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Eccie Addict · 06-05-2011, 01:33 PM

It's a bait n switch either way. It just works out in a good way when she looks better....

Still Looking · 06-05-2011, 01:41 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

I take it that it didn't bother you in the least that they lied about their age .....

Lied is such an ugly word Mr Addict. How about we use embellish!? Here is how I get the intel... I tell them, My God you are drop dead gorgeous. I cannot believe you are ("LISTED AGE"?) when you hit them with that and don't lose eye contact, watch for their demeanor to change. In most cases if they like you, they follow up with your not going to believe how old I am? And they spill the beans! Once again hands tell a story! My point of view... I don't worry or care about plus or minus years unless a provider looks to young! If the provider carries in books and say I need to finish home work.... I want ID! It’s the 18-22 year olds we need to be VERY careful with. I know some guys like them young... be careful. I personally like the 25-80 group. Outside of that they are protected by strict rules or by mother nature. Everything in between is fair game!

To answer your question… Not At All!

Eccie Addict · 06-05-2011, 01:52 PM

Ugly or not it's the correct word to use....

urhuckleberry · 06-05-2011, 01:53 PM

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Originally Posted by FlectiNonFrangi

At least since I started hobbying I no longer have to lie about how many sexual partners I have had. One of my ATFs is 5 years older, but it does not make one bit of difference, because I like her, and the date on her DL means nothing.

Flect! Who the hell is older than you????? PM me with her name, because I want to congratulate her!!

(Just messin' with you ole man)

Age doesn't matter to me. It's all about attitude and the "fantasy"... you missed our 61 year old provider from Tulsa who retired last winter. She was a hot as any and was proud of her age.

Huck

Still Looking · 06-05-2011, 02:16 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Ugly or not it's the correct word to use....

I certainly respect your right to your option, and by all means feel free to call a lady a liar!

And I'm entitled to mine and I just call it embellishing! (Perhaps poetic License)

I think it was Forest Gump who said: "Life is like a box of chocolates... dam I hate chocolate, it gives me the runs!" They edited it to say... "You just never know what you're gonna get!"

Ansley · 06-05-2011, 02:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Still Looking

Here is how I get the intel... I tell them, My God you are drop dead gorgeous. I cannot believe you are ("LISTED AGE"?) when you hit them with that and don't lose eye contact, watch for their demeanor to change.

Why play games? If she is a good looking lady, give her a compliment and move on. A gentleman wouldn't bring up her age.

Sweet N Little · 06-05-2011, 02:21 PM

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Originally Posted by Ansley

Why play games? If she is a good looking lady, give her a compliment and move on. A gentleman wouldn't bring up her age.

+ 1 couldn't have said it better Ansley

Keyword Gentlemen, my favorite

note to self, buy good hand cream lol

Still Looking · 06-05-2011, 02:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Ansley

Why play games? If she is a good looking lady, give her a compliment and move on. A gentleman wouldn't bring up her age.

Not a game. It’s always nice to allow someone to be honest. As you say if she is a good looking lady, perhaps a hobbyist might want keep seeing her. I think honesty is important in any relationship! Sometimes it works out to be a nice ice breaker on a first visit.

Still Looking · 06-05-2011, 02:34 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

+ 1 couldn't have said it better Ansley

Keyword Gentlemen, my favorite

note to self, buy good hand cream lol

Super Hot Lady in Red: A gentleman would never ask a ladies age! You are 100% correct. What we’re talking about here is questioning a published age! I have mentioned it several times in other posts..I really don't care about the age... but honesty is pretty high on my list. Especially if I plan on continuing the relationship (ATF)

Curl Healing Hands is what I use. Nobody can tell I'm 94!

Eccie Addict · 06-05-2011, 02:35 PM

Still Looking we all lie and its not like its some attrocious crime to do so. Like I said before though, I bet there are ladies that have an age restriction that would have no problem calling a guy a liar if he lied about his age so he could see her. You sure don't have a problem not sugarcoating things when you feel wronged....

I don't have an issue with a lady's age. In fact it has yet to be a factor in my decision making process when seeing a provider....

SlowHand49 · 06-05-2011, 02:43 PM

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Originally Posted by urhuckleberry

... you missed our 61 year old provider from Tulsa who retired last winter. She was a hot as any and was proud of her age.

Huck

Damn, she retired? Sorry I missed that opportunity, she was said to be quite hot.

Still Looking · 06-05-2011, 02:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Still Looking we all lie and its not like its some attrocious crime to do so. Like I said before though, I bet there are ladies that have an age restriction that would have no problem calling a guy a liar if he lied about his age so he could see her. You sure don't have a problem not sugarcoating things when you feel wronged....

I don't have an issue with a lady's age. In fact it has yet to be a factor in my decision making process when seeing a provider....

Now look who's calling the kettle black? EVERYTHING your saying is either true or your option. I still disagree with you. You go ahead and call a lady a liar and she might just knock that rabbit suite right off of you! For the record, you’re talking about several things. I'm only talking about the use of the word liar! That’s about as straight forward as I can make it! (Non-sugarcoated if you will) I mean no disrespect!

WTF · 06-05-2011, 02:54 PM

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Originally Posted by Sweet N Little

+ 1 couldn't have said it better Ansley

Keyword Gentlemen, my favorite

note to self, buy good hand cream lol

A gentleman won't as but then a proper lady would not lie.

Cuts both ways.

Why lie?

Don't some ladies set a minimum age?

Do you want some 21 year old telling you he is 35.

This is a business, as such, I like to know the truth.

!5 years is just as much bait and switch as 2 years. They are both a lie.

Eccie Addict · 06-05-2011, 02:56 PM

Hmmmmm.....

Ladies, how many of you lie?

I know I have....

charlestudor2005 · 06-05-2011, 02:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Ansley

Why play games? If she is a good looking lady, give her a compliment and move on. A gentleman wouldn't bring up her age.

I may be a bit caustic on the board, but I'm not in person...I try to be a gentleman. If the lady appears 15 years older than her pics, it might be a disappointment, but no reason to be rude or cancel the session. We are both taking chances on such a meeting. I firmly believe that the thing to do in such a situation is to be a gentleman and get the best out of the session as possible. If it's a remarkable session, you may have found a diamond in the rough, and you'll repeat. The worst that will happen is that you won't repeat.