Deposit or Not?

[tabitharain]

Request for me to come to them are the majority of my inquiries and I respond with the fact I require a deposit. Most understand and some think its a ploy or rip off.

I have multiple reasons for requesting it. As gentlemen you must understand that nothing is ever guaranteed and as a woman I understand the same thing that is why this is what I request!

ONLY IF IT'S A SAME DAY APPOINTMENT FOR LONGER THEN ONE HOUR
ONLY IF IT'S FURTHER THAN A 60 MILE RADIUS
(MOST IMPORTANT REASON) SO THERE WILL BE NO GAMES: (MEANING) IF I LEAVE MY LOCATION TO COME TO YOU I WANT TO MAKE SURE YOU ARE LEGIT, AND REALLY LOOKING FOR COMPANY AND NOT THE RUN AROUND.


Whats your thoughts?

[wildcat4fun]

Originally Posted by tabitharain

Request for me to come to them are the majority of my inquiries and I respond with the fact I require a deposit. Most understand and some think its a ploy or rip off.

I have multiple reasons for requesting it. As gentlemen you must understand that nothing is ever guaranteed and as a woman I understand the same thing that is why this is what I request!

ONLY IF IT'S A SAME DAY APPOINTMENT FOR LONGER THEN ONE HOUR
ONLY IF IT'S FURTHER THAN A 60 MILE RADIUS
(MOST IMPORTANT REASON) SO THERE WILL BE NO GAMES: (MEANING) IF I LEAVE MY LOCATION TO COME TO YOU I WANT TO MAKE SURE YOU ARE LEGIT, AND REALLY LOOKING FOR COMPANY AND NOT THE RUN AROUND.


Whats your thoughts?

Nothing wrong with requesting a deposit when they are wanting you to leave your area to come to them. Cause you are right its your time and money out your pocket to come where they are and if it is a game there playing then your out of the expense for nothing. Some guys understand that and some do not.

I have friends from Florida, New Orleans, Texas and some other places and will send it up front for me to come to them. I will show up and sometimes they can not and they will tell me sorry next time but at least I am not out of expenses for a wasted trip and I get to see the sites for a night and have fun.