Your thoughts on Pimps/Managers/BF

[SD2011]

I thought politicians (from both parties) were the original pimps?

If only they dressed the part... (then it would be funny)

[Guest092713]

My Personal opinion 85% or more Pimped. The best ones know that the best pimp is one a client never sees these are the good ones. Hell if a girl wants to give a dude half or more of her money for really nothing besides a little
Marketing knowledge that's her fault. Befor u get a pimp I would be glad to show u the ropes to the point u can do it without one and do it safely. And i don't Want a bitch ass penny from you! Just want to see u keep that money u earned, nobody's cummed in his face why is he getting the money?? He smart get ahead by keeping what's urs. Hmu if u need some direction.

[wellendowed1911]

Originally Posted by biglatinmale

I believe a bf is like a pimp, what type of guy lets his woman in this business with all the potential dangers? Most likely a lazy ass fast talking hustler.

I think you are taking it way too far- I can name at least 10 other professions that are far more dangerous. You also do realize that there are porn stars who are married or have boyfriends? Escorting is not for everyone- I will grant you that- but I have met providers who have told me that they have boyfriends who are supportive of what they do- who am I to judge them- I see a lot of guys here criticizing escorts who have BF's or maybe married but what about the hobbyist on here who are married or have girlfriends yet they see providers- should we point a finger at those guys? Or what if Providers started stereotyping guys who have girlfriends or married?

Latinmale if you want to call boyfriends who allow their gf's to escort as lazy fast talking hustlers- then tell me what type of man that takes vow's in marriage goes and see's an escort? You see where I am going with this?- Lets stop the name calling and judging as long as the woman is not getting beat or the pimp is not hiding in the closet I could care less. I have met some very intelligent providers in my years of hobbying. I mean in the entertainment field musicians, comedian, actors, etc all have bookers/agent who arrange appointments/dates/gigs,set up emails- they don't do it for charity it requires fees- heck you wouldn't call them pimps??

[pfmtony]

It's interesting to think about. I don't think I will ever get married again. If my SO and I split up would I be the BF of a provider. Possibly, but there would have to be a lot of trust and honesty. She would have to be a safety first girl and I'd prefer her working hours immitate mine. I wouldn't want her working out of my place or our place either. I think its workable but there are a few concerns. Also would I be allowed to see other women she approves of?

It could work, but it sure sounds complicated.

[Guest092216]

Personally, I would have a hard time respecting a guy who is ok with other guys laying even one finger on me. Call me old fashion. I also could not have a personal love interest and continue being intimate with other men. For me, the two do not mix at all.

I enjoy being an escort precisely because I have no desire for a real relationship at this point in my life. I was married twice, two children from each marriage. As painful as it was to let go of my second marriage, the worst part was explaining to my older two children that a father figure that I was solely responsible for bringing into their lives (to trust and connect with) wasn't going to be there anymore. After that I decided to stay single until they are grown and out of the house.

To each there own though. Some people CAN and DO make it work. I, personally, can't do it.

[Guest092713]

Hotnurse I'm bout to call u more than old fashioned bc u dnt talk to me no more...

[Copierguy0]

This profession will never be legalized, too much money involved, it can’t be controlled and Uncle Sam can’t get his cut. Only the smart ones get in, make what they can, and get out. I just wish there was some way to make a provider save for that departure time. Too many providers work their ass off, leave penniless and in worse shape than when they arrived. Some even return at a later date, thinking they can do it better the second time around, only to get in deeper to this addicted profession.

“I think this covers 100% of all the people on this board”

ALL men know that women don’t like to give money to any man instead; they give what they know a man really wants. “PUSSY”

(One or more of the 9 categories below pertains to YOU)

MAN or WOMAN: Are you a pimp, a pimp wannabe, madam, manager, agency, handler, independent, or any combination thereof if:

