Have you ever fall for a provider?

[TinMan]

I've never fallen for a provider, but some have become friends. Those are much more precious, IMHO.

[Scribe]

Originally Posted by suiram77

Scribe I know damn well you don't believe that shit you just wrote lmfao!!!! It's not even fucking close to the truth. This topic is not about rather a women in the hobby or RW be faithful or not, this shit is about falling for a woman that you are paying to see you dude.

How you meet someone is very important and if you start dating your ATF then good luck with that buddy. He will never be able to change the fact that she fucked and sucked other guys for a living, rather it be part time or full it will always be the narrative.

You saying that there is no guarantee a woman in the R W will be faithful ok I agree, but if my new girl was an escort the percentage of her being faithful is less than 5 percent lol. You can take that chance all you want, but never, ever,ever, ever for me, I will take my chances with the girl I meet in the RW buddy. one thing I will know for sure, it didn't cost me $300 an hour for her time on a date lmao!!!!!

If you don't believe you pay for all women - you're a virgin.

[Alastair]

I've never fallen in love with anyone in the hobby but there were a few I would've liked to have known outside the hobby. But it's impossible for me so it's all kept UTR. Besides, without getting too negative, I know how this works. And until a provider wants to talk to me without setting up an appointment, I'll know I'm just a trick. And that's okay. 🙂

[BLM69]

Originally Posted by Alastair

I know how this works. And until a provider wants to talk to me without setting up an appointment, I'll know I'm just a trick. And that's okay. ��

I'm glad you understand how it works here/the hobby, some of these women be running game on tricks and idiots be eating it up like free candy like a bunch of suckers,

then come writing threads after getting burned for helping/fronting/lending a "friend" that they thought they had, I'm way too street smart to fall for anything shady thrown my way

To the women running their business correctly without all the smoking mirrors and hustling men with BS, I commend you for that

[Recurve Jones]

There are more fake people than the house of wax up in this bitch!

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by Scribe

If you don't believe you pay for all women - you're a virgin.

Scribe tell yourself whatever you want to, but you and I both know that it's not the same kind of paying for it buddy. One form is traditional paying the mortgage,bills,car payments, etc and the other is pay me now up front.

Completely different buddy

[marvelousntx]

Have I ever fallen for a provider...No. But I've had a few fall for me. And it's easy to tell when that happens. I also have a few friends that are providers. I mean real friends. I know the kids, know mamma and the bro's and sisters. Personally, i wouldn't advise getting head over heals for a provider. There job is to get your money; so don't get it twisted and get your feelings hurt over something that could have easily been avoided.
#1. If she's charging you money then she views you as a business arrangement.
#2. You guys hang out...go to dinner...etc but when it comes to the do and she wants money...Go back and read #1
#3. she calls you when she needs money..sob story etc...go back to #1.
A providers job is to make money..So don't get confused by the I miss you texts or come see me texts. If money is involved...Go back to #1.

[marvelousntx]

Originally Posted by MartinX

I know at least one provider from the aspd days that married an ex client and they are happily married to this day. There are no rules, just think with your big head, don't tell yourself lies.

I know a provider that married a client as well. They now live in a big house in Houston with a kid.

[benover4me]

Originally Posted by marvelousntx

Have I ever fallen for a provider...No. But I've had a few fall for me. And it's easy to tell when that happens. I also have a few friends that are providers. I mean real friends. I know the kids, know mamma and the bro's and sisters. Personally, i wouldn't advise getting head over heals for a provider. There job is to get your money; so don't get it twisted and get your feelings hurt over something that could have easily been avoided.
#1. If she's charging you money then she views you as a business arrangement.
#2. You guys hang out...go to dinner...etc but when it comes to the do and she wants money...Go back and read #1
#3. she calls you when she needs money..sob story etc...go back to #1.
A providers job is to make money..So don't get confused by the I miss you texts or come see me texts. If money is involved...Go back to #1.

+1
Totally agree with this!

[marvelousntx]

Originally Posted by BLM69

My view towards women in here what it should be in here, fuck and go, I'm not here to find a S.O. and you're no different than the women in my reviews baby, You also get composited for sucking on bare cocks

You're a gold digger but that's ok also, Keep dreaming of your happy ending in the hobby, You don't realize that you will age, pussy will strech and with that attitude towards the "broke man" you'll be turning tricks for rent money. keep the dream alive.....

