How many of you all ever bare backed FS a provider?

[Old-T]

Originally Posted by Lia88

You did nothing wrong. I was agreeing w/ you and your comment i just elaborated a little more thats all sweetie

I appologize for misunderstanding.

[seductrix4u]

[QUOTE=Tiny;1060423625]Seductrix, This post is in no way directed to you personally. You just bring up something that people should be aware of, but many aren’t.

The majority of women with gonorrhea, chlamydia, trichomoniasis, herpes or HPV are asymptomatic, and don’t know they have the diseases, at least until they get tested. This isn’t my opinion – just check the CDC web site.

Tiny, my healthcare provider is fully aware of all the tests to perform, and HATES that I don't wear condoms during BJ AND DATY. She knows that I am a provider and does her due diligence to keep me and my partners safe. I am tested regularly.

But thank you for sharing. In a perfect world, all of us would show up for appointments with our "negative" papers in hand--just like in the porn industry. My guess is that less than 10% of people in the hobby are tested regularly. And like you said, many STDs are silent so people shouldn't wait for symptoms to get checked out.

[garhkal]

Originally Posted by seductrix4u

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But thank you for sharing. In a perfect world, all of us would show up for appointments with our "negative" papers in hand--just like in the porn industry. My guess is that less than 10% of people in the hobby are tested regularly. And like you said, many STDs are silent so people shouldn't wait for symptoms to get checked out.

And since several diseases can remain undetected for YEARS, getting a quarterly test, and having that piece of paper saying "YUP, i am clean" Doesn't mean you actually ARE clean..

[Violador Mi Amor]

Originally Posted by Warptcuck

I barebacked a lit in the 70s and a little in the early 80s.
Once Herpes hit the scene, I quit.
I never caught anything.

I've barebacked and creampied hundreds, probably 700 women in my life, many of them streetwalkers. I really starting getting out of control since late 2004. I've had chlamydia once. STDs are overrated.

In 2018 I plan on having bbfscip with 50 to 60 women this year. It will be a great year.

[HoustonRiley]

The first sentence is you being a smart ass right??!!!!
Bc BBBj and Daty are both membranes coming into contact uncovered.

Originally Posted by seductrix4u

...NONE of us would do anything where membranes touch uncovered. Including SS (more common than you can imagine).

I'd say it's just what we get used to. I started doing BBBJ and never stopped. It's stupid. Admittedly. I've dodged a bullet. The only time I've ever gotten an STD was from my high school boyfriend in the 70s. Go figure.

I like to consider myself personally as a low-volume provider and yet, I see men who have hundreds of reviews, which means they have seen hundreds of women they haven't reviewed. Which means I've sucked thousands upon thousands of dicks, theoretically.

[Tiny]

Originally Posted by Violador Mi Amor

I've barebacked and creampied hundreds, probably 700 women in my life, many of them streetwalkers. I really starting getting out of control since late 2004. I've had chlamydia once. STDs are overrated.

In 2018 I plan on having bbfscip with 50 to 60 women this year. It will be a great year.

There was a guy on an international mongers board who said he'd been through 2000 or 3000 women in southeast Asia bareback and didn't get a single disease. He passed away. I don't know why, but suspect it might have had something to do with barebacking two or three thousand hookers.

Y sobre ti mi estimado Violador, there are three possibilities,

1. You have/had asymptomatic STD's
2. You have/had symptoms but didn't recognize them
3. You have a super human immune system and medical science should be studying you

One problem with STD's is that there are a lot of asymptomatic carriers. Some STD's may clear with time, or when the carrier takes antibiotics for an unrelated infection. Others stick around. It's like Typhoid Mary. She blithely goes through life without a care, but infects 51 people and 3 of them die. Some guy with HPV may never have any symptoms, but his wife may end up with cervical cancer and die.

[sashabenjamin]

Originally Posted by Lia88

I know thats a pretty Controversial thing in this Hobby...i was told alit if providers are oretty open about iffering it on this board... I Dont offer it myself...but have any of you all ever?

Do yall ever think of or want too?

Or Have you had any slip ups && regretted it?

Yes it's natural. Just because it's natural doesn't mean it's safe though. Yes it's pleasureful.

I am a provider, this is my job which means I proceed with caution. I will not offer bbfs. I don't see men who request or even hint this service. Std's are real. I want to leave this industry with great health.

