Freebies.... What's the fuss all about?......

[Kit-4-Kat]

awww man... I knew I didn't wanna read this thread.

I've said it before & I'll say it again:

When there are no PRIVATE areas at least it keeps people HONEST.

[Kit-4-Kat]

Not that I offer freebies to known hobbyists, but... Wyldeman... If you are even half as hot as your avatar, I may just PM you one lonely night to see if you're hungry for some DATY of this sweet pussy.

I'm just sayin'...

If I ran into a similar situation at a non-hobbyist venue/event, I would not VALIDATE that as a freebie. It would be FREEDOM OF CHOICE.

[RALPHEY BOY]

Originally Posted by ztonk

I'm not sure what the takeaway for me from this thread is...

Should I say NO when a lady offers me a freebie?

Should I not mention that ladies have given me freebies?

So confused...

well in my opinion you should always say YES!!! or HELL YES!
if the lady feels comfortable with you to offer up an extra she is being nice, not all ladies have the 'meter' running non stop, thats just silly!!

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by RALPHEY BOY

well in my opinion you should always say YES!!! or HELL YES!
if the lady feels comfortable with you to offer up an extra she is being nice, not all ladies have the 'meter' running non stop, thats just silly!!

Plus it just cheapens a moment when a lady is willing to spend her time with you and then you put money back into the equation.

I had a situation years ago in Houston with a friend of BustyGirls that spent a few days with me over in San Antonio and got hurt and mad when I handed her some money on the trip back to Houston....

I think the biggest problem comes when you simply do not know if what is happening is due to the moment or about the money.

But if offered, Hell yeah say Yes.....

But I agree... Don't ask... Don't tell.....

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

First I would like to make it clear: when I said "I wish I had as many bitches as whispers" I was not speaking of any provider, the women he sees in the strip club, or anyone with a vagina for that matter." I meant all of the followers that are on his dick ready to give him some free back pussy. Furthermore, It's called sarcasm.

I really don't care what other women do or how they run their business. In my case if you call my hobby phone I can only have a hobby relationship with you. There are many reasons why breaking that boundary could cause unnecessary issues. I simply agree with the ops post. If you are spending time with hobbyists "off the clock" then keep it to yourself.

This board is really backwards. And so are some of these new providers out here. THAT IS MY OPINION, which I am free to express. I tried to RTM post 71, seeing that it is a violation of board rule 9; and I have no knowledge that anything had been done about it. Which gives me the conclusion that the MODS here are lax on certain people. I was given a warning about posting "that's not what she said". If you can not grasp that I was not the one that went and spread what happened in Info share I don't know what to tell you. Whoever did, obviously did it before this thread started. But what ever.

I would like to say thank you to all that dropped a line with support of my posts. I totally understand why they might not have posted here; because it's pointless. If one can't understand why I take my stance on this issue then it's no use trying to explain. You'll see; when a provider is calling you asking you why you wrote a review on so and so and haven't come back to see her goes crazy and tries to f up your life (it happens), or when your business suffers b/c more hobbyists send you (and other providers who don't give out freebees) requests asking for you to spend uncompensated time with them, or when this board really does turn in to hookups only central. The only thing I was doing here is stating my opinion and correlating events. Freebees=hobbyists thinking you will do it for them too. "whats the fuss about" ...... all the other personal attacks, asking if I fell in love with a hobbyist (never, I am professional and that is what you are paying for), implying that I don't have regulars (why do you think I don't post ads much) random cultural innuendoes, and statements of how i'm not your type are completely off topic and are quite revealing of your nature. Good luck with that.

I too do give out freebees, on 2 occasions:

1. When you meet me outside of the hobby, we are mutually attracted, and consent to spending "free" time with each other.

2. When my rent, bills, and tuition are free.

I will not post in this tread anymore.

"Keep calm, and carry on"

Good day folks! Feel free to talk shit behind my back. This back.

[Carl]

Jasmine, I'd tell you that if you bend over anywhere in my general vicinity, that I reflexively pucker up, my tongue starts to get hard, and I start to salivate heavily. But I think you probably already know that.

[Spacemtn]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

This board is really backwards. And so are some of these new providers out here. THAT IS MY OPINION, which I am free to express. I tried to RTM post 71, seeing that it is a violation of board rule 9; and I have no knowledge that anything had been done about it. Which gives me the conclusion that the MODS here are lax on certain people. I was given a warning about posting "that's not what she said". If you can not grasp that I was not the one that went and spread what happened in Info share I don't know what to tell you. Whoever did, obviously did it before this thread started. But what ever.

