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Old 08-18-2016, 12:55 PM   #1
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Default A Letter To My Upscale Respectful Brothers

This post is for my brothers (black MEN) that work hard and contribute positively to this community we call Eccie. For you racist bastards and bitches feel free to post but just know I don't give a fuck!

This is sure to get me banded, but oh well. I read a really sad post in the alert section posted about a young lady being assaulted and like clock work some idiot quickly turned it in to an indictment of all black men. Unfortunately, men of all races show disrespect to these young ladies, but it's only black men that get labeled "high risk".

Brothers, you have to be growing tired of this craziness! Are you tired of these retarded white boys talking out the side of their necks with their snide remarks? Aren't you tired of "No AA ads", providers saying, "You sounded white on the phone", and the back handed comments like, "You are different from other black men"?

It's time to boycott platforms like Eccie and Backpage. In fact, it's time to boycott this hobby all together. I know that mistresses and side chicks can cause some problems, but if done the right way can be wonderful and void of the racial judgements and prejudices we face in the hobby. For those of you that don't want to leave the hobby, stick with the ladies that don't base who they see on skin color. Way too often, some of you will still spend your time and resources with women who post "No AA men", but after verification will agree to see you. Take a stand! All providers that have that in their ads, grant them their wish and don't see them!

Let's devote our dollars, time, and energy to platforms, activities, and endeavors that provide a mutual respect!

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Old 08-18-2016, 03:01 PM   #2
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Moved from Coed Discussions.

Before much discussion begins on this topic, it seems appropriate to remind everyone of the following forum guidelines.

#2 - Derogatory racial remarks are simply unacceptable, period. Disrespect another's ethnic background and you will most certainly regret it.

#3 - Disrespect to others, IN GENERAL, will be considered an item of low tolerance, especially when posting in our coed forums. Follow the Golden Rule and treat others as you wish to be treated yourself. This applies to fellow members as well as staff. We do not require that you have respect for us, but we do require that you treat us respectfully in the public forums. If you feel the need to vent, gripe, or blow off some steam regarding a staff member's action or decision, we ask that you keep it private. Email, RTM, or the PM system would be the appropriate avenue to take in such cases. In cases where you would like to request additional clarity about a staff decision, you are free to pursue an answer in either a public forum or private means of communication. If handled publicly, post your inquiry in a respectful manner.

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Old 08-18-2016, 03:04 PM   #3
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and your post is any less racially motivated! this white boy is going to talk out the side of his neck for a minute. i could care less about skin color i have had sex with all different race women. but your post as a black man with your affirmative action bullshit is as racist as the post your speaking of! and this is why racial tension is abound. it is always about the color of his skin or her skin or i was treated unfairly because of this or that.

i will agree racism is a huge problem in our fucked up world as a whole. but your racist ass post is no different than the one you speak of. if this is how you feel to boycott women with nba policies then by all means do that! but being racist against racism does not help your cause and in turn makes you no better and just as big of a bigot!
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Old 08-18-2016, 03:10 PM   #4
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This thread is destined to be an epic fail. Nothing good or informative will come of anything posted here. Mods, please close this thread.
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Old 08-18-2016, 03:26 PM   #5
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Had a good documentary on TV called " Dark Women". Seems like the brothers prefer light brights, and dump on dark skinned black women. Is that racist?
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Old 08-18-2016, 03:29 PM   #6
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Default What Happened to the Upscale Respectful Brother?!?!?

I actually started to read this post with some interest. Certainly there can be a "place them all in one category" mentality when talking about the ladies' nba policies, just as there is an attitude among guys with our "NEVER SEE A BACKPAGE GIRL!" mentality, when both have been proven non-factual in all cases.

But, when you crossed that "upscale respectful" line to state...
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...Are you tired of these retarded white boys...
...you lost my respect immediately.

It's your dollar, son... do whatever the fuck you want with it....
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Old 08-18-2016, 03:55 PM   #7
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Had a good documentary on TV called " Dark Women". Seems like the brothers prefer light brights, and dump on dark skinned black women. Is that racist?
I remember reading the book "Patterns of Culture" by Margaret Mead in about 1964. (when ever I took that stupid class) Wow, it opened my eyes. She claimed that research showed that black people all prefer lighter skinned people as mates.

