm in love with you."
the hook has been set and she's smiling on the other end of the phone.
"I do it for my kids it's my job."
"I dont like my job but I have to do it Honey."
"all the others are just for the money but you have my heart."
The lines go on and on. Ive seen the most seasoned hobbyist go down in this game thinking he was different from all the rest and he was the only one she felt this way about. bahahahahahahahahahhaaaaa!!

PAY FUCK LEAVE!

Zactly...Thank you for the first value post with the most real world truths
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Old 02-12-2015, 06:42 AM   #73
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Despite the fact that with his deplorable writing skills he'd fail a 3rd grade english class, Treebark's message though difficult to ascertain, is 100% correct. To these girls in this jizz bizz, it is, it was and it will always be about $, $, and more $. If you think otherwise, then you are totally dilusional. After all, what was the compelling motivation for them to go into this illegal line of work and face the risk reward? The strong likelihood of earning alot of easy tax free $.
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Old 02-12-2015, 06:55 AM   #74
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Despite the fact that with his deplorable writing skills he'd fail a 3rd grade english class, Treebark's message though difficult to ascertain, is 100% correct. To these girls in this jizz bizz, it is, it was and it will always be about $, $, and more $. If you think otherwise, then you are totally dilusional. After all, what was the compelling motivation for them to go into this illegal line of work and face the risk reward? The strong likelihood of earning alot of easy tax free $.
The worst part though is the men who reward their lack of skills with overcompensation. The ladies do this because it is the most attractive form of compensation to them, sometimes the only possible one. And then some retard starts throwing down c-notes for pic messages to jerk off too? There are too many women out there to justify such frivolity as anything other than a silly whim.
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Old 02-12-2015, 07:32 AM   #75
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You are funny. I would fail when I'm on my desktop but when I'm on my Android tablet, it has spell check, auto correct, checks for proper grammar and everything else it almost seems I could have graduated college!!
I like the term Jizz Bizz.



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Despite the fact that with his deplorable writing skills he'd fail a 3rd grade english class, Treebark's message though difficult to ascertain, is 100% correct. To these girls in this jizz bizz, it is, it was and it will always be about $, $, and more $. If you think otherwise, then you are totally dilusional. After all, what was the compelling motivation for them to go into this illegal line of work and face the risk reward? The strong likelihood of earning alot of easy tax free $.
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