clock watching and time management

[gigi_gypsy]

Originally Posted by Audrina Monroe

I have music downloaded to my cell phone. I have playlist for HR and 2 HR dates. Once the music stops it is about time to finish up. I know at what point in the playlist that I have about 5 min left so that's my cue to make it happen soon. This way I am not looking at a clock or really concerned about time since I know exactly how much time I have left according to the music. I keep the volume down so it's not to distracting and try to choose songs that get me in the mood.

I love this idea!!

[Guest062912-3]

We have all had this happen to us. If I can help it, I make sure a clock is always visible. I will never turn my head to check it, but if the angle is right...I peek.

An experienced provider can usually keep track of time fairly well without a clock. I only have to check towards the middle and right at the end to make sure I am managing the time wisely. It is for the client's benefit as well, not just my own.

Sometimes at outcalls there will not be a clock in the room. If a client does not have one in the room, I consider that rude. There is no way he isn't also thinking about the time. He is FOR SURE occasionally wondering how much time he has left with this beautiful lady. By not having a clock anywhere in the room, he is most likely trying to confuse you so as to keep you there longer.

If this is this case, I will say something. If he acts upset about it, I will calmly and reasonably explain to him that if I am unable to keep track of the time in an unobtrusive way, then I must speak up. Otherwise I will be worrying about the time during the date and cannot be at my best.

If a client repeatedly disrespects my time, I tell him I will no longer be accepting him as a client. I state clearly on my website that I maintain the right to be as selective as I deem appropriate in choosing which clients to see. I am not so desperate for clients as to put up with having my time and services abused. And neither should anyone else!

Don't let the threat of a bad review keep you from demanding respect from your clients, ladies. On thing I have learned is that there are some legitimately good people in this business who will back you up if you consistently present yourself as a lady of integrity.

Thanks for reading my two cents!

<3 Carmen

[incognito isis]

Originally Posted by Carmen St. James

We have all had this happen to us. If I can help it, I make sure a clock is always visible. I will never turn my head to check it, but if the angle is right...I peek.

An experienced provider can usually keep track of time fairly well without a clock. I only have to check towards the middle and right at the end to make sure I am managing the time wisely. It is for the client's benefit as well, not just my own.

Sometimes at outcalls there will not be a clock in the room. If a client does not have one in the room, I consider that rude. There is no way he isn't also thinking about the time. He is FOR SURE occasionally wondering how much time he has left with this beautiful lady. By not having a clock anywhere in the room, he is most likely trying to confuse you so as to keep you there longer.

If this is this case, I will say something. If he acts upset about it, I will calmly and reasonably explain to him that if I am unable to keep track of the time in an unobtrusive way, then I must speak up. Otherwise I will be worrying about the time during the date and cannot be at my best.

If a client repeatedly disrespects my time, I tell him I will no longer be accepting him as a client. I state clearly on my website that I maintain the right to be as selective as I deem appropriate in choosing which clients to see. I am not so desperate for clients as to put up with having my time and services abused. And neither should anyone else!

Don't let the threat of a bad review keep you from demanding respect from your clients, ladies. On thing I have learned is that there are some legitimately good people in this business who will back you up if you consistently present yourself as a lady of integrity.

Thanks for reading my two cents!

<3 Carmen

Carmen, thank you for your input. I agree with all your saying. But many guys will get their panties in a bunch if you even mention a clock. From now on, I'm using my cell phone. That way, I don't have to ask the insecure fella where his clock is when there isn't one visible, I don't have to get caught looking at a clock. Because god forbid if I look at a clock. God forbid if I leave on time and I don't want to hang with you a minute longer and get taken advantage of.

[Guest062912-3]

Sounds like a pretty good plan

[charlestudor2005]

@Carmen & Isis

Be assured I will always be an outcall, and there will always be a clock visible. Yes, it is rude not to have one visible. As a matter of fact, I watch it, too, not to see if I'm getting my full time, but to make sure I'm closing the session timely. Some ladies have called me for clock watching, but it is only fair. Recently, I was so into a session, I stopped watching the clock, but the lady could see it and closed the session timely. I was having such a good time, I was surprised. But I was happy she kept track. I never want to be seen as taking advantage. Too many guys do that. I try not to.

