I am responding to the statment below....
I just wanted to chime in here and point out the obvious...no one tells you that the hardest part of being a "provider" is the criticism that one gets for providing. There is no limit to the things that will be said about you.true, false or indifferent. In fact, the nastier the lie, the more damaging the result, the better it makes them feel. Be prepared honey....if you think that was rough, you may not want to know what's around the bend.
Even if you bend over backwards for everyone that walks thru your door, there will that person who just gets off on destroying you. It might be a provider, it might be a client or maybe it's family...Maybe you went out of your way to be kind to them, so they were especially nasty. Keep in mind too, we are not necessarily accepted for what we do and even on this site where members CHOOSE to play in the community....I lost count of the times I saw providers being called the H word or W word....AND LADIES DEFENDING THE GUYS THAT DID IT!
In the end, you really have to LOVE what you do and keep doing it for more than money because if it's just about money well, there are other thigns girl! Your skin has to get extremely thick and you have to KNOW that you love gentlemen and their company and pick wisely those you let get to you! Don't just let some hater get in your head!
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Originally Posted by Cristi Cutiepie
thank you sweety- honestly an older gent posted a review on me and stated I needed to improve my provider skills ---upset me some and with that decided maybe my skills are only enjoyed by those my age range then...I am not going to change for any man that's for sure
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