No Black Men

[samantha thom]

Originally Posted by **Karla**

I'm just not attracted to black men period!! Sorry if I offend anyone but some men don't like women with small boobies or short hair!! Same thing!!

Me too! I like white guys! Personal preference. Plus it's good to be selective. I cannot accomodate every appointment request I get ... I'd get sore and exhausted. Not good!

[amusemeant]

Awesome comment Nina Rae - and really why I don't usually discuss my preferences in forum...better kept in private because of exactly what you're saying. Losing business over my personal preferences is not something I care to think about.

I do agree with Brooke in a sense EA - but not completely - which is why I went on to explain further my own more broad opinion on the matter - which like Brooke, I have a right to do.

I also agree with some of the comments here stating that pimped girls having a no AA policy is due to black on black hate on the pimp's part more than it has to do any other reason that has anything to do with worry about violence or other factors.

The original question was why do girls have these policies?

For those reasons already stated and many more...and I do believe we each have a right to our own personal preferences if we so choose to name and enforce them as rules for our clients. Some people obviously have stronger ones than others in various situations!!!!

And I think Justin_Scott is a truly awesome and fabulous brutha BTW - smooches!!!!!!

I'm outta here y'all have a good day!!!!

[Chica Chaser]

Originally Posted by caramelqtee mila

Ill bet 100 bucks its closed by the end of the day....

Thats a sucker bet, if I ever heard one! Emotions run way too high on his subject. We'll see who melts down first.

[Naomi4u]

Oh Chica I was going to post this one...

[arialemonde]

Its a choice for sure for anyone to be with anybody.

Ill just say that in my experience in this business of 10 years, there have been many different types of people whom Ive run across from all creeds. Ive had great and not so great experiences with more then just AA gents. Most of my not so great experiences were with Caucasian men who decided to run out the door without paying.

I dont have that issue anymore but my point is.....

It doesnt matter what color you are, its your personality that makes the difference.

People choose to live in fear for their own reasons, its their own loss.

Dont take it personal. Its not about you, its about their own issue for what ever reason.

[Eccie Addict]

Sorry....

Originally Posted by amusemeant

I do agree with Brooke in a sense EA - but not completely - which is why I went on to explain further my own more broad opinion on the matter - which like Brooke, I have a right to do.

I hear ya and I understood where you were coming from. If I gave you the impression that I thought you shouldn't voice your opinion I want to take this time to apologize to you cause that is not what I intended.

I just felt that making a blanket statement such as Brooke did was wrong. Especially about what type of incal a girl works out of.

I also agree with some of the comments here stating that pimped girls having a no AA policy is due to black on black hate on the pimp's part more than it has to do any other reason that has anything to do with worry about violence or other factors.

The original question was why do girls have these policies?

For those reasons already stated and many more...and I do believe we each have a right to our own personal preferences if we so choose to name and enforce them as rules for our clients. Some people obviously have stronger ones than others in various situations!!!!

And I think Justin_Scott is a truly awesome and fabulous brutha BTW - smooches!!!!!!

I'm outta here y'all have a good day!!!!

[Chica Chaser]

Originally Posted by Naomi4u

Oh Chica I was going to post this one...

That one works too. Got it saved now for future use.

[Guest072614-1]

I'd like to confirm Ms. Amusemeant's sentiments: I am in fact awesome... and fabulous. Sorry OP, but this is a worthy hijack.

Thanks, beautiful. Smooches back at ya!

[MsElena]

OK, so it all boils down to this........

If a provider doesn't wish to visit with a certain type or a certain race, that's her choice.

If a hobbyist doesn't want to visit with a lady who he is not attracted to, that's his choice.

Its really simple.....honest.....I wouldn't lie to you.

No one is forcing you to bang someone you don't want to. I don't see posts from providers asking the hobbyists why you don't see brunettes, blondes, bbw's, spinners, older or younger providers if that's not what you like. Why is that you ask? Well, because its YOUR preference in who you'd like see.

See.....what did I tell ya, simple.

OH and Brooke.......I don't see any black guys except for this one certain gent and I don't have a pimp. To make an assumption like that....well, you know the saying. Women who have been in this business longer than 2 yrs know better than to make a statement like that. Its ignorant. I see ladies who have NBA policies on numerous sites.....eros, e.com, TER...etc...and they don't have pimps. At least the ones I know don't, I can't speak for all. BINGO!!!!! We have a winner.....the winning statement is:

You can't speak for all because you don't truly know.

OK, I'm done now. I need to go grocery shop with the list I made in my head as I was giving a BBBJ last night. (I ked I ked)

[Chica Chaser]

Originally Posted by MsElena

No one is forcing you to bang someone you don't want to. I don't see posts from providers asking the hobbyists why you don't see brunettes, blondes, bbw's, spinners, older or younger providers if that's not what you like.

See.....what did I tell ya, simple.

Yes, Elena...but there not much drama in those.

[MsElena]

Sorry CC, I added to my post. Wanna edit now?

PS..LOVE the avatar.

[benjio]

I'm a black hobbyist, and not to toot my own horn or be conceited but I'm not a bad looking guy. Very well groomed, articulate, not too threatening over the phone. I use providers because I have no patience for relationships. I've had numerous providers tell me that they cant believe I'm "paying for it." That being said, I've ignored the NBA policies of providers three times in the past and called anyway. They never asked what race i was so I scheduled an appointment. All three times when I showed up, I received great service and my race wasn't mentioned once. So I've always thought it was stereotypical assumptions being made on the providers part that I ended up not "fitting." Would I do it again? Probably not. I know if I continued eventually a provider is going to tell me, "Sorry, you didn't read my ad?" I've also met tons of other providers that are spectacular ladies and don't have any "racial hang ups." But in the end, regardless of the reason, I think a lot of ladies miss out on potentially great clients by excluding an entire racial demographic, and for a smart business woman that's just not a very good business decision.

[scorpioseventy7]

Originally Posted by Brooke Wild

No black men = she has a pimp.

This is also accurate:

"Be weary of bp girls that say no blacks. That means they have a pimp or they plan on pulling some scam. They figure non-blacks wont put up a fight. "

http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=1180708&postcount=4

That's exactly my take on it, I'm glad someone else finally said it.

[Naomi4u]

Originally Posted by benjio

But in the end, regardless of the reason, I think a lot of ladies miss out on potentially great clients by excluding an entire racial demographic, and for a smart business woman that's just not a very good business decision.

So smart businesswomen have no limits, is that what you're saying?
I also won't see obese men. I saw one and it was one of the most painful experiences
ever. Should I sacrifice my health for money? No way.

______________________________ __

This is not directed to you Ben:
I have found that the black guys that say "NBA policies= Pimp" are just mad
that the provider won't see them. I know a lot of BLACK ladies like myself that won't see black
guys in the hobby. They are all independent ladies. I think our reviews can speak for themselves.
There are many women here that do not have such policies. Don't get mad, contact them.

[Wakeup]

Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Seriously??

That's about like saying Houston = he's an asshole lol.

EA...c'mon man...Brooke would never say that...

http://www.eccie.net/showpost.php?p=761852&postcount=8