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gee_a_cee · 02-28-2013, 09:31 AM

The deal with the provider that I started this thread about was a no go. Here is a C&P of what I posted in our local board:

"Not gonna happen. I texted her ""that getting the card does not prove I am not LE"", which is her supposed intent. She showed no interest in checking me out on eccie or p411.

Her text back read ""Look I work in a way that's best for me. If you don't wanna meet find a cheap crackhead. OK. have a nice day!""

Bad attitude.

"

Still waiting to hear back from Bigh1955 by PM.

My gut feeling is if an eccie or p411 lady wants these fine. But a BP lady that only will accept this is "Run Forrest Run" material.

Cash is king, especially in this hobby. Universally accepted anywhere. Why limit yourself to something that has more limited uses. If it's to have a card to do online purchasing or ads or whatever then take the cash and buy your own card.

Bjohnson3213 · 02-28-2013, 10:33 AM

I agree -- too easy to get ripped off - then you hear "HaHa, Too Bad, So Sad, Good to See Ya, Wouldn't Wanna Be Ya" softly in the background as she does the "Run Forest Run."

RochBob · 02-28-2013, 11:30 AM

Yeah, I had a long time Provider I used to deal with pull that on me. Now mind you I had already seen the Provider before she started requesting cards and knew where her incall was. The cards were only supposed to be for half down for clients requesting 90 Minutes or more and you needed to E-mail her the number off the back of the card to get the appointment confirmed. She claimed the reason she started using the cards was due to guys no showing on her. I usually booked 90 Minutes with her and had never had a problem. The second to the last time I tried to see her she jerked me around so much with the appointment day and time that I finally just canceled the appointment and let her keep the money I had already sent her. I waited about a Year and decided to give her another try. Again everything went fine until after she got the info. Then she stopped responding to all communications from me until I wrote a bad Review of her on ECCIE. She then called and left a nasty voicemail bitching me out about it. She also claimed in the voicemail that things would be taken care of. Not sure what she meant by that (if anything). But I have not heard from her since and have not wasted my time trying to contact her. But needless to say I will not be patronizing any Provider in the future that requests a card.

Chica Chaser · 02-28-2013, 01:59 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ffutssihswonk

the provider was a thief.

In this little world? Say it ain't so!

Its like anything else, stick with known, verified and well-reviewed ladies. And even then it's not guaranteed, as people go off the deep end frequently on both sides of the gender scale.

Cpalmson · 03-01-2013, 06:28 PM

I guess there are two sides to every story. I can see the POV of girls wanting some assurances against a no show, but that is part of the game. No shows will happen. Girls need to deal with it. It happens to us guys as well. So with that in mind, never get a , Green Dot, or Pre-paid card AND then give her the card numbers before you meet. Whether the donation is real cash or digital dollars, the actual transfer should ONLY occur when both of you are together. If she wants to verify the card is loaded, then she can do so with her laptop, ipad, or smartphone just like she would count the cash in the envelope. Now, I can see some providers who would want a card out of convenience. Bottom line, treat all transactions as if they were cash in nature. Never give a girl an upfront amount. If you do, remember the old saying-- a fool and his money are soon parted.

Chica Chaser · 03-01-2013, 07:58 PM

Give the lady cash...only...period. If she wants a , no problem.....she can take that cash you just gave her and go buy one.

ffutssihswonk · 03-01-2013, 08:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

In this little world? Say it ain't so!

Its like anything else, stick with known, verified and well-reviewed ladies. And even then it's not guaranteed, as people go off the deep end frequently on both sides of the gender scale.

nothing more sad than visiting an old favorite a year later to see them in a real bad place personally. While the end result of our reunion visit was A++ the story leading up to that moment went from unusual to heart breaking. I'm gonna switch my vote: stick with bucks for sick ducks & firetrucks (firetruck alluding to an old soupy sales joke)

Alyssa Marie · 03-02-2013, 06:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

Give the lady cash...only...period. If she wants a , no problem.....she can take that cash you just gave her and go buy one.

That's what I was going to say. I use green dot. I'm 100% capable of walking to the store myself to buy the money pak. That's because I'm not a thief.

I remember one time when my friend was selling gift cards on ebay. People would bid for more than the total amount of the gc. I did a quick google and found out that it was fraud. The accounts were not verified, using fake credit cards, etc. He didn't understand that if he accepted the sale, the buyer would write in to ebay and the money would be returned. The buyer would end up with the gc, the money paid would be returned to whoever and he (the seller) would have nothing.

Texas36 · 03-16-2013, 10:01 PM

You can also use gift cards. Per the IRS up to a maximum of $500 with no personal info. cVS sells them. If it does ask online for whatever you use. Make something up.
I personally use:
President B.H Obama
1600 pennsylvania Ave.
Washington D.C. 20001

Kloie · 03-16-2013, 10:28 PM

I wouldn't give a deposit either..... But I do ask for them if you are a newbie and it is a far distance or you are wanting an overnight. Otherwise I just deal with the no call no shows. Sorry for the bad luck!!

sjdude · 04-24-2013, 04:56 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Texas36

You can also use gift cards. Per the IRS up to a maximum of $500 with no personal info. cVS sells them. If it does ask online for whatever you use. Make something up.
I personally use:
President B.H Obama
1600 pennsylvania Ave.
Washington D.C. 20001

Haa... Haa.. thats more potent than rice--- err risen ...

newalhobbyist · 04-24-2013, 12:25 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Chica Chaser

In this little world? Say it ain't so!

Its like anything else, stick with known, verified and well-reviewed ladies. And even then it's not guaranteed, as people go off the deep end frequently on both sides of the gender scale.

I stopped writing reviews here when a very popular lady with all strong positive reviews and posts strung me along for weeks, with several times scheduled, ultimately NCNS. According to her, there were no problems with seeing me. I did not write it up because I did not want the flames from being her first negative comment.