Talk about prejudice.

But then to be fair about it: would you want your kids to be black?
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Old 08-18-2016, 03:58 PM   #8
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just as there is an attitude among guys with our "NEVER SEE A BACKPAGE GIRL!" mentality, when both have been proven non-factual in all cases.
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You do know this is a forum with active pimps contributing to the discussions, reviews, and recommendations.

To state the obvious.

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Old 08-18-2016, 05:01 PM   #9
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I'm Going To Start By Saying This I Am What I Call A Mutt I Have To Many Different Kind Of Nationalities In Me To Discriminate Or Judge Anyone..FYI We All Do..Who Is To Say Which One Is The Worst Or Right And Wrong The Gemini In Me Doesn't Make It Any Better..Nobody Has The Right To Be Discriminating Or Judging Because Of Race,Age,Sex Or Appearances..If You Have Evil,Bad Intentions Or Any Kind Of Wrong Doing It's In Them That's Who They Are We All Have Rights And Choices Wrong Or Right.. I'm Very Sorry To Hear What Happened To The Goddess I Hope She Has A Fast Recovery.. But I Don't Understand Why No AA But Will See AA That Are Older Hello Didn't Anyone Ever Tell You That The Older You Get The Younger You Are. I Say It All The Time I May Be Younger Than You But I I Have A 70 Year Old Soul And Can Probably Teach You A Thing Or Two It Goes The Other Way To Older But With A Young Soul And Doesn't Have Respect For Anyone Race,Age,Sex,Appearance Or Money Doesn't Make My Panties Wet If My Mind Isn't Into It Then My Body Won't Be.. Clients And Provider's We All Have A Type And Some Of Us Think That Someone Is Not Their Type And That Person Could Be The Best They Ever Had.. Does Anyone Know Or Seen someone Who You Thought Was A Certain Nationality Because Of The COLOR Of Their Skin But You Were Wrong Take Me For Instance I Have All Kinds Of Different Blood Flowing Threw Me I Have This Thing Called I Can Do Whatever The F$ck I Want.. We All Should Be Grown Ups And Recognize The Difference.. I'm Done For Now Anyway Let's All Get Freaky This Thoroughbred Is Always Ready For A Workout 💪. As Always Be Safe And Have Fun Enjoy Yourself If You Don't Have Fun With What Your Doing Then Why Do It

Thank You Agreen7 For This Thread I Like That In You. I Tend To Run My Mouth 👄 When There Is Nothing Else To Keep It Occupied 👅
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Old 08-18-2016, 05:13 PM   #10
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Second that notion. Nothing good can come from this.
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Old 08-18-2016, 05:33 PM   #11
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Honestly What People Say In RL And FL Is Just That Just Because Someone Says Or Writes That They Don't See This Kind Of Person Doesn't Make It True Same As Stretching The Truth. So Really Does It Matter Because If Your A Racist Either Woman Or Man Whatever Nationality You May Be And You Have Double Life's It Doesn't Matter Your Type Weather Your Willing Or Not If Someone Wants To Get Laid Racist Or Not Good Piece Of A$$ In Are Eye's Is A Good A$$.. With That Being Said Why Is It We Are Not Gathering A Lynch Mob For All The Chester's,Rapists And Murders. 👋👋 Because We All Still Want To Get A Good Piece Of A$$ And If We Go After Then We Might Ended Up LYNCHING A Good Piece Of A$$.. But Who Knows We Just Might Like It And Be On The Menu From Now On.. Crayola Crazy Perverted Self
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In the words of Curly Bell to Wyatt Earp..........,"Ok, bye"
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As a black companion, I appreciate this. I see men (and women) of all ethnicities. As long as you are respectful then race should not matter. I always shake my head when I read about other women who do the whole "no AA men" routine as it's just racist fear mongering, and yes, it is indeed racist. There is no reason to boycott the hobby as I assure you there are quality women like myself who would not hesitate to see you. I've noticed it's the lower rung backpage women who espouse that rhetoric anyway. They are best avoided regardless.

