what are your thoughts about dating a provider?

[johnspice20]

A lot of "people" still believe that the earth is flat!

[slap]

Originally Posted by David Hasselhoff

Forget dating the provider. Been there done that.

I am currently DATING one of the mms. She can cook and good helping me stay on track of my schedules. We both play games on our phones and like the same movies. It works and I never been happier

Let me guess. The mms at Sun’s?

[Southwest guy]

Great knowledge and experiences shared on this post. I've dated 3 over the years. Let's be honest the thought has provoked most of us. I had some great times with all of them. But thinking I could help them out of the business and lead a what we call normal life was futile. There culture, views and priorities are far from most of ours. There professionals at making all of us think we're there love and boyfriend. Take it 1 hr. at a time guys! Also I got tired of hearing there sex was just business but I could only do them! Think that line is used alot! Good post!

[City_Punk77]

Originally Posted by Southwest guy

Great knowledge and experiences shared on this post. I've dated 3 over the years. Let's be honest the thought has provoked most of us. I had some great times with all of them. But thinking I could help them out of the business and lead a what we call normal life was futile. There culture, views and priorities are far from most of ours. There professionals at making all of us think we're there love and boyfriend. Take it 1 hr. at a time guys! Also I got tired of hearing there sex was just business but I could only do them! Think that line is used alot! Good post!

Thanks that's something I had to get drilled into my head. They separate business and their personal lives, those two will never clash.
You saved me some trouble in the long run.

[Bestman200600]

They are all woman and they want to be appreciated by someone. There was a very popular lady at Bali that I brought roses to on her birthday. She gave me a big smile and said I made her day. She rewarded me well for the favor.

[howdy_booty]

Imagine you did the same to a Hooters waitress. That is the effect.

[Schmedley]

I read with interest all the comments. Great information. The crazy hit matrix is spot on. Thank you all for the insight.

[bill sins]

Damn, some of these tales are just unbelievable. I can understand falling ass over heels in love with a young beautiful white girl provider but an AMP girl. Have to be out of your fucking mind. But you realize that now.

[King Stone]

Originally Posted by bill sins

Damn, some of these tales are just unbelievable. I can understand falling ass over heels in love with a young beautiful white girl provider but an AMP girl. Have to be out of your fucking mind. But you realize that now.

Spoken like a true MAGA American. Unbelievable!

[TheKing1]

Originally Posted by Chung Tran

Great point.. Extremely interesting. and I notice since my post, it has all been ''no how, no way''!

Maybe that's the nature of a thread like this? Confessors/ blamers, first, and the never-not-on-your-life crowd second. That last group, the did-it-and-I-am-mostly-to-blame group, is not likely to show itself. Hell, that first group is brave enough, it would take Sam Houston bravery to post you are part of group #3, LOL

First time I’ve been on here in years and it’s funny this topic pops up....

I dated one of the more popular providers on and off for two years, and as Chung says above, I am mostly to blame for the breakup. She was wonderful. I couldn’t have asked for more. Drinking? No more or less then any other woman. Self deprecation? Again, no more or less than any other woman. Once she left the business she was a great companion. Very supportive, very sweet, my needs always came first. She treated me very well and I treated her well for the most part. Our first split was because of my own insecurities. But she persevered and put the relationship back together almost singlehandedly. She never pushed for a green card, never asked for more than she needed and was perfectly fine living in any financial situation as long as we were together. But I was the one who had the thoughts of “maybe she just wants a green card” or “maybe she just wants money” we split again, and I was to blame for that. Of course, not having much choice she returned to the AMPs. After a few months she reached back out to me and we started talking, decided to get back together after she returned from another major Texas City..... but ICE had other ideas and she went back to Korea instead. I went to visit her in Korea. Met her whole family. Tried to get her back here but long story short we couldn’t make it work. Not a day goes by that I don’t think about her. I wish I would have married her when I had the chance.
There are good ones out there. Women who just don’t belong in the hobby. They are few and far between. I’ve tried again on occasion but can see through the ruse in most cases. And maybe a lot of it is just me.

[4MYPLEASURE]

I have been seeing a Subamp Lady for over 3 years. Like others have said, she claims she has to work to send money "home". She has some loans from business she owned that went under.

She had a "friend" that convinced her to come to the USA to do hair...well, it turns out the work was massage with extras.

I met her at an apartment as a client. After a few visits we became friends and a relationship developed from there. We get along well, except for arguing about clients, which she consistently says is just business and she has to continue working until loans paid.

She hasn't done L3 in a long time, and frankly if I ever find out she does, that will end our relationship. But L2 still bothers me.

I know she cares for me greatly...yes she really does. Last year she went home for a few weeks and both of us were worried about her being able to return to the USA. Our goodbyes were gut wrenching. I went out to my car and a few minutes later she came running to my car window just sobbing. I took her back to her apartment but she couldn't stop holding me and crying. I finally had to leave and when I got to the stairs, some 20 apartments from her, I could hear the wailing...like a hurt animal. That is when I knew she cared for me more than any Woman I had ever known.

So, it may start out about the money that you are willing to give them...but, f you are lucky, that can change to the real thing.

We get in arguments from time to time, but who doesn't?

Would I encourage others to pursue this kind of relationship...no way, but just know that finding that special someone is possible.

[Jayven]

Who in the right mind falls in love with someone who is paying for Seccs??

I stop after the 3rd or fourth to avoid these type of things... but I feel for you my comrade. I prefer to meet my Asains out in Carrollton.

I dated a cute Korean waitress one time. Turns out family comes first in their culture and if her family doesn't like you for not being korean there isn't much you can do, unless shes willing to get disowned by her family and choose you instead.

[adav8s28]

Originally Posted by 4MYPLEASURE

So, it may start out about the money that you are willing to give them...but, f you are lucky, that can change to the real thing.

but just know that finding that special someone is possible.

I agree with both points.

I would date Shea Veile if I could.

[4MYPLEASURE]

I might mention that this Lady is not a young 20 or 30 year old, and I would say she is more of a "7" on the chick scale. She is intelligent, funny, and I believe she is sincere...as she can be.

[Jayven]

Originally Posted by 4MYPLEASURE

I might mention that this Lady is not a young 20 or 30 year old, and I would say she is more of a "7" on the chick scale. She is intelligent, funny, and I believe she is sincere...as she can be.

My bad for assuming. If you feel strongly about her just follow your heart.

Mistake can be fixed, opportunities are lost.

I hope it works out Mon amie.