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Old 02-24-2011, 02:33 PM   #1
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http://news.discovery.com/animals/ca...ps-110224.html

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  • Relationships between cats and their owners mirror human bonds, especially when the owner is a woman.
  • Cats hold some control over when they are fed and handled, functioning very similar to human children in some households.
  • While the age, sex and personality of owners affect these relationships, the sex of the cat doesn't seem to matter.

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Although there are isolated instances of non-human animals, such as gorillas, bonding with other species, it seems to be mostly unique for humans to engage in social relationships with other animals. Click to enlarge this image.
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The bond between cats and their owners turns out to be far more intense than imagined, especially for cat aficionado women and their affection reciprocating felines, suggests a new study.
Cats attach to humans, and particularly women, as social partners, and it's not just for the sake of obtaining food, according to the new research, which has been accepted for publication in the journal Behavioural Processes.
The study is the first to show in detail that the dynamics underlying cat-human relationships are nearly identical to human-only bonds, with cats sometimes even becoming a furry "child" in nurturing homes.
"Food is often used as a token of affection, and the ways that cats and humans relate to food are similar in nature to the interactions seen between the human caregiver and the pre-verbal infant," co-author Jon Day, a Waltham Centre for Pet Nutrition researcher, told Discovery News. "Both cat and human infant are, at least in part, in control of when and what they are fed!"
For the study, led by Kurt Kotrschal of the Konrad Lorenz Research Station and the University of Vienna, the researchers videotaped and later analyzed interactions between 41 cats and their owners over lengthy four-part periods. Each and every behavior of both the cat and owner was noted. Owner and cat personalities were also assessed in a separate test. For the cat assessment, the authors placed a stuffed owl toy with large glass eyes on a floor so the feline would encounter it by surprise.
The researchers determined that cats and their owners strongly influenced each other, such that they were each often controlling the other's behaviors. Extroverted women with young, active cats enjoyed the greatest synchronicity, with cats in these relationships only having to use subtle cues, such as a single upright tail move, to signal desire for friendly contact.
While cats have plenty of male admirers, and vice versa, this study and others reveal that women tend to interact with their cats -- be they male or female felines -- more than men do.
"In response, the cats approach female owners more frequently, and initiate contact more frequently (such as jumping on laps) than they do with male owners," co-author Manuela Wedl of the University of Vienna told Discovery News, adding that "female owners have more intense relationships with their cats than do male owners."
Cats also seem to remember kindness and return the favors later. If owners comply with their feline's wishes to interact, then the cat will often comply with the owner's wishes at other times. The cat may also "have an edge in this negotiation," since owners are usually already motivated to establish social contact.
Although there are isolated instances of non-human animals, such as gorillas, bonding with other species, it seems to be mostly unique for humans to engage in social relationships with other animals. In this case with cats, it's for very good reason. Cats could very well be man's -- and woman's -- best friend.
"A relationship between a cat and a human can involve mutual attraction, personality compatibility, ease of interaction, play, affection and social support," co-author Dorothy Gracey of the University of Vienna explained. "A human and a cat can mutually develop complex ritualized interactions that show substantial mutual understanding of each other's inclinations and preferences."
Dennis Turner, a University of Zurich-Irchel animal behaviorist, told Discovery News the he's "very impressed with this study on human-cat interactions, in that it has taken our earlier findings a step higher, using more modern analytical techniques to get at the interplay between cat and human personalities."
Turner, who is also senior editor of The Domestic Cat: The Biology of Its Behaviour (Cambridge University Press), added that he and his colleagues "now have a new dimension to help us understand how these relationships function."
Kotrschal's team is presently involved in a long-term study of man's other well-known animal best friend: dogs.
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I have loved many a woman's puddy cat!

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Very interesting to me, particularly as in the last few months a couple of cats have adopted me - at different times - with quite different personalities and needs.

One of them makes me laugh a lot, he likes to masturbate on my bed with my clothes. Now I can't leave my clothes on my bed. His (sort of) previous owner, a woman (who has invested a lot of money in this cat) has never seen the behaviour he does with me.

Sounds like my story with men... Honestly. Actually now I think about it, remarkably the same.

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My cat's personality is different from mine. She's a bit of a prude. She doesn't like to be carried (she's a big girl), doesn't believe in face to face contact, and bonding with visitors was not a priority. But I've noticed the more I travel, and the busier my schedule gets, the more she's willing to compromise to get the attention that she needs. She's known my brother all her life (she's 7), and only now when I'm gone he comes by to feed her. Now she is actually glad when he comes by, and actually gets in rubbing range.

