Houston I have a problem! :/

[MrJonas]

Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

Yeah, I saw your post, it was pretty spot on. Noticed she ignored that one, too.

I'm not mad at her if she did this for the exposure, but if you're going to post a fake problem just to get the hits, at least pretend to be gracious to people who took the time to offer solutions as if it weren't a charade.

Honestly, lulz at anyone who believes this thread was made for exposure. The majority of clients would prefer bbbj over cbj, so how is anyone possibly thinking that Nikki posted this as some sort of self promotion? Saying, "hey I'm getting lots and lots of customers that want X, I will never ever provide X." is not exactly going to drive business. This is a forum, and the purpose of a forum is to just discuss whatever relevant topics are on your mind. It seems to me like that was what she was doing?
Caroline, you could just as easily updated your showcase to say "not MSOG friendly on 1 hour visits", but instead you made a thread about it... Perhaps people are getting upset because Nikki phrased her post in a more aggressive manner (ie: "READ MY FUCKING REVIEWS!"), but honestly who cares? We are adults here. It's pretty easy to just not click on a thread and read multiple pages if you're going to get offended at things like that.

[NikkiSecrets]

LOL nope. That isn't it. I was venting and got ahead of myself. That is all. Seeking attention isn't on my daily to do list. Just made a transition from a slower city and trying my best to work with everyone. I get it now I will adjust and deal with it. To anyone I pissed of or may think I do not appreciate their feedback I sincerely apologize.

XoXo
Nikki

Originally Posted by H.Hardhat

CBS
She didn't come here wanting advice she wanted people to agree with her and the attention.

[NikkiSecrets]

Very well put. At least someone gets it!!

Originally Posted by MrJonas

Honestly, lulz at anyone who believes this thread was made for exposure. The majority of clients would prefer bbbj over cbj, so how is anyone possibly thinking that Nikki posted this as some sort of self promotion? Saying, "hey I'm getting lots and lots of customers that want X, I will never ever provide X." is not exactly going to drive business. This is a forum, and the purpose of a forum is to just discuss whatever relevant topics are on your mind. It seems to me like that was what she was doing?
Caroline, you could just as easily updated your showcase to say "not MSOG friendly on 1 hour visits", but instead you made a thread about it... Perhaps people are getting upset because Nikki phrased her post in a more aggressive manner (ie: "READ MY FUCKING REVIEWS!"), but honestly who cares? We are adults here. It's pretty easy to just not click on a thread and read multiple pages if you're going to get offended at things like that.

[Guest021817-2]

I have to add whiney to my initial assement.

[CarolineDavenport]

Originally Posted by MrJonas

Honestly, lulz at anyone who believes this thread was made for exposure. The majority of clients would prefer bbbj over cbj, so how is anyone possibly thinking that Nikki posted this as some sort of self promotion? Saying, "hey I'm getting lots and lots of customers that want X, I will never ever provide X." is not exactly going to drive business. This is a forum, and the purpose of a forum is to just discuss whatever relevant topics are on your mind. It seems to me like that was what she was doing?
Caroline, you could just as easily updated your showcase to say "not MSOG friendly on 1 hour visits", but instead you made a thread about it... Perhaps people are getting upset because Nikki phrased her post in a more aggressive manner (ie: "READ MY FUCKING REVIEWS!"), but honestly who cares? We are adults here. It's pretty easy to just not click on a thread and read multiple pages if you're going to get offended at things like that.

1) Yes, posting "I don't do X so don't ask" will definitely drive business. There are a ton of lurkers who only read co-ed and never really look through ads that might never have seen her without a co-ed thread. Most of the time when a lady posts in co-ed, she knows this and is just participating to get her face out in the forum. You wouldn't know. You're not on the receiving end of the attention.

2) The difference between her threAD and mine is I willingly admit it was a threAD. I wasn't complaining about a problem and implying that a solution was needed. I was just calling attention to myself and using the excuse of the question I saw in the comments of my reviews to do it. She says this is a legitimate problem, so if that is the case, why is she not interested in finding solutions? If I had such a commonly recurring problem that was wasting my time, I certainly wouldn't go around dissing the ladies who were kind enough to offer me some ways to figure out a solution to my problem. She's losing time and money, according to her. We gain absolutely nothing by offering her advice. We did it to be kind to someone we thought was seriously looking for a solution to the thing that drove her to make such an angry, blame-everyone-but-her post.

3) Yes, co-ed is for discussing hobby-related topics. But there are some of us who like to be productive with our posts. Offer solutions to problems, different perspectives, information that we may have learned the hard way and are trying to save someone else the headache. When we take the time to do such a thing and then are treated so rudely, of course we reserve the right to be rude back. She posted something that seemed like she wanted a solution. When we offered it, we heard crickets and got the excuse that she doesn't have time to say thank you, but she has plenty of time for X's and O's with the boys. If she wants to treat the ladies so rudely and dismissively for trying to be helpful, I don't see why we can't tell her exactly where she can shove her future problems. She is welcome to learn all her lessons the hard way, and please stop posting things that make us think she would appreciate some help. If she just wants to be all hugs and kisses with the guys, post a fucking Titty Tuesday thread or something.

