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Big.Boy · 04-23-2019, 06:24 AM

I’ve known this girl and was a regular of hers over the past 3 years, seeing her 2-4 times a month. I saw her when she was at the AMPs (7TAN and Vicky’s Spa) and helped her out when she decided to go Indy. We had a bad falling out last December when she NCNS me on my birthday, and when I saw her 2 days later for an explanation, gave me a poor apology basically saying I was at fault. I cut off all ties with her.

I got a text message from her Easter Sunday wanting to talk to me. I told her I was busy with my family as we were preparing for a BBQ with some friends later that day, but I was willing to meet tomorrow before I headed out on a business trip, but if it was going to be the same old store, no deal. She assured me, so I said Monday at 9 at her apartment complex.

I pulled up into the parking lot and she was waiting for me. She said he’ll and gave me a hug which i didn’t return as I was a bit taken aback by this gesture. We sat down in the community area of her apartment complex and had a coffeehouse. She quickly opened her heart up and gave me one of the most contrite, sincere apologies that I ever witnessed. She was very emotional with her apology and I was moved as well, bringing a tear to my eye as well. I returned the apology as I was very harsh in my handling the situation and in my language to her.we talked for an hour before I had to leave on my trip, but we could have talked for a couple hours more, and I intend to fill up with her when I return just to talk some more.

Bottom line:with this humble, contrite, sincere gesture on her part, she has redeemed herself to me and I talk back all the bad I said about her. She is a sweetheart of a girl who has a good heart and like all of us, has her life issues and problems, and makes mistakes like all if us. Th fact that she reached out to my to apologize and the manner in which she apologized speaks volumes about her character. I can’t speak about her as a provider since the last time I saw her was December, but my prior visit with her, she was top shelf GFE. I don’t know if I’ll Er her in that manner anytime soon as I’m very busy with work and my free time is at the gym working on my personal fitness trainer certification. All I can say is treat her nicely as this girl has a good heart.

BigBamboo · 04-23-2019, 07:40 AM

Wow! I was searching “Thai” and when I read the title and author of this post I just about cried from laughter.

You’re on a serious emotional roller coaster. I can’t believe you fell victim again to that snake of a woman and this classic “oh, I’m so sorry” move. It’s the oldest trick in history and you totally fell for it. While here you were telling everyone how you were making amends with your wife and you were glad to be moving on with your life - ever grateful that you threw Angie to the curb. So now you’re going back against your words and kicking your wife to the curb instead.

You’ve lost ALL credibility with me doing that to yourself and your wife. I’m a single guy now but threw away EVERYTHING for pussy. And I can say with confidence it’s not worth it for a man in your situation to throw away your marriage on any whore - let alone Angie.

Rethink your priorities and take my advice: block her numbers and ECCIE and OH2 accounts from communication with you. Appears it’s too late though this time around. Maybe I should not have described my new Thai GF to you. I think you might have gotten excited and decided Angie could satisfy your imagination of my GF. But Angie couldn’t hold a candle to my new sweetheart.

Good luck!

Big.Boy · 04-23-2019, 07:50 AM

To be honest, I was just as much at fault. Didn’t realize it at the time but I was going through a depression episode. I’m a 100% disabled vet, broke my back while active duty and suffer chronic pain. Had a bad pain flair ugoung on and thought I was losing my mind. Doc put me on meds to control the pain, and now I can say I haven’t felt this good in many years. I could have handled the situation much better and more tactfully with her, and for that I’m deeply sorry as well

Big.Boy · 04-23-2019, 08:18 AM

Bamboos, as I stated in my text, I’m not seeing her as a provider, and as I told you, I’m stepping back from the hobby now that I’ve reconciled with my wife. I merely met her to bury the hatchet between us. Have a nice day

SARufus · 04-23-2019, 08:34 AM

You two need to get a room

BigBamboo · 04-23-2019, 08:41 AM

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You two need to get a room

Funny one Rufus! I’m already seeing a sweet, beautiful young Thai gal at present. Besides, I don’t think Big.Boy is my type, as in not Thai, etc., etc. Haha!

