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stockn2468 · 04-22-2017, 11:10 AM

Just had thoughts about this. I have been dating for a little while now and come across pictures that are known providers in the area on popular dating websites. I know that it's a basic human need to love and receive love in return. What is everyone's opinion on dating in the real world. Can I get opinions from both sides here. Would a lady on here rather date someone that does not know her career choice? Would a gent be afraid to date a lady because of her career?

Audreyg · 04-22-2017, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by stockn2468

Just had thoughts about this. I have been dating for a little while now and come across pictures that are known providers in the area on popular dating websites. I know that it's a basic human need to love and receive love in return. What is everyone's opinion on dating in the real world. Can I get opinions from both sides here. Would a lady on here rather date someone that does not know her career choice? Would a gent be afraid to date a lady because of her career?

I have zero interest in dating anyone who cannot handle what my profession is.

stockn2468 · 04-22-2017, 11:57 AM

I agree with you on that Audrey. For me that would be a must as well.

Spontaneouscb28 · 04-22-2017, 12:33 PM

If u really enjoy someone's company, its not gonna matter what their profession is

NolaStarlett · 04-22-2017, 07:21 PM

Just remember if you're dating a provider, you're dating someone whose job it is to fill the fantasies and sexual desires of others. So you will be fulfilling her fantasies and her desires. So you best be laying it down good.

Scratchynuts · 04-22-2017, 07:33 PM

There's no way that I could date a lady knowing that she was going to have sex with other men everyday. If she quit this work I think it could work. For me as long as she was honest when my curiosity got the best of me I could deal with it. However, very seldom does a lady leave and not come back. This leads me to believe that the majority of the "normal" relationships ladies leave to peruse fail for one reason or another. Maybe I'm off base but to me it appears that this lifestyle is difficult for ladies to get out of for many reasons.

ZorahMatta · 04-22-2017, 09:13 PM

Nothing sexier than confidence. A man confident enough in his qualities and talents for my career choice not to be any more relevant than his appreciation for me and mine for him, that's the only kind of man I'd consider dating.

stockn2468 · 04-23-2017, 02:23 AM

For me I think it would be more about the personal connection and both wanting to spend more time with each other on a personal level than just the sex. If that were the case I would just be the hobbiest and give the donation.

trekker · 04-23-2017, 02:58 AM

Keep in mind that some providers use dating sites for business purposes. The lady you see on Match.com or Zoosk may overtly or discretely quote prices when you contact her.

DNinja69 · 04-23-2017, 03:06 AM

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I have zero interest in dating anyone who cannot handle what my profession is.

If she is ok with me partaking in hobby for fun, Im ok with her doing it for work.

DasAmebas · 04-23-2017, 05:54 AM

I would have no problem dating a sex worker.

Although I can understand how others would be put off. Society has conditioned people to believe that monogamy is the only way to have a healthy relationship.

Relationships should be about being equals in respect, trust and honesty .
I think building that connection with a sex worker would lead to an even stronger relationship.

holmes50 · 04-23-2017, 06:56 AM

If dating a dancer qualifies as dating a sex worker then I have. Zorah is right, you better have confidence in yourself. What providers give us is needed and necessary. For myself, I look at what they to do to earn a living is no different than working anywhere else.

Whatever her chosen profession is I will support her.........

Lena Duvall · 04-23-2017, 07:55 AM

Be sure to be ethical. Which means if you want to correspond with a companion you come across on a dating site in a civvy context, let her know that you recognized her from her professional escort adverts and profiles. There is a power dynamic present in that you as a client are mostly anonymous while getting to gain so much insight about different providers, including knowing what they look like. Leveling things out by being transparent is the right thing to do in my opinion.

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I have been dating for a little while now and come across pictures that are known providers in the area on popular dating websites.

Audreyg · 04-23-2017, 10:40 AM

I totally agree with Lena ^ Thank you for pointing that out!

ZorahMatta · 04-23-2017, 10:57 AM

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Although I can understand how others would be put off. Society has conditioned people to believe that monogamy is the only way to have a healthy relationship.

This is an interesting point. So the only way to date a professional companion is in a non-monogamous context?

Considering that seeing other people, in the specific case of escorts, is work first and foremost, is a monogamous relationship out of the question, even if dating one isn't?