Will not providing DATY lead to a worse session?

[orlyo]

Ok, not that huge fan of providing DATY over here (I know, blasphemous!). I do enjoy doing it somewhat, but really not too much.

My question is, if I forgo DATY, will providers be disappointed/less into a session? Would I need to substitute it for something else like using my hand, FIV, etc? How important is DATY to providers?

[ben dover]

Not providing $$$$$ will lead to a worse session.... BD

[albundy]

They sure SEEM to enjoy it. But let's not bullsh-t ourselves here. It's a business deal. If you pay her and you're respectful it'll be good regardless if you DATY or not. Some providers don't even want that. They want covered EVERYTHING and no kissing. But, some guys want that too. To each their own, I guess.

I know a couple of guys at work that would NEVER go down on a "hooker" and they've said so. But on the other end of the spectrum, I work with a guy who admitted to going down on street walkers! Guy couldn't understand why we almost threw up when he was describing it. If you saw the SW's around here, you'd understand.

[watchoutthegameisrigged]

I don't hire street walkers and any lady I was not willing to perform daty on is a lady I would not hire in the first place - for anything. Geez. I'm pretty sure that virgins in the hobby are pretty damn rare. And never once have I ever experienced daty leading to a worse session. The result is quite normally quite the opposite.

[Jannisary]

Eh, whether performing or not performing DATY effects the performance of your date and thus your enjoyment of the session is going to be a fairly individual thing with each provider you see.

More providers than many guys want to believe, actually would just prefer to get to the main event and get things over with even though they advertise as GFE.

[Jimmiwad]

I believe this is a business arrangement. If you provide the correct payment, washed prior, was a gentleman it was a success.

[pyramider]

Considering that most fucktards do not know how to DATY, why would it be missed?

[SA Angel]

Depends? Foreplay is a good thing. DATY is awesome but kissing and other types of foreplay will get my engine going. I would think it's more of a concern the more GFE the lady is.

If someone doesn't kiss, daty, touch, or talk I'm won't be a happy camper honestly. Haven't encountered that yet.

[Slitlikr]

If you lack skills, skip it.
If you know what you're doing, you will be rewarded.

Always remember who is paying for service.

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by SA Angel

Depends? Foreplay is a good thing. DATY is awesome but kissing and other types of foreplay will get my engine going.

How do you like to be chewed?

[5T3V3]

i just love how the guys all jump in and tell the hookers what they want as if there is no acting invloved at all ... am I the only one that has seen When Harry met Sally? althought i am totally surprised that P skiped the easy taint reference ...

[RALPHEY BOY]

unless they are paying me, I seldom do DATY on first visit...

[Zhivago52]

I've a novel idea.... ask her.

[Guest010619]

No DATY?
That's like telling Virginia there is no Santa Clause.

[Lucky 1]

My experience has always been that NOT doing DATY does NOT mean you will have a bad session .......


But on the other hand.....

My experience has also been that if you DO do DATY...and do it well...you will far more often than not be well rewarded for your efforts....lets face it...these girls are human beings too and if you try to be pleasing to them they will almost always respond by being more pleasing to you than they might have been otherwise....this has happened to me more times than I can count!

I can think of a particular provider I saw a few times very early in my career as a hobbyist when I was still pretty green and inexperienced about the whole thing.

This girl was really beautiful....just a gorgeous face body and I couldn't get enough of her....saw her a number of times and it was always CBJ ...ALWAYS...a firm policy of hers with clients...I hate CBJ's but put up with it because she was soooo damn good looking and the sex was very hot....she made me feel so passionate with her and one day without thinking I went down on her......licking and sucking her clit and lips...for a long time and kept at it till she orgasm-ed hard.

Afterwards she smiled and said "that was so good."....."seriously...you did that so freaking good"....and you're such a nice guy with me...I'm going to do something for you I NEVER do for clients....just real world boyfriends....

And gave me the most wonderful, wet, BBBJ till I came in her mouth!

All because I treated her needs as important as my own....probably why sex with her was always so good....i always made love to her like she was a real girl friend!

So yes.....I think how you approach the subject of the providers pleasure more often than not absolutely makes a difference to what you will get back in return.

I will also say that I'm pretty damn particular about which girls I do it for....for starters...they've gotta be just as clean as I am.....and I'm always scrubbed and fresh for a girl when we get together.....any off smells....and no for me!