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!!Sexy Erotic Morgan · 01-11-2013, 08:28 AM

Hey everybody!

Lately I have been getting a lot of calls in which clients ask for 15 minute sessions, or quickies. I am not knocking the guys that ask for them, or the girls that do them. This is a tough economic time, and its understandable.

However, for me, this goes against what being an escort is all about. We are here to spend time with you, help you relax, set a mood, rock your world, and get to know each other a little. It is impossible to do that in 15 or even 30 minutes.

I know the whole "quicky" thing is carried over from BP, where it is pretty much the norm, and as I said, I have no problem with it. Your business is your business. I think it would be cool if the clients seeking them and the providers giving them had their own area and clients seeking 1+ hr appointments and the girls that specialize in them had their own area.

Just a thought...hope I did not offend anyone.

Fancyinheels · 01-11-2013, 09:09 AM

I think it's an interesting topic to discuss. Ladies who offer 15-minute quickies have often been looked down on here, and really, for what reason? It is their choice, just as it is the gentleman's choice to take advantage of the offer. Nothing wrong with a quick whomp romp.

However, I share your sentiments, EM. I want that leisurely, sensual experience. Heck, I just recently started offering 1-hour appointments for the convenience, and yes, the economy of the fellows. Before that, 2 hours was my minimum, as it was difficult to get into that "mood" and share an interlude of stimulation, relaxation, and intimacy in less time. (I have to state that only 10% of the gentlemen I see have opted for the shorter session.) By my own choice I prefer not to entertain more than a couple of gentlemen in a day to keep my outlook on the Hobby "fresh."

Hence the differences in definition, or so I surmise:

Provider -- While all-encompassing, I think this title might relate more to ladies who solely offer sexual satisfaction in 1-hour or shorter fragments of time.

Escort -- A lady who is willing to spend a chunk of time with you unhurried, as well as accompany you to a dinner, event, or some type of recreational pastime other than or in addition to bedroom gymnastics.

Companion -- Similarities with the old-fashioned (pre-BDSM) term "mistress." A companion will spend large amounts of time on a regular basis with you, is usually lower-volume so making room in her schedule is rarely a problem, becomes closely acquainted with your mind as well as your body, may accompany you on vacations, becomes your friend as well as your playmate.

Courtesan -- Companion with education who has refined her talents to an art form. May commit to an exclusive arrangement.

Comments? Dissent or agree?

dfrm65 · 01-11-2013, 09:43 AM

Some only have a short time at lunch or on the way home. In the hobby world dont worry about what others think, its what your comfortable with.

SimplyGwen · 01-11-2013, 10:10 AM

Thank you for posting this, Morgan. I have seen a lot of the "BNG" and "Quickies" advertised too. I don't offer these types of sessions, but I have had guys asking what my HH rate is and I have it clearly stated on my rates page, minimum of one hour.

I offered the Half Hour sessions for several months last year and didn't really enjoy being in a rush. I also like to get to know my clients or catch up with them. I understand that some guys have tight schedules and so forth and they are free to leave the meeting early, but I have the full hour set aside for them. I also noticed with HH sessions, that the guys usually stay longer than half hour. I feel that in some of these cases, the guys want the benefit of the full hour, but for cheaper!

steviewinwood · 01-11-2013, 10:31 AM

You ladies might not be offering this, but your competition is.

Fancyinheels · 01-11-2013, 10:45 AM

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Originally Posted by steviewinwood

You ladies might not be offering this, but your competition is.

Indeed, and that's fine. But ladies have to keep in mind what sort of gentlemen they wish to attract, and who's visiting them NOW. However unfair it may be, there is a perception associated with ladies who offer quickies, B&G's, rates of less than $100. If you've already established a more "upscale" reputation specializing in longer sessions with unhurried service, it can hurt a lady to drop her rates and drop to her knees for those fast pit-stops.

Quite a few of my gentlemen callers have told me this, so I kind of have to take their word for it, don't I? If I want to keep THEIR business, that is.

john_deere · 01-11-2013, 10:47 AM

seriously? if i want a 15-minute appointment i call up my atf. her nickname is "lefty." sometimes she does doubles with a sweetheart named "righty."

the price is right, too...

falconbueller · 01-11-2013, 10:49 AM

I like longer appts too. But I would certainly do "quickies" with ladies I've already seen if my schedule only allowed a short stop. Just my 2 cents.

