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Old 08-17-2019, 02:47 PM   #1
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Hello...my sb is getting more and more interested in being tied up and dominated. My problem is this needs to be in a hotel, a hurdle I’m sure many of us deal with. The fantasy is her being spread open and dominated.
Any opinions on what works best? I’m thinking either simply the tape or the sex spreader bar. But not sure if the bar is as awesome as the pictures make it seem. I probably won’t be able to have a 4-post bed unfortunately.
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Old 08-17-2019, 03:40 PM   #2
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in most hotels there is a metal bar on all 4 corners of the bed on metal bedframes, you can easily tie rope around it. in the ones that have wood bases you can carry 4 eye bolts to screw in wood frame in all four corners.

on the ones that have neither run ropes under the mattress tie one wrist to other and one ankle to other.

Always use cuffs or tie knots that will not tighten on her. There are tutorials all over on how to tie them if you do not know....have fun
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Old 08-17-2019, 04:00 PM   #3
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cotton based ropes, at least 5/8ths, various reasons including avoiding marks.
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Old 08-20-2019, 06:19 AM   #4
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Don’t forget chairs, loveseats, tables, desks....then 2 c-clamps with 2 1x3 boards and you can use the doorway into the bathroom as well with her arms held up and apart with the spreader bar for her legs. There are other ways to restrain her on the bed with rope that doesn’t involve having to go under the bed or mattress.
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Old 08-20-2019, 03:15 PM   #5
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Go to West Marine (or Home Depot) and purchase 20 feet of the softest rope they have. Should cost less than $20. Then learn how to tie a bowline knot (google it).

Tie a bowline at both ends of the rope, creating a loop at each end. You can leave the knot in place and just loosen / tighten it as needed. Because the bowline knot creates a fixed loop in the rope, it's a great knot for sex bondage because you don't have to tie it so tight that it cuts off circulation. (It's also the most commonly used knot on sailboats.)

Slip the rope under the mattress of the bed, aligning the middle of the rope with the middle of the bed. Viola!... you have a way to tie her arms spread eagle.You can adjust the knot as needed to get more extension on her arms as needed.

Get a second piece of rope if you want to also restrain her ankles.

Have fun!
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Old 08-20-2019, 03:59 PM   #6
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If she wants to be tied up then you can bind her hands behind her. Use single rope, tie a Bowline on the Bight just above the knee, run the rope under the mattress and tie the other leg above the knee. If she wants a four point spread I would also use the bed posts if available.

Remember the ABCs of rope play...airway, breathing and circulation. Check them often.
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Old 08-20-2019, 05:31 PM   #7
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My favorite form of hotel bondage is...

Get a hand towel from the bathroom. Give to your the SB while she is standing and tell her to hold it behind her her back with both hands. Tell her "if you drop the towel I am sending you home." (Or some other punishment.) Now get her down on her knees and fuck her cute face. Remind her to hang on to the towel as you push your cock deeper down her throat.

This type of bondage is fun because it's both psychological and physical... she can exit the bondage at any time because she's the one who is holding onto the towel, but there will be consequences.

Good times!
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Old 08-20-2019, 06:44 PM   #8
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I’ve incorporated the luggage cart for such adventures. Ropes under the mattress, chairs, tables and/or hooks over the door work well too. Only limits are your imagination and maybe the noise level.
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Old 08-27-2019, 12:35 PM   #9
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Thanks for all the replies! I never really thought about going under the bed(or mattress) with rope. Sounds like the way to go for me.
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Old 08-27-2019, 02:04 PM   #10
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Love seat or sofa. Pull it away from the wall. Bend her over the back end of the seat where she can put her hands on the seat portion. Consider a pillow under her waist, laying over the pillow (more comfortable than the back edge of the love seat. Tie her hands spread to each front leg. Not so tight that she cannot support herself on her hands. Tie her legs spread to each back leg of the love seat/sofa. Now you are ready. Her ass is up and head somewhat down fully exposed. Perfect spanking and fucking position. Move to the front and her face is pretty damn near crotch height. You can adjust how wide spread he arms are to get her face the right height for you. Have fun.
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Old 08-27-2019, 05:46 PM   #11
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similar to Adventurous1's idea...
if the hotel room has a movable desk
1. move it away from the wall.
2. put pillow(s) on the desk and have her bend/lay over it.
3. tie her wrists to each leg of the desk on that side, tie her ankles to each leg of the desk on that side.
or w/ proper rope, tie right wrist to left ankle & left wrist to right ankle (cross-body tying does tricks on the mind)
4. blindfold her.
5. now, she is ready for whatever dominant delites you have in mind.

i saw a gang facefuck video the other day where a woman was sitting on her shins (kneeling but sitting down). someone tied a rope tied to something above the doorway then tied her wrists to that rope ==> hands above her body and face/mouth fully accessible. she'd have to kneel or stand for vaginal/anal play.

if you can get a sex swing that will work over/thru a door or a doorjamb, that's another option.

all found google searching for "sex swing" then switched into image mode.
* https://wolfandjulie.net/sex-swings/ (esp the over the door version)
* https://www.amazon.com/Best-Sellers-...hpc/1243851011
* https://sextoycollective.com/sex-furniture/swings/

good luck and have a dominantly deliteful time!!
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Old 08-27-2019, 11:17 PM   #12
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Under mattress restraint system. Rope. Bondage tape. Spreader bar. Her own clothing. The towel mentioned above.
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Old 08-28-2019, 05:17 PM   #13
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Originally Posted by GypsyHeart View Post
... Her own clothing. ...
i've used a provider's blouse, scarf, pillowcases even my shirt as blindfolding material. one technique i saw and have used is put her arms behind her and into a pillowcase, then pull it up as tight as you can.

i've yet to use her panties to stuff her mouth in place of a ball gag. nor have her stuff them in my mouth.

wrt Spreader bars, i know how they fit, but have never used them.
what do you all use them for? control, teasing, preparing? how does it restrict any sort of penetrative sex?
i can see where this kind in this position provides lots of access.
.... https://www.ebay.com/itm/Adult-Stain...-/142645904567
but in this position, it doesnt see like penetrative sex would be easy to accumplish.
.... https://www.ebay.com/itm/Stainless-S...-/401716486628

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Old 08-29-2019, 08:06 AM   #14
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I have a door swing,
you can hang it on any door..

There is also arm restraints that hang over the door.

blind folds!

I get all my toys from extremerestraints.com
you can gather ideas from there.
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Old 08-31-2019, 04:13 PM   #15
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Lots of choices out there. Best bet is for you and your sb to look at them together and decide.

Since you mention it has to be in a hotel. Whom will be keeping the items afterwards? Thats something to consider if either of you are "limited" on storage space.

Even saran wrap will work in a pinch. Its cheap and you dont have to worry about "storage" aferwards.
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