Ebony Jasmine Love Austin,
In response to the above quote: We do not discuss discipline with anyone other than the person directly involved. As such, you have no way of knowing what has or has not been done regarding post #71. Since you brought up the warning, it was for the following:
#20 - The men and women of our board each have their respective private areas in which secure content is posted and a greater freedom of expression allowed. Each member is responsible for keeping the information in any of the private secure areas (Men's Lounge, Provider Powder Room, The Rest of the Story, posts which have been tagged as private) 100% restricted to the members who are intended to have access to that material. Revealing ANY content which was posted in one of the men's or women's private sections of the board will result in penalty, up to and including loss of your access to these areas. Full cooperation may result in a less severe penalty, and each violation will be handled on a case-by-case basis. Repeated infractions will impact the severity of punishment.

The PIE area is one such area and there were several references made to information that is in a restricted area and while I am sure I have missed a few, an attempt was made to edit those references out. I only warned you in hopes that you would refrain from this in the future, but here you are bringing it up again and by doing so on the open board, you also violate this guideline:
3 - Disrespect to others, IN GENERAL, will be considered an item of low tolerance, especially when posting in our coed forums. Follow the Golden Rule and treat others as you wish to be treated yourself. This applies to fellow members as well as staff. We do not require that you have respect for us, but we do require that you treat us respectfully in the public forums. If you feel the need to vent, gripe, or blow off some steam regarding a staff member's action or decision, we ask that you keep it private. Email, RTM, or the PM system would be the appropriate avenue to take in such cases. In cases where you would like to request additional clarity about a staff decision, you are free to pursue an answer in either a public forum or private means of communication. If handled publicly, post your inquiry in a respectful manner.

IMHO, there is a decided lack of "respect" in your tone and it is now certainly not "private" as rule number 3 suggests. Please do not continue to try my patience.

Spacemtn

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

First I would like to make it clear: when I said "I wish I had as many bitches as whispers" I was not speaking of any provider, the women he sees in the strip club, or anyone with a vagina for that matter." I meant all of the followers that are on his dick ready to give him some free back pussy. Furthermore, It's called sarcasm.

Once again I would suggest that you question the educators taking your money to educate you as it is falling a bit short.... What the fuck is "back Pussy"?....

You want respect and come on her blasting men and women alike?...


I really don't care what other women do or how they run their business.

Obviously you care... Your all over here trying to tell them what they should and shouldn't do....

In my case if you call my hobby phone I can only have a hobby relationship with you. There are many reasons why breaking that boundary could cause unnecessary issues. I simply agree with the ops post. If you are spending time with hobbyists "off the clock" then keep it to yourself.

That statement alone would have saved you a bunch of grief....

This board is really backwards. And so are some of these new providers out here. THAT IS MY OPINION, which I am free to express. I tried to RTM post 71, seeing that it is a violation of board rule 9; and I have no knowledge that anything had been done about it.

My Post #71 is not in violation of any rules...

I chose to answer a question in a public manner that I was asked privately. I referred ONLY to statements I made in a Public thread and did not disclose anything nor did I in anyway identify who asked the question.

I'm not going to have my words twisted or molded behind the scenes.....

Which gives me the conclusion that the MODS here are lax on certain people.

That seems to be the opinion from every woman and wuss around here that doesn't get their way. Wake up... Look around... ECCIE is a different world..... You get your opinion.... and finally... we get to voice ours no matter how much you whine....

I was given a warning about posting "that's not what she said". If you can not grasp that I was not the one that went and spread what happened in Info share I don't know what to tell you. Whoever did, obviously did it before this thread started. But what ever.

Yes they did... But far more has been said and shared AFTER you started running your mouth.... Like I said... i love it when you ladies start cart fighting.... And the backstabbers that leak the information are never who you think they are....


I would like to say thank you to all that dropped a line with support of my posts. I totally understand why they might not have posted here; because it's pointless. If one can't understand why I take my stance on this issue then it's no use trying to explain.


You'll see; when a provider is calling you asking you why you wrote a review on so and so and haven't come back to see her goes crazy and tries to f up your life (it happens), or when your business suffers b/c more hobbyists send you (and other providers who don't give out freebees) requests asking for you to spend uncompensated time with them, or when this board really does turn in to hookups only central.

Wow... What a "chicken little" the sky is falling attitude..... Something that happens all the time and shouldn't get talked about slips and now we need to fear for our lives and businesses getting fucked up..... Are you reaalated to john_Tx?