I know for a fact that cats remember kindness, and they can hold grudges. Layla's mom was my first cat, and she was a neighbor's cat before she was mine. The neighbor put her out when she became pregnant, and the husband didn't want to deal with her. She came right in, ate, and felt at home. So I set up shop for her. After about a month, the neighbor lady rang my door, and asked to see her. When I called her by her new name, she came. When the neighbor called her by her old name she had been called for two years, she looked at her, hissed, and went back in my bedroom.

When she had her kittens, Layla was the only girl of five kittens, and funny that you mention the behavior with the boy cat Leah, they are waay more needy than girls. Before I adopted them out, they all fought for optimal 'rubbing' positions when I sat down. There was one who actually jumped on my lap when I went to the bathroom. Then another was my daughter's baby. But they all were attracted to my bathrobe, it was like their mother once they were weaned.

I've always known that cats are smart, and that's why I prefer cats as a pet. They're not as needy as dogs, and easily trainable (Layla fetches and everything). Not that I don't love dogs too, since as early as I can remember we've had both, cats just suit my lifestyle right now.

Great find, Nina!
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I can relate. Long ago I once had eight cats. We were one big happy family. Always enjoyed their company.
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I have always been a dog lover.. however living in a small apartment and being too busy to take a dog out regularly I adopted two male cats. I always wondered why my cats respond to women / girls more so than to men who come to my home. They don't run away from women, but will if a man comes in. Even if he approaches them slowly and tries to pet one of them. My cats are extremely playful, and they are total love bugs. This is a very interesting article Nina. What I find in the article is very true about the cat dictating when and what to be fed, as with one cat, he will not eat anything except a preferred brand. The other stresses out when the food bowl is half empty (even when food is still in it) and will loudly protest and pester me until I put more food in the bowl.

I now find I am the typical "cat" woman now... LOL
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(Tiffani Jamesons post) - So funny, yes it's my bathrobe that the present cat goes crazy about! He makes me laugh in a lot of ways.

In a way they're so like humans - their sense of entitlement really influences what they get. (Like the present one - just walks right in and gets treated great. Another one on the perimeter of my abode COULD get fed and looked after, but always acts scared and simply could've walked in and gotten cared for, but is too scared to do that. The present one has a 'home' down the road where they've spent a fortune on his health issues, but he's choosing me.).

I really appreciate their funny ways...

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Might be a stronger bond than people realize. Thought you all might find this article interesting.

http://www.cosmosmagazine.com/news/1...cat-attraction
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Might be a stronger bond than people realize. Thought you all might find this article interesting.

http://www.cosmosmagazine.com/news/1...cat-attraction
When I was pregnant with both my children I was told to stay clear of the cat pans and handling of them. Because toxoplasmosis is dangerous to the unborn. Apparently they have said if you have been infected with it, you usually cannot get it twice. Symptoms can be very flu like to a human. Toxoplasmosis is also in undercooked meat as well.

Interesting article!
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I am an avid cat person, and I find the cat personality mirrors that of a female. Dogs are so much like men it's hilarious. They are ALWAYS ready for attention, drooling, barking, tongue out when the food bowl arrives, humping your leg or anything esle for that matter, while cats make you work for their affection. I always liked Robert Deniro's bit in "Meet the Parents" about this very subject. He says, "Oh so you need that instant affection from a dog eh? Cats don't sell out like dogs do...you have to work for their affection."

Not to mention dogs smell. I don't care how many times you bathe them, one walk outside and that smell is back. It is almost like a non-smoker smelling a smoker. If you own a dog you get accustomed to that smell...others can always smell them. I would always insist my ex husband use baby wipes after her walked his dog, so my furniture did not smell like dog butt...gross!
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I wonder why he is your ex husband?
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..and what the hell the two of them were doing on those walks??
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Some people are so rude!
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Ok PJ, you're funny, but Sis....ewww! I noticed I put "her" rather than "he" so my bad. My ex was most certainly a man....who wiped lmao!

When a dog goes do his business, he can't exactly wipe his own butt now can he? Well I don't need smelly dog butt in my house, so someone has to do it!
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Moi? I don't bodda nobody....

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Ok PJ, you're funny, but Sis....ewww! I noticed I put "her" rather than "he" so my bad. My ex was most certainly a man....who wiped lmao!
Hey...you were the one who implied the man hands smelled like dog butt....

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If you the one it bothers...just sayin'....
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