locker room

[brother]

i like to ask the staff why we have a locker. also i like the other members to comment on this. i thougt it was there to just talk between the guy members on the site about things you didnt was the providers and guests of the site to read. 2 times i wrote in the locker room to help the board with info on a provider both times someone told the provider. first time we had a provider visiting i seen her in the past it didnt go very good so i wrote about in the locker room. she PM me she i a liar and a lot of other shit. also about 6 members PM some shit. the 2nd thing was about someone standing me up and someone else booking and srceening for her. trying to get some in on a provider to help the board some member of the board im trying to help told her about what been said in the locker room. three things i never will do WRITE A FAKE REVEIW.... WRITE A BAD REVIEW UNLESS IT COULD HURT A MEMBER. I WONT TELL WHAT BEEN WROTE ABOUT A PROVIDER TO A PROVIDER. i had told a provider something good said about her but never got into details with them.

[causewaycommuter]

Brother, unfortunately there are two issues with the locker room/men's lounge. The first is that there are spineless guys that share info with girls either to put them in good graces with the girls or because they are gossip queens and don't know how to keep something private. The other issue is that I strongly suspect that some girls have a second account with eccie that they pay for premium access, thereby allowing them to read private comments and everything in the locker room/men's lounge. This isn't anything new.

My personal feelings is that I don't post anything, either public or private, unless I am willing or ready to deal with the person I am posting about. Yeah I know it sucks but that is the way it is.

PMs are pretty much the closest thing to communicating with someone privately. But even then, you have to feel comfortable that the person won't share what you write in the PM with other people.

[jhende3]

your right, your so right. Its a lot of bandwagon stuff on here. I have had the same Iproblems in the past, I like to talk about different things all the time on here but I find myself holding back sometimes because of not the girls but the guys. They seem to take up for some providers. Spineless! Most of these guys praise girls on here as if they were married. I'll give you an example, A while back a guy asked a question about providers and taxes, do they pay them. The whole board went crazy with providers and guys jumping in the defend the thought that a provider wouldn't pay her taxes to the government. Now I was born at night, but it wasn't last night. Just like a claim on my taxes hobbying as a business expenditure. Who is that stupid. Or a different one this one was about BBFS, it was about providers that do it. Everyone called that a death sentence. Yea like money talks and bullshit runs a marathon. Like I said before in the pass I won't try and sell anyone a wooden nickel or lie to you. If providers give crappy service they give crappy service. Thats the one thing I think we are missing on here and that is honesty, no one knows who you are or cares. I know I don't. Im trying to get a list of some real girls who bring the goods who knows how to please but rather keep there names out of the public arena.

[MrGiz]

I sometimes feel like there's a "backside" to the complaints that result from Locker Room leaks. I know we might all like to think we could enjoy the utopian dream of secrecy in here.... but let's face it... it aint happening!

Like CC already said.... I simply think everyone should be accountable for everything they say.... no matter where they post it!! That's just my $.02 opinion. As long as what you're posting isn't a LIE.... who gives a fuck if someone's feelings gets hurt, because some big meanie guy (or girl) said nasty things about them? They're not supposed to be snooping around, anyway!!

I think it's nice that we have a place where at least, the intent , is to keep abrasive comments out of public view.... but if the spies want to sneak in.... they should bring thick skin with 'em!!

Giz
P.S. - Has anyone else noticed that the NOLA forums have been a little bit friendlier place to be in past couple of weeks? Is it just me.... or have we all just decided to stop the silly shit?

[Raindog115]

Originally Posted by MrGiz

P.S. - Has anyone else noticed that the NOLA forums have been a little bit friendlier place to be in past couple of weeks? Is it just me.... or have we all just decided to stop the silly shit?

[pornodave69]

Originally Posted by MrGiz

As long as what you're posting isn't a LIE.... who gives a fuck if someone's feelings gets hurt, because some big meanie guy (or girl) said nasty things about them? They're not supposed to be snooping around, anyway!!

EXACTLY!!! I say tell it like it is. If some pussy whipped "man" on here feels the need to run to mamma and tell her what you said and she gives you shit, tell her "Sorry, but I've had better service and I stand by my words and opinions." If she doesn't like it, tough shit! Presumably, you won't be seeing her again so there is nothing lost. If she does give you grief, post that as well. Let everybody know how much of a little bitch she is and she'll feel it in her wallet.

As far as the spineless, nutless wonders out there who spew this private info, they need to die a horrible death and disappear forever.

[Musman]

Originally Posted by pornodave69

EXACTLY!!! I say tell it like it is. If some pussy whipped "man" on here feels the need to run to mamma and tell her what you said and she gives you shit, tell her "Sorry, but I've had better service and I stand by my words and opinions." If she doesn't like it, tough shit! Presumably, you won't be seeing her again so there is nothing lost. If she does give you grief, post that as well. Let everybody know how much of a little bitch she is and she'll feel it in her wallet.