Bwa ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
Real Talk right here.

[suiram77]

Originally Posted by marvelousntx

Bwa ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha
Real Talk right here.

Plus a motha fucking Billion lol BLM69 always say real shit

[Wanderingcargo]

Maybe not have fallen in love, but certainly decided to not see someone that I felt extraordinary chemistry with. I knew it would not go anywhere on her part and that I would just be in for heartache, so I decided to not see her again. I still think about her often. I'm still tempted to call her up from time to time, though.

[DSK]

No one here is ever going to perfectly understand women - no one does.

I think, however, that you can play the probabilities and "read her hand" as they say in poker. Of course it is initially about the money, but women tend to have a motive beyond money even if it is a business arrangement. Everyone needs to get beyond the bare minimum amount of money to survive and feed their kids, and money needs to keep coming in to do it.

She can like you and even love you, and maybe even want to just be with you, but if you aren't willing to support her, she needs to continue the life. It is no different than any other job in that respect, and I suspect anyone who presents themselves as all knowing about hookers has probably fallen in love with one and misread the signals, hence they universally apply what they see as proof when in fact it is just their own half assed assumption that hoe's are all about the business arrangement.

You can like someone and do business with them, you know. I realize my suppliers are there to make money off of me, too, but it fills a need, just like these wonderful ladies.

I think of them more like nurses who heal emotional as well as physical needs.

[TheEccie214]

Originally Posted by suiram77

That wasn't no fucking threat Thot, that was a warning and I'm lmfao you have never shut me down S A H!!! are you fucking crazy in your fucking dreams girl you better get your ass on someone with this beef garbage. You just worry about being on time for your appointments that's what you do, your ass need a watch lmao!!!!

Y S A H!!!! You are another one that's not going to leave your keyboard so please be quite shuuuuuuuuuuuuu

Now back on topic or dismiss yourself berkie

Please explain the difference.

And not being funny - is English a second language for you? If it is I could better understand your posts.

[PetrusMaximus]

Originally Posted by bonner111

I know this may sound silly and F*&%ed up. I have been seeing this provider with good chemistry together, we had multiple sections, lunch dates, dinner dates, etc for about a less than a year. I cannot stop thinking about her lately, it is like emotionally attached to her.
I understand there are a lot of providers out there for me to get over it, but they are not all the same. I'm sure this subject may be brought up before, just couldn't find it.
Am I nuts? I know, I need to snap out of it, just want to know your thoughts.

This is easy to explain, your emotion is triggering your dopamine receptors to the max. Now, you are feeling that high. You can't stop it, that will drive you up and you will go farther.

I say, enjoy that rush because that won't last, your brain will not be able to sustain it. Don't hold back the feelings because when it goes away you will wonder why it doesn't give that high anymore.

While you're stuck in that state of mind, keep on going asking girls out (eccie, pof, bp, zoosk, etc) or you could just hang at a strip club and have fun with strippers.

What you said "but they are not all the same" is just your addicted to dopamine brain telling you to don't stop, keep these receptors connecting. You know that is not true, but hold on it for now and enjoy the rush.

When it is done, it is done, that high will go away. You will look for another girl who will give that rush again.

Same thing, the desire will drive you crazy, you will crave and that will drive you even crazier.

That happened to me in the past, but I was able to sort it out. It was a huge dopamine rush, she still calls me once every two weeks. She is one awesome girl, the prettiest girl in the club, I can't believe I got her to go to my place and do crazy wild sex. We got good chemistry too.

Let me tell you a story. My friend and I were having fun in a pub in another state/city, that night I sensed the girl has high probability and told my friend about the chance he could get friendly with her. He went to ask several questions, got good rapport with her and at the end of the night they went out and I just called Uber to drive me home. Next day, she started hanging out with us and it went on like that for another month. I then found out she was providing for many years now. Told me she had many serious relationships with men she met outside of work and men who did meet on provider websites. She has ginger/red hair and blue eyes, one smoking hot girl.

So, how that story relate to you, well, don't let this get you down, but there is a high chance she will fall in-love with you, but don't expect that love to be exclusive.

My advice: don't stop, keep dating girls.