[Ansley]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

I was having such a good time

Glad to hear you had a great time with your date.

[incognito isis]

Originally Posted by charlestudor2005

@Carmen & Isis

Be assured I will always be an outcall, and there will always be a clock visible. Yes, it is rude not to have one visible. As a matter of fact, I watch it, too, not to see if I'm getting my full time, but to make sure I'm closing the session timely. Some ladies have called me for clock watching, but it is only fair. Recently, I was so into a session, I stopped watching the clock, but the lady could see it and closed the session timely. I was having such a good time, I was surprised. But I was happy she kept track. I never want to be seen as taking advantage. Too many guys do that. I try not to.

Your a sweetheart.

[Naomi4u]

Charles? a sweetheart? interesting for sure

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by Ansley

Glad to hear you had a great time with your date.

Originally Posted by incognito isis

Your a sweetheart.

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Charles? a sweetheart? interesting for sure

Okay, what have they done with Chucky and who is using his computer!?!? Is there someone we should call??

[ALEXIS_ARIZA]

I like that idea...

Will have to apply this myself
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Originally Posted by Audrina Monroe

I have music downloaded to my cell phone. I have playlist for HR and 2 HR dates. Once the music stops it is about time to finish up. I know at what point in the playlist that I have about 5 min left so that's my cue to make it happen soon. This way I am not looking at a clock or really concerned about time since I know exactly how much time I have left according to the music. I keep the volume down so it's not to distracting and try to choose songs that get me in the mood.

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by incognito isis

OK but what about outcalls? What if you go to someones place and there is no clock visible? So you think it's acceptable to check your cell phone?

Undecided at this point!

Originally Posted by incognito isis

I think I'm just going to keep the alarm on.

Ah a solution and decision!

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

I don't even have a clock at my place

Hummmm whats going on here?

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

As long as I'm getting fucked good there will b no clock watching

I'm starting to understand! Understanding is good!

Originally Posted by incognito isis

Eccie Addict, you think thats greedy? WOW what about the clients who pay for 2 hours and ask me to stay the night "if I want" ?? Those men are big mac extra large super sized greedy.

Guys trying to get something for nothing, I hate that!

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Fuck a bunch of marketing u fuck me good , u stay

Really starting to like this attitude!

Originally Posted by incognito isis

you are the exception, not the rule. I'm glad you didn't take advantage of the womans generosity and you paid her accordingly.

Paying someone for their generosity? What’s that all about!

Originally Posted by incognito isis

I have come to my decision....I will simply use the alarm on my cell phone as well as wear a nice watch. I'm not a clock watcher, thats rude and just weird. But, I do need to know when the time is up. When the alarm goes off, we BOTH know time is up. If I chose to stay, so be it. To answer your question Chevalier from an earlier post, I would never donate time unless it was for chit chatting/relaxation. I'm not sweating up anyones sheets unless it's on the clock. I'm an escort, ya know?

OK Cell Alarm / Watch it's decided. But your not a clock watcher?

Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

Good lord!!!!!! Holy crap!!!! Damn my add!!! Seriosly novels on this shit??? To fucking funny!!

I think she's nailed it!

Originally Posted by incognito isis

No disrespect taken. As far as novels, I'm just into details I guess. When I tell a story, I'm always very discriptive. I can't help it. I try to give a clear picture of what I'm trying to say. So that may result in long posts.
Very True! And certainly not a bad thing!

Alarm / Watch session stops.. right? This wouldn't come into play!

HUMMMM?

HUMMMM?

Thats great. And like I said earlier, you are the exception not the rule. The reason why I keep score, is because if I didn't I would get taken advantage of. But it's nice to know there are people out there who don't try to take advantage of others generosity.

Here we go about that generosity thing again!?

Originally Posted by incognito isis

I've decided, I'm just going to use my cell phone. When it goes up, times up. I don't care how tacky it is. If I keep looking at a watch, then they're gunna say I'm a clock watcher!! You really can't win sometimes. Not unless you stroke, stroke, stroke that ego!

Decided again... but now we don't give a crap!? No one needs to call you a clock watcher, you've done that!!!