This works better for guys with a low risk tolerance. Guys with more to lose if they are outed would be less likely to want to get into it with a provider and risk a target on their back. We all know there are some wacky bitches out there - as well as their boyfriends, pimps and white knights. I reserve negative comments for trusted friends only. I started that policy after having a locker room thread I started posted on Backpage a few years ago. I won't support providers I don't like or respect and I'll tell the truth if asked back channel by someone I know, but you won't see me stirring up drama on the boards or getting into pissing contests either.

Originally Posted by pornodave69

As far as the spineless, nutless wonders out there who spew this private info, they need to die a horrible death and disappear forever..

The problem isn't only the "nutless wonders". It's boyfriends, managers and providers themselves who pay for BCD under a male identity. How hard is it to get a prepaid Visa and initially sign up through a different IP? It may have even been a jealous provider who posted my locker room thread on Backpage.

MM

[Outdoorsman]

I have to agree with CC, I have learned just not say what I do not want heard, that simple. It does get back to the ladies and I do not ponder how or why, don't care. If I do not want the lady to know something, the fewer people I tell the less likely she will find out. Simple. I have friends on here that I trust and speak to back channel and I do not repeat what I am told. I can only account for my own actions. Maybe, I could write some less than stellar reviews of ladies I have seen and not had the best of times. But I do not feel it is my duty to report to anyone any experience I have. I write because I enjoy it, I do it for me, if you guys get some benefit great!! I know I get benefit from your writings, so Thank You.

I just do not enjoy writing bad stuff, just me. I only write reviews if the lady wants one, again just me. I tell it like it is and whether anyone believes it or not is their issue I do not care either way. I have heard the arguments that I should be more loyal to the guys or more loyal to this person or that. I do not buy into all that crap, I choose to be trustworthy and honest because it is the best way to keep chaos and guilt out of my life, just me.

[Musman]

What I'm hearing here is that there is no such thing as solidarity or the candid, open and honest exchange of the truth among dawgs in the hobby - even in the male private areas. While this may be mostly true on public boards, this isn't the whole story. We get our most valuable input publicly from guys with higher risk tolerances and those who's ego, personality, naivity or stupidity drives them to speak their minds in spite of the fact that they are risking more than they should. Sure, we have lots of guys who don't lie, but they might be overly generous with a review or silent when they have something to say that would help the community. Risk considerations increase when a person has more to lose. Vitter and Sanford had about zero risk tolerance with their career tracks and family situations at the time they were getting their stingers wet, and they blew it big time. Let's face it, there are lots of stories around about guys who have gone through hell because they were too free with personal information or crossed the wrong person in the hobby. Maybe they were sloppy about security or slipped up during "pillow talk". Then they became bargaining chips in a provider/madam's separate legal mess - or they pissed off a vindictive psycho provider, her boyfriend or pimp - and all hell broke loose. Newbies will learn that there is a whole new world that opens once they prove themselves to be trustworthy and valuable assets to the hobbiest community. Much more solid information is shared back channel than will ever show up on the public boards. PM's from dawgs alone aren't trustworthy, as many of us learned early on. We always have to consider the source. Hang around the hobby for a few years and you'll learn that there ARE a significant number of guys out there who tell it like it is and know how to keep their mouths shut. The information just isn't posted publicly. The guys who share inside information with a provider in the hope that she will give him extras or fall in love with him will probably never know what they are missing. Experience proves that a guy going down that road will get sucked dry - and then he'll learn that she was playing similar cons with a number of guys at the same time, so he wasn't so special afterall. Meanwhile, once that guy has proven that he can't be trusted, (and it always comes out because the girls can't keep their mouths shut either), the doors close and he gets a different value from the hobbiest community. This should be food for thought for newbies out there - and for guys who are seeing themselves in the mirror.

Another two cents....

MM

[MrGiz]

I simply, have a low tolerance for childish bullshit.... be it from a male or female.... in or out of the hobby! This particular enterprise we share here, is a whole lot more fun, when all the cards are out on the table... hidden agendas checked at the door... and lust driven fun is held as the goal of the moment!

It really is as simple as that!

Giz

[andy8434]

how do i get to the locker room?

[Guest052115-1]

Originally Posted by andy8434

how do i get to the locker room?

You have to have premium access. There are two ways to get PA. First, you can pay for it. Second, you can write a review that qualifies. If me and Wiley64 approve it, you will get 6 weeks of PA.

Feel free to PM me, or Wiley64, if you have any questions.

[Brmike1963]

I tend to think there are several providers with access to the LR.

[Guest052115-1]

Originally Posted by Brmike1963

I tend to think there are several providers with access to the LR.

Noooo, that cant be true.

[guest100913]

Hey Stick, did you notice that andy bumped a 2.5 year old thread? ... ijs.