Guys- you're not gay but you fantasize about giving blow jobs

[ElisabethWhispers]

Originally Posted by FireKitten

At this point, it's still fantasy. Fantasies can go where ever your amazing brain will take you. The body will often respond, sometimes quite a lot, depending on how much that is built up and denied.

Acting it out, is a different thing. Having the guts to try it, is one thing. And liking it, is another, completely.

I don't usually spontaneously hear of men wanting to suck another, but I do hear many that have thought about a man sucking them off. (so, receiving, not giving).

The plethora of men being hounded by other men, on regular dating or hook up sites, leads me to believe it's not uncommon. If they aren't getting sex, I think that is part of it. They just want sex, any way they can get it. Whether that is just for a release, another human touch in the way they like it, a chance to be a little submissive, fantasies run wild, who knows. The attractive, well hung guy always gets first billing, no surprise there.

Good sentiments. I agree!!!

And SO many men are just bi curious. There really is a difference.

Originally Posted by 8701

If this isn't the gayest post of the year smh Even The thought would repulse a straight man. Furthermore, allowing a man or wanting one to give you a bj is super gay as well!

Just FYI

Originally Posted by L.A.

I'm so homophobic I can't watch a devil's threesome.

And dude...if you want to blow another guy you're fucking gay...just own it.

This is a place/website where most "average" people would consider to be vulgar and just wrong.

WHY people still wish to categorize other's sexual fantasies is beyond me.

If the guy considers himself straight, then that's fine.

I've had sex with women. And I consider myself straight. I've even enjoyed the times that I've experienced with females, but it's just NOT my thing.

I'm straight.

Well, it's more complicated than that but you get my drift, hopefully.

Originally Posted by berkleigh

Lmao. Right.


Hey OP, I have a super hot gay friend.
He's Egyptian and kinda looks like George Michael.
If you wanna suck his cock, lemme know, I will hook you up

THIS! Leave it to Berk to be the voice of reason here. lol

If you're interested in giving it a try, just know that your fantasy is probably not going to live up to the real experience. At least, not the first time.

And if you consider yourself "straight" then just know that afterwards, you might find yourself feeling rather yucky after the experience. Could be a downer.

And know your audience.

Topics like this are best presented in Another Realm forum or places where men aren't so threatened with the idea of another male ... thinking about sucking cock, to coin your phrase.

Most sensual creatures fantasize about a LOT of things. I'd probably be in prison if some of my fantasies were to come true.

So fantasize away!!!

If you're truly interested in giving this a try ... best way to do it is what a few of MY client base have done.

Find a sex worker who is kind, trust worthy and open minded. Often, we'll have another client who wants to do exactly what you're interested in doing.

Then, have her set something up.

Or ... place a free craigslist ad and meet someone at The New Fine Arts or someplace private.

Other men are wanting to try this out just like you are.

Screen them like we screen clients. Don't meet just anyone.

Then just do it. You'll (probably) get stood up a few times in the beginning. Try again.

Then, when it happens ... just go with it.

And enjoy.

More men are curious about what it feels like than most will admit.

Guess I see it all of the time because I'm easy to talk to.

But I think that a man can be straight, but curious. I mean ... men LOVE having their penis's touched and kissed, etc.

Why wouldn't it be interesting, if only in theory, to see how a penis might taste? (Can be very tasty and wonderful!!! Trust me!)

Just my thoughts on it.

The people in Dallas coed need to be more open minded!!! We're a cosmopolitan area!!!

Since SO many of you reading this have deviant desires, why are so many of you giving the OP grief about this topic?

And would it be better if he wanted to try a smallish cock on an ugly man? He was just stating the exact same opinions on looks, etc., that all of you speak of as being important.

Jeesh!!!

I invite him/OP to post in Another Realm. More like-minded folks there.

[TheEccie214]

That's epic EW. I only question how cosmopolitan this group really is. Another Realm may be the place for this discussion where it could be actually discussed versus seeing a bunch of guys proclaiming how gay they are not.

[BLM69]

We're opened minded to gays and they're good people, The OP is just confused about being one himself

[berkleigh]

Originally Posted by BBW Katrina

Ahhhh...skeet...skeet..skeet

Bwhahaaaa

[grean]

Originally Posted by BLM69

We're opened minded to gays and they're good people, The OP is just confused about being one himself

Exactly....

If instead of giving a big disclaimer about how he wasn't really gay , he just said hey, thinking about sucking some dick. Know anybody that can help?

He would have got a completely different response.

[!!Sexy Erotic Morgan]

So many guys do! It's crazy

[Guest061619]

Originally Posted by barnstorm

I hope this is an appropriate forum

I'm not gay....like I don't think about fucking dudes, getting fucked by them, kissing them, etc. but I've always fantasized about sucking a guy's dick. Not just any guy's but a somewhat attractive guy with a really big dick.

I can't really ask any of my friends to do it...it would just be too awkward.

I have always guessed this is just something that I would never get to fulfill.

Have any of you guys ever had this feeling, and done something about it??

Relax. There is a medical term for that. GAY

To quote Dice Clay, either you suck dick or you do not suck dick

[Teddy Riley]

If a man builds a thousand bridges and sucks one dick, they don't call him a bridge-builder... they call him a cocksucker.

[neighbordude]

Originally Posted by berkleigh

Lmao. Right.


Hey OP, I have a super hot gay friend.
He's Egyptian and kinda looks like George Michael.
If you wanna suck his cock, lemme know, I will hook you up

What is his rate? lol

[oldbutstillgoing]

The only bi I am interested in is bi women

[ProFun]

You're gay.

[Eva Damita]

Seems like the OP needs to deal with his internalized phobias. Homophobia to be more specific. Best wishes!

[R.M.]

A mouth is just a mouth.

[grean]

Originally Posted by ProFun

You're gay.

And that's okay. You just can't be a dude, say you want to suck dick, and still maintain that you aren't gay. Fly that flag proud, bro!

[chicagoboy]

Originally Posted by ElisabethWhispers

... place a free craigslist ad ...

Why should the OP just fantasize? He should click on the helpful linck, above.

Perhaps he should start out with a 1/5-scale model.