The only thing I was doing here is stating my opinion and correlating events. Freebees=hobbyists thinking you will do it for them too. "whats the fuss about" ...... all the other personal attacks, asking if I fell in love with a hobbyist (never, I am professional and that is what you are paying for), implying that I don't have regulars (why do you think I don't post ads much) random cultural innuendoes, and statements of how i'm not your type are completely off topic and are quite revealing of your nature. Good luck with that.

I too do give out freebees, on 2 occasions:

1. When you meet me outside of the hobby, we are mutually attracted, and consent to spending "free" time with each other.

2. When my rent, bills, and tuition are free.

I will not post in this tread anymore.

"Keep calm, and carry on"

Good day folks! Feel free to talk shit behind my back. This back.

Ahh darlin... Some of us would never talk about you behind your back... It will be right here for you to read when you want to...

[Ebony Jasmine Love Austin]

Spaceman I am a pretty respectful person in general. If I have been disrespectful it is to those who have disrespected me or publicly disrespect themselves.

Whisper, your post 71 states the exact line that you stated in the first post "I'll get you my pretty" which sounds quite threatening and was addressed to me (as you quoted me in that post). So it is obvious who you are addressing when you mention the pm. Which makes it valid that you violated rule #9.

If trying to get what is just around here is testing your patience I guess this is not a board for professional providers that want to, and in every other instance do, play by the name of the game. I have been singled out for the one time I match the tone of this community these days. That is more of a warning than you could ever give.

I say to the rumors of a bigger and better board popping up: I'm with it, they can have this one.

[WorknMan]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

In my case if you call my hobby phone I can only have a hobby relationship with you.

...

I too do give out freebees, on 2 occasions:

1. When you meet me outside of the hobby, we are mutually attracted, and consent to spending "free" time with each other.

2. When my rent, bills, and tuition are free.

So, if I called your hobby phone, that would automagically kill any chances I have of ever getting any on the side, even if the chemistry between us was genuine? In that case, why don't you give me your regular phone number and if it turns out you like me, then I can hit it for free. But if not, I will pay your hobby rate (assuming I think you're worth it).

[atxbrad]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

I say to the rumors of a bigger and better board popping up: I'm with it, they can have this one.

I say this with caution due to the velocity of said door swinging and causing possible injury..............Dont let the door hit you in the ass on the way out!



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[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

Whisper, your post 71 states the exact line that you stated in the first post "I'll get you my pretty" which sounds quite threatening and was addressed to me (as you quoted me in that post). So it is obvious who you are addressing when you mention the pm. Which makes it valid that you violated rule #9.

We will just disagree on that point....

If trying to get what is just around here is testing your patience I guess this is not a board for professional providers that want to, and in every other instance do, play by the name of the game.

The problem is that you seem to feel entitled to get what you want and you want to go about it outside of the rules of the board and in a confrontational manner.... Then you want to quote and spin rules and try to get them applied to others after showing a blatant disregard for them yourself....


I have been singled out for the one time I match the tone of this community these days. That is more of a warning than you could ever give.

I say to the rumors of a bigger and better board popping up: I'm with it, they can have this one.

Buh Bye!

There are always wanna be's that start up "bigger and better boards"..... None of them ever amount to much..... Once ECCIE captured the ASPD community and allowed this place to grow based on information exchanged and reviews with an emphasis on allowing the community to become what it is today..... ECCIE became the dominant recourse in Texas.... That's not gonna change.....

[Whispers]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

I will not post in this tread anymore.

Another example of why you should be speaking with those educators you kept referring to.....

...

I thought that was going to be your last post?

[Sexy Roxanne]

PIE....LMAO....WHAT A JOKE....AS ALWAYS AND ANY OTHER PRIVATE AREA.

What 2 folks do between the sheets is THEIR business and probably should stay just there, between the sheets.

[Rand Al'Thor]

Originally Posted by Ebony Jasmine Love Austin

Whisper, your post 71 states the exact line that you stated in the first post "I'll get you my pretty" which sounds quite threatening and was addressed to me (as you quoted me in that post).

If you are obtuse enough to take that phrase so literally that it becomes a threat, then it should be obvious that it does not address you. There is just too much gap between your looks and the poster's taste.

If trying to get what is just around here is testing your patience I guess this is not a board for professional providers that want to, and in every other instance do, play by the name of the game. I have been singled out for the one time I match the tone of this community these days. That is more of a warning than you could ever give.

You have a very strange concept of just. It's funny that those who do not understand the rules and what constitutes a violation always think they are the victim of a conspiracy against them. Ever stop to think what ego it takes to make that real?

You have been singled out (once) for your violation (once), and it was a warning instead of points. Yet you would like to play the victim. This is what makes moderating difficult more than uniform application of rules, people who think that their violations aren't violations, but see others' violations everywhere.