4) She makes $250/hr and complains about her clients being too lazy to solve her problems for her? Come on now. Maybe looking at it like she gets paid so well to deal with some client hand-holding would make it clear to her that recurring issues with her business are not her clients' problem, but her own. Just consider it part of the job. Because it is.

5) It seems like the height of stupidity to post a thread going "here's a problem I'm having over and over and I want to stomp my foot and complain and tell you all how stupid and lazy I think you are, but don't offer me any advice on how to do better because I'm just going to be a brat and keep doing things the same way and hope the Fuck Fairy comes and fixes it for me." But that's just my opinion.

[WTF]

Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

1) Fuck Fairy

Fuck Fairy to the rescue! I like it.

[5T3V3]

Originally Posted by NikkiSecrets

Thanks for your opinion. I will keep that in mind I may have got a bit ahead of myself posting this thread. But it's also humoring me. Do you need a hug too? My apologies if I offended anyone those were not my intentions! HUGS ALL AROUND!

no offense taken and i hope no offense was given ... just trying to be clear in answering your question ... and no i dont NEED a hug but always willing to take or give one. Just returning your female rant from a male rant prespective to keep it even

[Prince Akeem Of Zamunda]

Hmmm a catfight finally...

I hope i get to see some lovely titties pop out

I'm ready..

[Guest110923]

Its the nature of the beast really and we all have that happens to us its all in time management and how you choose to handle it.

I do alot of traveling so im usually answering msgs for 3 or 4 different cities simultaneously... you know what gets asked the most ???Do you offer Greek ( Even though the first thing you will see when clicking my add is usually 3 Holes if Aaaahmazing- and no i wasnt talking about my ear LMAO) and are you available X- Day ( even though its usually the first thing i posted in the body of my ads) Not one time have I ever responded' OMG DIDNT U READ MY FUCKIN AD.' It really takes all of 30 seconds to either write response or politely refer them to your webpage for more info. Even if its something im not into, i usually take the time to thank them for their time and consideration
generally speak if you have enough time to generate a 100 post response in coed... post on ISOs and participate in random coed discussions ... you should have enough time to answer a few questions for someone that wants to "donate to the cause "

But if its reallly that bad that you feel like you are 'wasting time' time trying to close the deal with potential clients. Make a generic response that covers all those bases, save it to your email and just CCP ( Cut Copy and Paste) that response to the gents that ask you those redundant questions... it really takes all of 20 seconds to do and saves alot of time trust me

[CarolineDavenport]

Originally Posted by Kay2Day

Its the nature of the beast really and we all have that happens to us its all in time management and how you choose to handle it.

I do alot of traveling so im usually answering msgs for 3 or 4 different cities simultaneously... you know what gets asked the most ???Do you offer Greek ( Even though the first thing you will see when clicking my add is usually 3 Holes if Aaaahmazing- and no i wasnt talking about my ear LMAO) and are you available X- Day ( even though its usually the first thing i posted in the body of my ads) Not one time have I ever responded' OMG DIDNT U READ MY FUCKIN AD.' It really takes all of 30 seconds to either write response or politely refer them to your webpage for more info. Even if its something im not into, i usually take the time to thank them for their time and consideration
generally speak if you have enough time to generate a 100 post response in coed... post on ISOs and participate in random coed discussions ... you should have enough time to answer a few questions for someone that wants to "donate to the cause "

But if its reallly that bad that you feel like you are 'wasting time' time trying to close the deal with potential clients. Make a generic response that covers all those bases, save it to your email and just CCP ( Cut Copy and Paste) that response to the gents that ask you those redundant questions... it really takes all of 20 seconds to do and saves alot of time trust me

Your brain is sexy. Also, your ass.

[WTF]

Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

Your brain is sexy. Also, your ass.

I liked her response a tad better than yours maybe even more than a tad, you should take notes but you got major points for the Fuck Fairy.

[boardman]

Originally Posted by Kay2Day

blah blah blah

I'm sorry were you saying something.

I can't get past



Tebow! If I ever find out you're into bbcr

[WTF]

Originally Posted by boardman

I'm sorry were you saying something.

I can't get past



Tebow! If I ever find out you're into bbcr

I pray the Fuck Fairy grants my wish to plant my flag pole so deep in that fine piece of real estate that Old Glory never waivers , all while whistling Dixie!

[Guest110923]

Originally Posted by CarolineDavenport

Your brain is sexy. Also, your ass.

Ohhh the thing i would do to your sexy ass

Originally Posted by boardman

I'm sorry were you saying something.

I can't get past



Tebow! If I ever find out you're into bbcr

Lol i actually had to google that lol

Originally Posted by WTF

I pray the Fuck Fairy grants my wish to plant my flag pole so deep in that fine piece of real estate that Old Glory never waivers , all while whistling Dixie!

Nowww you know how to make my panties wet mmmmmhh hmmmm i like you already lol

[Far-Out]

2 things i learned from this thread. meet and receive tender loving care bcd from CarolineDavenport and Kay2Day and never book an appointment with Nikki based solely on replies