That chaps my ass

[BassCat]

I think Kate was referring to my post where I kind of hijacked the thread (sorry). Kate I totally get where your coming from and I know as a provider you deal with time wasters regularly. It goes both ways is all I am pointing out. I get real life has precedent over hobby life and dont expect a girl to drop everything to deal with me.

As the consumer who is buying a service I do however get to choose what I am willing to put up with before I move on to the next. I know a hot 20 something has unlimited opportunity to make money selling herself. She wont miss my little bit of money but if I get tired of a girl flaking on me I will eventually walk away. Like I said in my post earlier if this girl wasnt hot and young that is exactly what I would have done.

I personally am willing to overlook such behavior when a young hot girl is involved. At least until I have seen her once or twice then if she stands me up or doesn't respond in what I consider a timely fashion I quit calling her.

What it all comes down to for me is I have a limit on what I am willing to put up with in order to give my money to a girl. As I am sure you have a limit of what behavior your will tolerate from a guy who is giving you money. Its not for me to say what and where your limit is. I just ask you show me the same respect when it comes to mine.

[Guest070721]

A discount because she possibly got sidetracked with something real world? Are you kidding me?
If something was set in stone, that may be a possibility, but a phone call? Hell no!

If she contacted him 5 hours later, the question should be, did she offer an explanation to client then?
That is the missing factor...

[Guest082718]

At the end of the day it's the communication that's the important part. The substance of such communications is between the parties.

[DocHolyday]

Originally Posted by playwithkate

As Bill Clinton noted with his "it depends on what the meaning of the word is, is" maybe an hour doesn't exactly mean an hour. I respectful disagree with you again. Words mean things and an hour means an hour! We also know BC was lying during the deposition in which he made that statement and was eventually disbarred by the Arkansas State Bar because of it. As a provider, I know that sometimes I may think something will be an hour, but for some reason this hobby can suck up time. I agree. So can RW issues. Not making excuses, but it just gets that way. Sorry Kate but it sounds very much like you are making excuses. He did say that at one point she got back to him five hours later. Sorry Kate, the OP NEVER said either one of the ladies got back to him in 5 hours. Bass Cat said it and he was talking about himself and his experience with yet another lady.

This is why a lot of providers want to plan things the day before, by email. Really? Why would you put such a thing in an email for LE to seize as evidence in a sting operation or be seized by computer hackers? It is the only way to be sure. How does putting something in a email prevent a cancellation or a delay? You said that ladies don't sit by their phones all day, so you now assert that they sit by their computer all day to answer email? Really, the only other way is if someone has a booker, a pimp or works for a service, to get some things done that need to be done.

I think we will just have to agree to disagree on this one.

[guest071618-1]

to him, his time is worth $$$... to her her time is worth $$$...

if she doesn't respect his time fuck her
and
if he doesn't respect her time fuck him

move on... go find another p**** and go find another d***...

(by the way, vivian, u look good)

[Vivian Gates]

Thank you eng