Hercules · 01-11-2013, 11:16 AM

If ladies want to offer it that's fine. But they should not used it as a tool to get business in the door only then to inform the client that certain services are only available on longer appointments. I.e. bait with 15min then up sell.

Guest112916 · 01-11-2013, 11:16 AM

Seems odd. Providers don't like us to want or ask for 15 minute appointments, quickies, or B&G but have no problem when it takes 15 minutes or less for us to pop and get rid of us.....hmmmmm. Sounds like Obamanomics to me.

LordBeaverbrook · 01-11-2013, 11:29 AM

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Originally Posted by Von Spieler

Sounds like Obamanomics to me.

Well, it may be sound fiscal policy for the ladies, but for the gents it's Reaganomics.....once it trickles down it's all over LOL

Seriously though, personally, I only like 30 minute dates when I'm meeting a new lady where there are some doubts about her GFE qualifications and clock watching. After that it is only full hours if her TCB, attitude (non-mechanical and no clock watching, ringing phone or TV) and IOP are good. I try not to get short changed (nice way to put it) on a first meeting though. My ATF is more like a SB because when she has nothing else booked she often hangs out for a couple more hours (yeah, I know, I'm spoiled) or all night which is nice. I know it is often said we pay for the ladies to leave, but it is truly nice sometimes IMHO.

Fancyinheels · 01-11-2013, 11:31 AM

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Originally Posted by Von Spieler

Seems odd. Providers don't like us to want or ask for 15 minute appointments, quickies, or B&G but have no problem when it takes 15 minutes or less for us to pop and get rid of us.....hmmmmm. Sounds like Obamanomics to me.

If someone is trying to get rid of you just because you had your "home run" shortly after getting to bat, you are playing with the wrong gal. If a gentleman pays for an hour, he gets an hour, flat proclamation, MSOG if he so desires. There is ALWAYS more fun to be had, in some way, even if it's just pillow talk, cuddling, kissing, massage. And the whole thing about limited menus and upselled add-ons after you get there is just dishonest.

Now, with fellows I've seen before, I have been known to do what most girlfriends will do from time to time if time is limited. Nothing is set in stone, and flexibility (in attitude and body) is a critical talent for providers. Might as well leave all doors open for a breeze to a thunderstorm.

yaddayadda · 01-11-2013, 12:02 PM

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Originally Posted by Fancyinheels

If someone is trying to get rid of you just because you had your "home run" shortly after getting to bat, you are playing with the wrong gal. If a gentleman pays for an hour, he gets an hour, flat proclamation, MSOG if he so desires. There is ALWAYS more fun to be had, in some way, even if it's just pillow talk, cuddling, kissing, massage. And the whole thing about limited menus and upselled add-ons after you get there is just dishonest.

Now, with fellows I've seen before, I have been known to do what most girlfriends will do from time to time if time is limited. Nothing is set in stone, and flexibility (in attitude and body) is a critical talent for providers. Might as well leave all doors open for a breeze to a thunderstorm.

Unfortunately 'Tis not always the case. Some girls have no work ethic, I very much agree an hour is an hour but about half the girls out there are the "one and done type", mostly the young 'ins."

Guest112916 · 01-11-2013, 12:18 PM

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Originaly Posted by Austxjr - Well, it may be sound fiscal policy for the ladies, but for the gents it's Reaganomics.....once it trickles down it's all over LOL

If a cover is used then there is no trickle down effect unless it's a bbbj then the trickle down the chin and boobies will work.

Geeman76 · 01-11-2013, 12:46 PM

I have been on both sides of the coin. Good and Bad. There are some ladies that I just really enjoy there company and that goes a long way with making follow-up visits. And then there have been some where you pay for an hour, pop in first 30, and then she is getting dressed.. So i understand the thinking of if it will take me 30 to blow, why not just pay for the 30 to blow and still have enough for another 30 to blow later.

I think it boils down to how the lady makes you feel. Does she make me feel like a job, or does she make me feel like she doesn't want to leave when she is with me. What is the overall experience.

But hey, sometimes you only have time for McDonalds and that 99cent menu just hits the spots on short time and short notice.

My favorite provider is the one that gives me frequent flyer miles, hint a return rate to keep me coming back, with so much competition in the DFW its good to have loyaltist on your team. The best customer is a returning one.