If a lady is offering this service, is it not a thought as to how many other men have bbfs the provider? Is it not a thought about how many different providers this guy is doing bbfs with? So it's a huge circle of bbfs. Getting tested or not getting tested doesn't defeat the purpose that you're having multiple bbfs partners. It's russian roulette. HIV doesn't pop up immediately nor does hepaitis c.

I don't judge people who indulge in bbfs. Do as you please. I just assume they already have gifts that keep on giving or aren't afraid of stds? I have had men list misguided facts, which leads me to believe that some people are truly not educated on this matter and don't know better.

All in ALL. As you said.. I hope there's no regrets after bbfs actions. That's all I wish. Be safe everyone (:

[seductrix4u]

Originally Posted by HoustonRiley

The first sentence is you being a smart ass right??!!!!
Bc BBBj and Daty are both membranes coming into contact uncovered.

I am fully aware that BBBJ and DATY are unsafe. ANY ACTIVITY that touches membranes is unsafe. Meaning mouth to vagina, mouth to penis, penis to vagina, mouth to anus, cumming in eyeballs (yes, I hear that's a thing)...you get it. I bet the first time a provider gets chlamydia in her eyes is the last time she lets some dude COF without squeezing those suckers shut TIGHT!

I was just stating that the same people who judge BBFS will do SS, DATY, DATO, BBBJ, etc. Yet it's all the same, clinically.

I am not going to throw caution to the wind and offer BBFS. It's my choice. Nor am I going to mind anyone else's business if that is what is going on BCD with them. Do I think it's smart? No. But the girl who does CBJ doesn't think I'm smart either, so we all have our limits.

Like I said, if we're with the same guys and gals, we are like the porn industry and should practice safe methods as much as possible, including condoms and testing.

Yet I am guilty of BBBJ, DATY and DATO. So I have no stone to throw, and plenty of my own business to mind.

[soldierboy44]

Seducdrix, I like the way you talk. I too live in a glass house, so I don’t throw stones. Too bad other people don’t think like we do

[seductrix4u]

Originally Posted by soldierboy44

Seducdrix, I like the way you talk. I too live in a glass house, so I don’t throw stones. Too bad other people don’t think like we do

...this entire thread was intended as a "gotcha"--trying to see who's doing BBFS and who's not.

Listen, I am not trying to be Typhoid Mary up in here, but I also ain't the Virgin Mary. I cannot promise ANY of my clients that I might not, at some point, get something. I do my due diligence with testing and condoms. But if I'm offering services where our membranes are touching, and I DO, it does not matter if I was a clean provider at 9:00 am. That doesn't mean I won't become a dirty provider 2 hours later. It is the nature of this industry.

So we should all just go get tested and if dirty, go get treated. Then mind our own business, and we'd all be much happier purveyors of this incredible hobby.

Because if some client came to me and said, "Hey, I need to let you know that I contracted an STD," then all I could say is, "You're a helluva dude for letting me know. THANK YOU!" I'm not going to go on a goddamned witch hunt trying to figure out who he got it from. I'm gonna to go get tested and treated, and keep being a provider. I'll let my clients know so they can go get tested and treated if necessary, and keep being hobbyists.

So let's all just keep our own side of the street clean and have some amazing sexual experiences within our own comfort zones. Can we all just have some mind-blowing orgasms and get along?

[LimitlessJD]

Seductrix gets my vote for most sensible provider.

BBFS happens all the time. I personally think the providers I see pay a whole lot more attention to their health and safety than the chicks I meet on SeekingArrangement or a bar. Those girls complain about hating condoms and are probably banging a ton of guys BB, including frat boys.

[Warptcuck]

I have issues being able to cum while wearing condom. I can, but it's hard for me.
When I am CFS and it starts to feel good, I always check to make sure that rascal didn't shuck its raincoat.
It hasn't come off yet. I just worry it will one day.

[Warptcuck]

I have issues being able to cum while wearing condom. I can, but it's hard for me.
When I am CFS and it starts to feel good, I always check to make sure that rascal didn't shuck its raincoat.
It hasn't come off yet. I just worry it will one day.

[garhkal]

Originally Posted by Warptcuck

When I am CFS and it starts to feel good, I always check to make sure that rascal didn't shuck its raincoat.
It hasn't come off yet. I just worry it will one day.

Of the times i have had bbfs, there's been quite a few that started covered, but the motion pulled it off.. In those cases, i always stop and ask the gal 'do you just want to continue as is'.. I've had quite a few who said yes..

[tinypenis]

My penis is small and won't fit in a condom so I always have to do it bare.