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HarleyRose · 09-03-2017, 11:46 PM

I was supposed to have a meeting this evening with a member on here (did not get his username, bad on my end), but he did threaten to report me on here. We had agreed to meet at 11:30 at the Double Tree by The Orlando Airport. After texting for an update at 11, he asked to push it back to about 12:30am, he works on a plane so I assumed his flight was delayed. I said this was fine, and had told him I would be wearing a red dress, since he had asked. At about 11:45ish I texted again asking for a update, before he texted me after midnight saying he got to the room, and asked for a photo verification. I sent the photo, but was wearing a different dress due to not realizing my other one was dirty. My car currently has a flat tire, so my roommate was dropping me off tonight, which I told him straight up before I left. He said all this was fine, and did not seem to have an issue, until I got to the hotel, having agreed to meet him in the lobby. I was waiting in the lobby for about 15 minutes, while he was texting me saying he wasn't comfortable and that he wasn't convinced, and the only way he would be convinced was if my female roommate came up and sat in the room with us, but he "wouldn't touch her". I explained that she was not comfortable with that (and obviously neither was I). After i said that, he simply replied with "Okay then, good night". I don't typically post negative reports about hobbyists, especially those that dont work out just because of nerves. But as this was discussed before I left, with him having access to my reviews here and TER, and then going the extra mile to have my friend in the room with us, I felt the need to report incase he tries to see someone else. He did claim to have "over 200 reviews" on here, but did not bother giving me his username. This is my first negative encounter with anyone from this site, so I'm honestly just a little discouraged.

The kicker of this was the fact that he offered to meet for drinks and compensate me for my time and gas. But...didn't feel comfortable to even meet in the lobby area in the first place.

HarleyRose · 09-03-2017, 11:52 PM

Had posted his phone number but edited it out as I'm not sure if thats allowed??

offshoredrilling · 09-04-2017, 04:21 AM

can we pick one from the "Top Reviewers" list and blame him?

oldbutstillgoing · 09-04-2017, 08:22 AM

While it was a bad evening, and you already admitted you made some errors not getting his handle, this is useless here because you cannot identify him. And no, you cannot post his entire number. This is the kind of post I would think that needs to be in the Infoshare ladies forum. Out here, you will just get slammed by people. In there, you may get criticism, but it would only be from providers and they can be freer to discuss it with you

pyramider · 09-04-2017, 08:25 AM

HarleyRose,

Any fucktard can claim to have written reviews. You need to up your screening processes. If a fucktard states he is a member of a SHMB always get his handle. Then you can do a search on several SHMBs.

If you are a member of P411 then you can require the fucktard to contact you through P411. Also, have the fucktard PM you through the SHMB. With those two steps you relatively speaking know who are communicating with. Then complete your screening process.

I do this for all P411 ladies due to some fucktards contacting ladies claiming to be me. I contact ladies through P411 and introduce myself. Then I PM though icky so they know it is me.

Always remember, not all money is good money. If you do not feel comfortable meeting someone ... then don't.

Audrey Astor · 09-04-2017, 09:34 AM

I'm really sorry this happened, and your time was wasted late at night.

This is a classic game player. He never had any intention of seeing you or anyone else. Hell, he probably was not even at that hotel. It happens to all of us when new. I would suggest gaining access to the ladies forum and making a valid post following the posting rules along with posting the information on a screening site. More importantly, I would suggest finding a credible lady and learning how to properly screen so that this does not happen again, but more importantly for your SAFETY. I am willing to bet he was using a VOIP number or a burner phone, so your report may not help any ladies without other pertinent details. This is your life, your job, your time, and your income. We want to see you safe. Good luck.

EmilyJordan · 09-04-2017, 08:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Audrey Astor

I'm really sorry this happened, and your time was wasted late at night.

This is a classic game player. He never had any intention of seeing you or anyone else. Hell, he probably was not even at that hotel. It happens to all of us when new. I would suggest gaining access to the ladies forum and making a valid post following the posting rules along with posting the information on a screening site. More importantly, I would suggest finding a credible lady and learning how to properly screen so that this does not happen again, but more importantly for your SAFETY. I am willing to bet he was using a VOIP number or a burner phone, so your report may not help any ladies without other pertinent details. This is your life, your job, your time, and your income. We want to see you safe. Good luck.

100% what Audrey said.. this happened to me a few times when I was new as well. Definitely get some screening advice from some established ladies, and let this one be a lesson, and also thank the powers that be that you left in one piece at the very least