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Old 05-29-2017, 05:23 AM   #1
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I really detest drama but I have an honest question, if it even matters. I saw a provider, didn't really click with her, and wrote a no recommendation. I did say she was sweet, but we just didn't gel for whatever reason. She sends me a PM basically laying into me, which is her right and is totally fine. I ignored it and just won't see her again, which is my right, right? Hehe. At amy rate, I contacted another provider recently and she refused to see me, because she was afraid I may write a negative review of her(also note she's tight with the girl I reviewed). Here's the thing, I only am honest in my reviews, that's what this site is about. I'm a respectful, clean, relatively normal guy. Are we supposed to lie in our reviews? I see some on here ALWAYS give a yes review, even though the ROS kind of said otherwise. I understand a girls right to refuse to see me, but have some self confidence that we'd get along. Also, I have respected a girl's request that I not write a review. It's pretty simple. I guess they don't want us to be honest. Just give them a yes. I'm sure my no hasn't deterred anyone. Ok I'm done. Any thought on this?
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Old 05-29-2017, 05:43 AM   #2
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If she's afraid of a negative review she probably isn't worth seeing
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Old 05-29-2017, 05:53 AM   #3
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She's a pretty well known provider on here, who likes to speak her mind and doesn't have any negative reviews to this point.
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Old 05-29-2017, 05:59 AM   #4
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Agree with KPO....GPS and hoodrat attitude is kinda.......
Move on. More fish in the sea
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Old 05-29-2017, 06:53 AM   #5
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That sucks but who cares? You got $$ burning a hole in your pocket and there's 100 other providers out there, just go to the next one on your list or see an old favorite.
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Old 05-29-2017, 07:14 AM   #6
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The two are friends. They stick together like friends do. Just move on. It isnt like she contacted your wife or something
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Old 05-29-2017, 07:16 AM   #7
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if your going to tell the truth on here

you have to be able to not care
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Old 05-29-2017, 07:17 AM   #8
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I don't see many showcases id loose sleep over

don't understand
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Old 05-29-2017, 07:18 AM   #9
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It depends on how bad you wish to see her. If she actually said that she wouldn't see you due to fear of a negative review (as opposed to you just making that assumption), you could point out that 90% of your reviews are positive and mention to her why you are pretty sure hers would be too due to all her positive attributes. If she has that little confidence in herself to feel that she would be ion the other 10%, not much you can do about that.
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Old 05-29-2017, 07:42 AM   #10
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If she's afraid of a negative review she probably isn't worth seeing
Keep took the words right out of my mouth. How did you do that Keep? lol I think she is saving you another NO review experience with that attitude.

Keep giving them what they earned!!! Bros. before ......
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Old 05-29-2017, 08:14 AM   #11
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Based on your review history, I'm assuming it was Lilly Grey. Of her friends, Elle and Jenna Jones are worth seeing. And probably shouldn't care if you gave them a NO recommendation. But all hookers are nuts, in varying degrees.
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Old 05-29-2017, 08:47 AM   #12
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any lady worth what shes asking can out live any "no" review.
In this case seems it was "not my cup of tea" rather than a "no"
why submit and go right to edit is a must to change drop down answers in the review form. So one can post more truly as they saw it as.

if you do as Task posted DO NOT MAKE IT SOUND LIKE BEGGING
yup as keep & Jon posted also

mmmmm 27 reviews only 3 or 4 "no" ones. A Lady sould not be afraid of that.
now I have a question
Is lady you want have way with afraid of a "no", or if she got a glowing "YES" out of you. Then making drama between her and other lady. Or both is the question. Try offer I will not review. If ok think it over first. If still no move on
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Old 05-29-2017, 08:52 AM   #13
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Based on your review history, I'm assuming it was Lilly Grey. Of her friends, Elle and Jenna Jones are worth seeing. And probably shouldn't care if you gave them a NO recommendation. But all hookers are nuts, in varying degrees.
WTF if true
for sure all 3 could out live a "no" I would think
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Old 05-29-2017, 09:06 AM   #14
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I wouldn't give a reviewer hell if he gave me a no recommendation. I would be mature enough to understand why if it was in the right. Like we didn't click or I had an off day whatever it may be. At this point of my providing 'career' I really don't care lol

But that's bullshit that she refused to see you because she 'thinks' you may leave a no review.

It's one thing if she misrepresented herself in ads/pics and like you went there and she was wayyy off of the pics or what she says she's does menu wise.
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Old 05-29-2017, 09:24 AM   #15
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The issue is that you are posting on a board where the culture has become so hook friendly that these poor dumb hooks believe that they possess all the power and can dictate terms to paying customers.

The inertia influencing some of the weak minded half-men on our sacred board to recommend hooks has become a virus.

The hook's friend won't take your money? This should be her loss but there could very well be a legion of victims who will take up the slack for you.

Ride on.
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