Black women in the industry

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Red Tex

I have only been with one black woman back in a studio. It was a good time and I was looking for a twist.

No, I do not see black women. Most of the ones I meet in the strip club are loud and pushy. Also, somewhere inside of me is some racism. I am not happy about it, but it is there.

I do not like any ass shaking. Most black girls really like shaking their ass. I am even more put off when white women do it(once again the racism comes out). I do not find it erotic at all, I see it as demeaning.

OMG Thank you so much for commenting!! I totally understand! I have been to black strip clubs and the ass clapping/ass shaking looked ridiculous to me. I REALLY do think they think it's the "Cool", "Sexy" think to do!

Red Tex, You don't see black women but have you seen one and thought "Hey she's HOT!" and just didn't see her... or do you not find them attractive at all/ just not like the fact that they're black?

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Browneagle

I think it is necessary for AA women to have a stronger sense of self than other Black women because they must constantly deal with subtle and explicit messages which tell them that they are valued less than women of other races. Those messages occur in many ways in this country and are especially harmful to young AA girls. For some, insecurity and jealousy becomes an issue as they grow up buying into certain stereotypes and negative images of themselves. That in turn causes them to lose an understanding and appreciation of self and not identify as afrocentric.

Wow! Very interesting, Browneagle. You said that well.

[lisa.lisa0302]

Well at least you were honest. As an Ebony provider, I appreciate that.

We all are not loud and pushy. Lol. I am actually very timid.
And not ass shakers, dude I don't even know how to dance. "Im the sit at the bar person" and watch everybody else dance. LOL!!!

Originally Posted by Red Tex

I have only been with one black woman back in a studio. It was a good time and I was looking for a twist.

No, I do not see black women. Most of the ones I meet in the strip club are loud and pushy. Also, somewhere inside of me is some racism. I am not happy about it, but it is there.

I do not like any ass shaking. Most black girls really like shaking their ass. I am even more put off when white women do it(once again the racism comes out). I do not find it erotic at all, I see it as demeaning.

[Red Tex]

I have seen one black provider at the studio and it was a good time.

Most of the black dancers at the "white" strip clubs are physically beautiful, and their pole tricks on a whole are much better than the white girls. I can't get over the deep seated racism about mixing races.

I really think it is the race mixing thing that bothers me. And when it is black men and white women I really get perturbed. So, unfortunately I do have that generations of fear that many white men have built up about stronger black men. I don't care for it one bit, but it is there.

Let me say this, where I do not have any "black friends" that I see socially, I do have many black people I deal with on a professional business and religious level.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Red Tex

I have seen one black provider at the studio and it was a good time.

Most of the black dancers at the "white" strip clubs are physically beautiful, and their pole tricks on a whole are much better than the white girls. I can't get over the deep seated racism about mixing races.

I really think it is the race mixing thing that bothers me. And when it is black men and white women I really get perturbed. So, unfortunately I do have that generations of fear that many white men have built up about stronger black men. I don't care for it one bit, but it is there.

Let me say this, where I do not have any "black friends" that I see socially, I do have many black people I deal with on a professional business and religious level.

Very interesting! Thanks for your input, Tex! I myself enjoy the race mixing... I think it's a beautiful thing but I understand where you're coming from!

[drsmooth1]

I to like the the honesty Tex and the fact it wasn't followed by demeaning comments. It is much more educating when we respond to poll questions with frankness, when done tastefully.

[Guest022315]

Red Tex kudos for speaking your mind. Knowing is half the battle. Lisa goes against your notion of some black woman. ALthough she has a booty, she can;t make it clap lol.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by Thatdude

Red Tex kudos for speaking your mind. Knowing is half the battle. Lisa goes against your notion of some black woman. ALthough she has a booty, she can;t make it clap lol.

and Naomi has no booty. LOL! Well it's pretty small

[CarolinaGent]

Your booty is just right Naomi

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by CarolinaGent

I've seen a small booty and yours is far from small Naomi
It's just right.

CG, quick!! You still have time to edit this....I'm begging you!! For your own safety, these are not words any woman wants to see in print!!

[Naomi4u]

Hahahahah!!!! @ Ed! I know what he means! Thanks CG! You didn't have to edit it sweetie. Ed loves picking on me!

[catnipdipper]

Wish I could see it!

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by catnipdipper

Wish I could see it!

oOh love if I were to post a pic..it would hijack the whole thread and as you may already know it's not uncommon for me to hijack my own thread hehe. I don't have the stereotypical "black girl booty" as most would say. I've been told by black guys that I have the "noassatall" syndrome but white guys think it's "just right".

Anyways back to the op: This thread has gotten 1,279 views and only 86 responses. I'm sure there are some guys out there that are holding back with fear that they would be flamed. I really wanted to hear from them but Red Tex's post may have summed it up. Can't understand why there aren't more posters like Red Tex though .

I'm starting to think it's a regional thing. Black girls thrive in certain areas. One poster said there weren't enough quality black providers in Dallas. There aren't that many here either but they're all over Boston and NY! I have read on this board that guys in Dallas won't pay over a certain amount depending on the provider. I'm pretty sure providers only go to areas where they know they'll get their rate so that could be the reason why.

[billtheone]

Certainly a regional thing I would assume as well as a Country thing as well. Funny thing is many "African Americans" are of mixed race even if they don't fit the stereotypical look.

[CarolinaGent]

If the majority of the hobbyists are white, and most prefer white providers, that would make it tougher for black providers. This is probably more pronounced some areas of the country. Alot of black providers probably go to where this is less of an issue.
I like providers of any race, but since there isn't a huge demand here, the amount of quality providers of any race is low.