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Tylus_amore · 10-13-2012, 10:15 AM

Ok in the main national forum there is a conversation in regards to the meaning this.. While I don't have any body complex issues..
(Seeeing how my breast weigh more than some spinners

I just can't help but wonder how providers are feeling reading this thread.... according to some there is no curvy or bbw or even voluptuous it's just you are fat and that's it.... I have never had any issues with my clients subs or slaves...

According to some if you are larger than 8-10 you are considered plus size... others think its 16+ ...

While the subject is appropriate the content within is beyond off.

When it comes to Pro Dominas is there a different type of mindset when it comes to your Mistress? How much sex appeal is really invovled in the D/s realm when it comes to being attractive?

D/s chime in....

DallasRain · 10-13-2012, 12:53 PM

I have been called in a review "Not quite a bbw,but not a spinner"........WTF?? I am only 135lbs at 5'4 and wear a size 7!

I think it is all in each person's own perspective..........

34E Whitney Weston · 10-13-2012, 12:58 PM

Eye of the beholder!

Cpalmson · 10-13-2012, 01:06 PM

Dallas, fear not. You are nowhere near BBW material.

DallasRain · 10-13-2012, 01:19 PM

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Originally Posted by Cpalmson

Dallas, fear not. You are nowhere near BBW material.

kaylaa · 10-13-2012, 01:37 PM

me as well im almost exact same as you i am between 5'3 and 5'4 and weigh 130 but one person said "not a bbw but has nice curves" so idk everyone does have their own opinion i think it varies from person to person what curvy, vulumptious, and bbw is to them in their eyes ..

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Originally Posted by DallasRain

I have been called in a review "Not quite a bbw,but not a spinner"........WTF?? I am only 135lbs at 5'4 and wear a size 7!

I think it is all in each person's own perspective..........

Satyrrical · 10-13-2012, 01:52 PM

I like that quote from Pulp Fiction where the French gal tells Butch that what looks good does not always feel good to the touch. Been with some thin gals that looked pretty good, but when it got to the good stuff all I could feel was bones. Definitely prefer some flesh on the bones.

To me, the threshold of the BBW is when I have trouble breathing DATY.

Trey · 10-13-2012, 01:57 PM

All are terms for overweight. Bbw is to make the fat and unattractive feel better. The others are still overweight but have exaggerated features that men may find attractive.

DallasRain · 10-13-2012, 02:12 PM

I personally do prefer a chunky man though.......as for my women,I like my size or a little tad thicker

Nicolet · 10-13-2012, 02:33 PM

To some, if you aren't a stick figure with tits, you're a fat cow. Then are are those who like a woman with some meat on her bones. To each his or her own. That's why there is a place to hobby, all varieties for different people.

MOCHAakaMOCHA · 10-13-2012, 05:41 PM

I think curvy is more about shape/figure and bbw is more so overall size. I'm a bbw but i'm a curvy bbw. I'm a fat girl but I have shape to me....i'm not straight as a bored.... you can differentiate my breasts hips from my midsection etc etc I'm not just one round mass lol.

Tylus_amore · 10-14-2012, 09:41 AM

Wow that's a good one.. i'm not just a round mass....

I was just like wow... they are really coming down hard on women that are not 115 pounds. in my reviews I have never been called anything near a bbw but I am very curvy now.

When I first began as a provider I was way too small, my guys loved the boobs and referred to my frame as tiny and When I play with women I prefer curvy.... but some of these forums if you aren't tiny then you are fat and ugly.. Wtf???

I guess to each his own.. I had to ask... i'm 160 5'7 34-32-44, cup size M now and about 14lb of tits... small waist and 44 in ass... I think i'm very comfortable at Voluptuous... Having curves is awesome as long as you are sloppy i don't think it should make a difference..

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Originally Posted by MOCHAakaMOCHA

I think curvy is more about shape/figure and bbw is more so overall size. I'm a bbw but i'm a curvy bbw. I'm a fat girl but I have shape to me....i'm not straight as a bored.... you can differentiate my breasts hips from my midsection etc etc I'm not just one round mass lol.

buzzworm86 · 10-14-2012, 09:41 PM

Curvy and voluptuous both still maintain the hour glass figure. BBW has shattered the hour glass. BBWs often have what I call a "front butt" the ballooned portion in the pelvic region below the belly button.

front butt

curvy/voluptuous

the hour glass is shattered and totally destroyed

Something tasty! http://www.imagecoast.com/images/buzzworm86/04.jpg

MOCHAakaMOCHA · 10-14-2012, 09:58 PM

I'm glad you asked

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Personally looking at your avi and ratio I'd consider you on the smaller end of a bbw BUT it wouldn't be incorrect to call you curvy or voluptuous either. I think when some people see or read bbw they automatically cut to an image of huge and rolls with no shape when we don't all have the same shape even being bigger women. I don't even think you really have to be "fat" or sloppy per se to be bbw but that's just me. I have plenty of reviews elsewhere but just the one here and that eccie reviewer describes me as a I think not quite a bbw just a bigger gal but i'm absolutely a bbw.....I have curves yet but I'm not under any delusion that I'm not a bbw.

You sure your M's are 14lbs? Lol btw i'm a large DD and i'm pretty sure my tits together way more than 14lbs (these girls are heavy haha)....I joke with people sometimes that about 20lbs of me are just my tits

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Originally Posted by Tylus_amore

Wow that's a good one.. i'm not just a round mass....

I was just like wow... they are really coming down hard on women that are not 115 pounds. in my reviews I have never been called anything near a bbw but I am very curvy now.

When I first began as a provider I was way too small, my guys loved the boobs and referred to my frame as tiny and When I play with women I prefer curvy.... but some of these forums if you aren't tiny then you are fat and ugly.. Wtf???

I guess to each his own.. I had to ask... i'm 160 5'7 34-32-44, cup size M now and about 14lb of tits... small waist and 44 in ass... I think i'm very comfortable at Voluptuous... Having curves is awesome as long as you are sloppy i don't think it should make a difference..

mm-good · 10-14-2012, 10:12 PM

@buzzworm, how did u get that pic of my front butt while Im wearing my manbra?
I was promised that would stay hidden away...

Really though, I've been with sticks, to women bigger, ok not exactly bigger, but closer toy size (6'2", 300#+) and a mix of in between.

I've seen not alot of correlation in the size and the quality of the session.

Is has been more about the attitudes (mine and providers' ) and if we click - so our lick and stick have a good energy and IOP -and sometimes even just cut loose withou the IO part. Hehe

I think the descriptions are more to help the various gents
Figure out their match/preference. Some even to have the fantasy...

I mean if you are into the suffocation/drowning thing,
You probably better off finding a fuller figured or BBW Squirter to tied you down and face ride you than a tiny spinner requiring a lube up to get going.... IJS

Dunno about Pro Domme, but my bet is it's more about skills and ability to deliver than anything else.