BigBamboo · 04-23-2019, 08:48 AM

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Originally Posted by Big.Boy

Bamboos, as I stated in my text, I’m not seeing her as a provider, and as I told you, I’m stepping back from the hobby now that I’ve reconciled with my wife. I merely met her to bury the hatchet between us. Have a nice day

Good to know you’re keeping things platonic, but keeping that line of communication open is dangerous. Next I’d recommend truly cutting ALL ties (and Thais) with Angie to be safe with your marriage. Because it was a random text long ago that fucked everything up between my (now) ex-wife and me. Had I properly cut off all access to communication then my marriage would have been spared.

lovelyevelyn · 04-23-2019, 09:45 AM

Well that escalated quickly.

Glad that it worked out for you Big.Boy. I think self awareness is great and realizing that we are all humans. We won't all "get" each other and why we do the things we do but it's a step in the right area to try and emphasize and understand. Xoxo

Big.Boy · 04-23-2019, 09:59 AM

Thanks Evelyn. Although we haven’t had the opportunity to meet, I always felt your a top notch classy gal from how you write on here. Take care and be safe honey

Big.Boy · 04-23-2019, 10:28 AM

Bamboo, as I said earlier, she texted me. I don’t have her number. She reached out to me on Easter Sunday of all days, so I felt an obligation to hear her out and forgive her. Now please mind your own business and leave me and my family alone. As I told you inmy PMto you, I’m very busy with wirk, family, and my free time is at the gym where I’m working on my personal fitness trainer certification. I have no free time to play, and what little I have is gooto my marriage. Thank you

swwaustin · 04-23-2019, 11:11 AM

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Originally Posted by Big.Boy

To be honest, I was just as much at fault. Didn’t realize it at the time but I was going through a depression episode. I’m a 100% disabled vet, broke my back while active duty and suffer chronic pain. Had a bad pain flair ugoung on and thought I was losing my mind. Doc put me on meds to control the pain, and now I can say I haven’t felt this good in many years. I could have handled the situation much better and more tactfully with her, and for that I’m deeply sorry as well

I’m glad to see your previous vitriolic words turned contrite. There simply are just too many beautiful woman to enjoy to be in such turmoil. I have no investment in this situation other than just being anonymous on the board and enjoying a good drama once in awhile. While my opinion should not matter to you, all I’ll say to anyone is to try to find your bliss while causing the least harm. Specifically to you Big Boy, vet to vet...I’m glad you realize you need help and are getting it.

Dick Fitzenwell · 04-23-2019, 11:18 AM

Congrats to the Winner of the Why I Did I Open This Thread Award of the day!!!

BigBamboo · 04-23-2019, 11:20 AM

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Originally Posted by Big.Boy

Bamboo... Now please mind your own business and leave me and my family alone...

Dude! You’re doing it again... Do you not read the tone of your replies before you write them? WTF!?!?

1. Your post is in CO-ED not in ML and NOT in PRIVATE TAGS... You’ve made it EVERYONE’S business
2. I’m not the one texting you on Easter interrupting you and your family
3. I’ve not written a single comment about your family nor have I reached out to your family

Chill out!

Big.Boy · 04-23-2019, 12:08 PM

Quesyof the day: if you hate her so much, Banboo, why is her ass still you handle photo? I’m

Big.Boy · 04-23-2019, 12:14 PM

Thanks SWWAustin. It’s was a rough winter for mt but once the meds kicked in, the dark skies in my brain turned to sunshine. I’m focused on the gym, my workouts are as intense as when in I was 25 and I have a couple of old folks I’m working with as practice clients to prepare for fy certification exam. I refound my live of pumping iron, as as Arnold Schwarzenegger said, “a good pump is like an orgasm”