As for the men who commented on that post, I assure you that us non white companions noticed and have adjusted our personal black list accordingly.
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Old 08-18-2016, 07:27 PM   #14
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Honestly What People Say In RL And FL Is Just That Just Because Someone Says Or Writes That They Don't See This Kind Of Person Doesn't Make It True Same As Stretching The Truth. So Really Does It Matter Because If Your A Racist Either Woman Or Man Whatever Nationality You May Be And You Have Double Life's It Doesn't Matter Your Type Weather Your Willing Or Not If Someone Wants To Get Laid Racist Or Not Good Piece Of A$$ In Are Eye's Is A Good A$$.. With That Being Said Why Is It We Are Not Gathering A Lynch Mob For All The Chester's,Rapists And Murders. 👋👋 Because We All Still Want To Get A Good Piece Of A$$ And If We Go After Then We Might Ended Up LYNCHING A Good Piece Of A$$.. But Who Knows We Just Might Like It And Be On The Menu From Now On.. Crayola Crazy Perverted Self
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I'm Going To Start By Saying This I Am What I Call A Mutt I Have To Many Different Kind Of Nationalities In Me To Discriminate Or Judge Anyone..FYI We All Do..Who Is To Say Which One Is The Worst Or Right And Wrong The Gemini In Me Doesn't Make It Any Better..Nobody Has The Right To Be Discriminating Or Judging Because Of Race,Age,Sex Or Appearances..If You Have Evil,Bad Intentions Or Any Kind Of Wrong Doing It's In Them That's Who They Are We All Have Rights And Choices Wrong Or Right.. I'm Very Sorry To Hear What Happened To The Goddess I Hope She Has A Fast Recovery.. But I Don't Understand Why No AA But Will See AA That Are Older Hello Didn't Anyone Ever Tell You That The Older You Get The Younger You Are. I Say It All The Time I May Be Younger Than You But I I Have A 70 Year Old Soul And Can Probably Teach You A Thing Or Two It Goes The Other Way To Older But With A Young Soul And Doesn't Have Respect For Anyone Race,Age,Sex,Appearance Or Money Doesn't Make My Panties Wet If My Mind Isn't Into It Then My Body Won't Be.. Clients And Provider's We All Have A Type And Some Of Us Think That Someone Is Not Their Type And That Person Could Be The Best They Ever Had.. Does Anyone Know Or Seen someone Who You Thought Was A Certain Nationality Because Of The COLOR Of Their Skin But You Were Wrong Take Me For Instance I Have All Kinds Of Different Blood Flowing Threw Me I Have This Thing Called I Can Do Whatever The F$ck I Want.. We All Should Be Grown Ups And Recognize The Difference.. I'm Done For Now Anyway Let's All Get Freaky This Thoroughbred Is Always Ready For A Workout 💪. As Always Be Safe And Have Fun Enjoy Yourself If You Don't Have Fun With What Your Doing Then Why Do It

Thank You Agreen7 For This Thread I Like That In You. I Tend To Run My Mouth 👄 When There Is Nothing Else To Keep It Occupied 👅
and this post hurt my eyes and head to read. the overlapping font makes for very difficult deciphering!
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As a black companion, I appreciate this. I see men (and women) of all ethnicities. As long as you are respectful then race should not matter. I always shake my head when I read about other women who do the whole "no AA men" routine as it's just racist fear mongering, and yes, it is indeed racist. There is no reason to boycott the hobby as I assure you there are quality women like myself who would not hesitate to see you. I've noticed it's the lower rung backpage women who espouse that rhetoric anyway. They are best avoided regardless.

As for the men who commented on that post, I assure you that us non white companions noticed and have adjusted our personal black list accordingly.
Gemma No disrespect sweetie but your showcase says mixed but you keep calling yourself black....why?
Are you black or white or what?
Why cant you be white or any other half of any other race?
But you are very pretty
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