1) If you have helped a provider in any way, shape, or form:
2) If you have seen/called/PMed/emailed a new provider from the Welcome Wagon, AD’s, or chat and:
A) gave her free advice and told her who to stay away from
B) took pictures for her showcase or posted them for her
C) wrote a review for reduced rate
D) used her as your avatar
E) told your friends
F) promoted her in some way
G) told her the going rate
3) If you promote her in a way that makes her more money and bigger clientele base or have access to her account
4) If you run her business for her and do her scheduling:
5) If you do doubles with her and show her the ropes:
6) If you get a special/reduced rate or free session:
7) If you receive money from her business:
8) If you give her a place to stay:
9) If you tour with her:

CG

[matrix0071]

dont hate on the way a person provides their means, so passive aggressive... you have not lived their experiences, so unless you truly know how a foxhole can break you and turn your emotions against everything.... .

people accept snafu because society has assumed it for them.. too many of the wrong people have the means to make a difference but choose ignorance (not talking about money)

[JohnnyYanks]

Originally Posted by Copierguy0

... One or more of the 9 categories below pertains to YOU ...

Wrong.

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by wellendowed1911

I think you are taking it way too far- I can name at least 10 other professions that are far more dangerous. You also do realize that there are porn stars who are married or have boyfriends? Escorting is not for everyone- I will grant you that- but I have met providers who have told me that they have boyfriends who are supportive of what they do- who am I to judge them- I see a lot of guys here criticizing escorts who have BF's or maybe married but what about the hobbyist on here who are married or have girlfriends yet they see providers- should we point a finger at those guys? Or what if Providers started stereotyping guys who have girlfriends or married?

Latinmale if you want to call boyfriends who allow their gf's to escort as lazy fast talking hustlers- then tell me what type of man that takes vow's in marriage goes and see's an escort? You see where I am going with this?- Lets stop the name calling and judging as long as the woman is not getting beat or the pimp is not hiding in the closet I could care less. I have met some very intelligent providers in my years of hobbying. I mean in the entertainment field musicians, comedian, actors, etc all have bookers/agent who arrange appointments/dates/gigs,set up emails- they don't do it for charity it requires fees- heck you wouldn't call them pimps??

I believe the thread is called "Your thoughts on Pimps/Managers/BF" and was posting my opinion on the matter, I don't think musicians, comedian, actors would fall under the same category.

I think a Booker might be a good idea for the high end ladies for scheduling/screening purposes, I guess i responded thinking as bf, would I put my so/gf/wife in a potential dangerous situation? The answer would be "NO"

The beauty of this discussion is everybody has their views/opinions Do what works for you.

[daty/o]

Originally Posted by Copierguy0

I just wish there was some way to make a provider save for that departure time. Too many providers work their ass off, leave penniless and in worse shape than when they arrived. CG

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[Guest092216]

Originally Posted by Copierguy0

This profession will never be legalized..

How many things have they said that about in our nation's short history??? Pretty much every equal rights advancement and most recently, marijuana. Thoughtful and rational dialogue is the first step to change.

It may not be legalized in my time but that is no reason not to support and advance the bigger picture.

[wellendowed1911]

Originally Posted by biglatinmale

I believe the thread is called "Your thoughts on Pimps/Managers/BF" and was posting my opinion on the matter, I don't think musicians, comedian, actors would fall under the same category.

I think a Booker might be a good idea for the high end ladies for scheduling/screening purposes, I guess i responded thinking as bf, would I put my so/gf/wife in a potential dangerous situation? The answer would be "NO"

The beauty of this discussion is everybody has their views/opinions Do what works for you.

Understood and we agree to disagree- but my reference to different artist is that most do not schedule/promote gigs etc on their own- they have someone to do it for them and whoever is doing it for them take a cut or is paid a fee. You may pm a lady on here and it could be someone else that is responding- which isn't an issue for everyone. I agree if the woman isn't high volume probably no need for a booker- but there may be a woman who is not computer literate and may hire someone to post an ad or create a page.

[SD2011]

I have to agree with the nurse. If a guy knows his (supposed) significant other (gal) is working as a provider and he doesn't care or want to help get her into a position where she doesn't work as a provider, then I suspect he doesn't really give a shit about her in the longer term of life partnership aka "love" (especially if he's partaking of her working income).

Sadly, I bet there's plenty of that going on...

But to each their own.

[matrix0071]

reminds me of a couple of guys in the 101st, who sent their paychecks home to wife and very rarely received letters from home