Originally Posted by incognito isis

Carmen, thank you for your input. I agree with all your saying. But many guys will get their panties in a bunch if you even mention a clock. From now on, I'm using my cell phone. That way, I don't have to ask the insecure fella where his clock is when there isn't one visible, I don't have to get caught looking at a clock. Because god forbid if I look at a clock. God forbid if I leave on time and I don't want to hang with you a minute longer and get taken advantage of.

ISIS you can get as mad as you want.. but I'm just trying to help you. I know you didn't ask for it. The good news it’s for free. Note: I’m not singling you out… but you did start the thread. Can you see the difference in attitude between you and let's say Sweet N Little? You’re certainly entitled to your option as we all are. And I for one am happy you do so. That is what this is all about. But when you contradict your self over and over you might get attention you don't like.

So here’s the deal in regard to clock watching from my perspective. First of all I know what an hour is! I ONLY do 1 hour sessions. Here is how they go.. 15 minutes allocated to get to know someone. 30 minutes to enjoy the amusement park. And 15 minutes for my exit strategy. Now I know there are guys that expect 60 minutes in the amusement park for 60 minute session. To that I say BS.

Let me throw something at you. You are Incognito, so many things are left to speculation. But for now, I will assume you are an honest person and claim to look like Gia is factual. That being said you would most certainly command prices at the higher end of the price scale. Excepting that, I assume you’re a low volume provider. Clock watching is seemingly of great concern to higher volume providers. One appointment after another. Well if that’s NOT you.... then what the hell is 10-20 minutes? Its smart is what it is. Reading your posts its obvious you know how to deal with guys that have issues. Get rid of the bad ones and keep the good ones. Now if you think an extra 10-20 minutes is taking advantage of you, then by all means watch your clock, and set your alarm and when times up it up. Then be nice and give the "Client" an option to extend his time. Hell, tell him you'd love it! Balls in his court. If he says no then you can say, "Well I'll look forward to our next meeting!" If he says yes... reopen the amusement park. You have a "THIS IS BUSINESS ATTITUDE" and there is nothing wrong with that! But I'm sure the last thing you want to do is discriminate or alienate against the nice guys who respect you and your time for a few inconsiderate ass wipes. Deal with the ass wipes accordingly!

When I see an ad that advertises that they are not “Clock Watchers” what I read is if we go over 10-20 no big deal! If you don’t advertise this way… an hour is an hour. But providers who have been around a while will tell you that you will lose repeat business. I’m willing to bet Sweet N Little doesn’t need to advertise. I think you can figure out why. It’s always good to keep an ad out in front of everyone, but some providers have all the business they can or want to handle. And most of them are NOT clock watchers.

Well that’s my spin on clock watching. I hope my insight helps you and other providers reading this as well.

[Sweet N Little]

Good call Still looking, thats a perfect sum up of the way I feel.
oh to explain the shout out to NJ ..ummm well lets just say NJ did me right I couldn't tell you what a clock was during that time.
And for the record Ive never ran an ad....but I like being low volume as that's what works for me so no disrespect to the ones that do.
The only clock I have at my place would be my cell phone, i cant even imagine setting an alarm, tacky tacky tacky.

[tuckahoe]

This thread should be required reading for all eccie members. Maybe a link to this thread should be posted in every local Hobby Hotspot.

I understand high volume women have to limit time in order to prepare for the next client. Personally, I prefer the lower volume providers. They provide the kind of experience I need. However, if I am with a lady who limits time, I want to stay posted on how much time is left. When I am in the midst of ecstasy, and have lost all concept of time, nothing is more disheartening than to suddenly hear "Your time is up, Bye".

[Still Looking]

Originally Posted by tuckahoe

This thread should be required reading for all eccie members. Maybe a link to this thread should be posted in every local Hobby Hotspot.

I understand high volume women have to limit time in order to prepare for the next client. Personally, I prefer the lower volume providers. They provide the kind of experience I need. However, if I am with a lady who limits time, I want to stay posted on how much time is left. When I am in the midst of ecstasy, and have lost all concept of time, nothing is more disheartening than to suddenly hear "Your time is up, Bye".

+1

[npita]

Originally Posted by IDMT

Hypothetically, if I were one of those dates you listed, how would I know that this extra time was something you chose to do of your own volition, and not something where I'd suddenly be but on the spot of having to compensate you for the additional time?

If you're hungry when you finish, offer to buy dinner.