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BellaIsabella · 01-08-2011, 07:12 PM

I was just wondering, how many providers have tried having a sugar daddy or how many hobbyists have been sugar daddies? What was your experience? Good/bad? I was thinking trying the sugar daddy thing, for the fun of it...

pipefitter73 · 01-08-2011, 08:27 PM

Before I learned about "this", I tried briefly to be a Sugar Daddy to a 24-year-old. The first 3 weeks were great until the rent and power were due, $600 for teeth work, $100 for something every other day, 5-6 phone calls a day and 10-15 texts a day. I found escorts.com and had a few "dates" and realized I didn't have to call anyone the next day, only leave a review (LOL). I changed my phone number and have never looked back.

My advice for the ladies is if you get a Sugar Daddy, don't bother him constantly.

I know I'm sounding mean, but I'm really a nice guy.

NinaBrooke · 01-08-2011, 08:51 PM

well sounds like you entered a marriage, my dear. and anyway, what do you expect from a 24 year old in terms of maturity? They are babies and act like one. Of course they want all the attention.

NinaBrooke · 01-08-2011, 08:53 PM

my honest opinion on trying sugardaddies is that most of them want too much attention and try to be boyfriends in the long run. The ones you fall in love with cut your short on the money, which is allright for some time. The best sugardaddies are MARRIED men who live in a different city than yours.

Leah Ireland · 01-08-2011, 10:35 PM

I heard from quite a few ladies in the business, guys too, that sites like www.sugardaddie.com are for guys trying to be cheap - and usually getting away with it - and ladies who don't realise that they're worth more.

But in principle, I don't think it's a bad idea at all.

Leah Ireland x

BellaIsabella · 01-08-2011, 10:39 PM

Married sugar daddies are the best!

Naomi4u · 01-08-2011, 11:12 PM

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Originally Posted by BellaIsabella

Married sugar daddies are the best!

Yes ma'am ....

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Originally Posted by ninasastri

well sounds like you entered a marriage, my dear. and anyway, what do you expect from a 24 year old in terms of maturity? They are babies and act like one. Of course they want all the attention.

How about a 42 year old stuck in a 22 year old's body?

Just because one is young in age doesn't mean that they're immature... Just sayin..

pipefitter73 · 01-08-2011, 11:41 PM

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Originally Posted by ninasastri

what do you expect from a 24 year old in terms of maturity?

I think that's the reason most of the ladies I have seen are more the sexy mom/MILF type. With a couple of exceptions, I just don't have a lot of good conversation with the younger ladies. But then again, 3 of my worst experiences have been with ladies 30+. Maybe I just need to shut up....

Sweet N Little · 01-08-2011, 11:47 PM

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Originally Posted by pipefitter73

I think that's the reason most of the ladies I have seen are more the sexy mom/MILF type. With a couple of exceptions, I just don't have a lot of good conversation with the younger ladies. But then again, 3 of my worst experiences have been with ladies 30+. Maybe I just need to shut up....

No u just need to come to Arkansas

burkalini · 01-09-2011, 12:00 AM

NO way no how. Never Never Never. Why would you be a sugar daddy to develop a semi-relationship with a provider when if that's what you want go out in the real world and get one. It's probably more satisfying in the relationship area than with the provider. If you want guarenteed good sex then just do the ususal and pay for a date and go home. I personally find it offensive to men.

Jackie S · 01-09-2011, 08:38 AM

The first requirement of a SD is he have enough cash to keep his little Lady happy. It all might seem great in the beginning, but soon enough, it will wear thin, and the "relationship" will run out of steam. I supect the "boulevard of broken dreams' is clutterd with the remains of these dashed hopes. When things end, the guy moves on, but the SB is left with trying to find another SD to take care of Her.

I really think the best idea, (for those inclined to such ideas), is what I do, the ATF thing. I have a provider that I see exclusive on a regular basis, usually once a week. We do things together that are not "BCD" activities, but any time we get together, it is with the knowledge that we will end up BCD. She knows what I like, I know what she likes. We have become very comfortable with each other.

And yes, I do compensate her for Her time, but to me, it is money well spent.

But, it ends there, I know up front what she does for a living, and I could care less. Being a provider is Her job, It is how she supports Her familly. I have what I want, a Lady that is physically appealing to me, is easy to talk to, is great in bed, and most of all, I like. While she is with me, she is mine, and I guess I am hers. But, when we part ways, we go about our lives untill we see each other again.

No strings, no obligations, no commitments. Just two Adults enjoying what each has to offer for the time we are together. To me, this is a win-win.

Of course, I am almost 64 years old. The comfort of the familiar is enough for me. I am fortunate that I have found a Provider who stimulates my "senses" to the degree that I can perform. That is a big consideration. The younger Guys who like variety probably think what I do is stupid. Why use all of your resources on just one Lady? I guess when you get my age, you will understand.

I would amagine most providers have a Guy, that is somewhat like me, that they see on a very regular basis. Or perhaps if they don't, they wish they did. There is something to be said for "old reliable'

London Rayne · 01-09-2011, 09:18 AM

Tried it...hated it! When you have someone literally being your sole source of income, you are expected to put your life on hold to tend to his every want and need regardless of what you have going on. I guess if you were a single woman, no children, not in school, and could afford to be at someone's beck and call this would work. It would never work for me. I am far too independent for that type of lifestyle. I tried it for 3 months and honestly, I prefer being able to leave and not come back until I am asked lol.

Lea, that site is a total joke. Most won't even cough up $300 an hour yet claim they make 400k a year. I met a Dentist there who was formerly a client of a friend of mine...cheap idiot!

Naomi4u · 01-09-2011, 09:28 AM

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Take it from someone that thought the whole "sugardaddy" thing was a waste of time.
If the guys likes you he'll do anything to make you happy as long as .. you make HIM happy.
Mine (I called him "mine" lol) doesn't require that I stop my life. He wants the exact opposite for me.

Sugardaddyforme.com is a waste of time. Nuff said.

London Rayne · 01-09-2011, 09:45 AM

I just like seeing different people. The real definition of a Sugar Daddy is someone who takes care of you, and is the ONLY one you are with. The only SD I will ever have will be a husband lol.

Jackie S · 01-09-2011, 10:29 AM

Naomi, what you are describing is what I have, a ATF. In a true SD-SB relationship, the Guy would demand that you be his only. I assume by him not requiring you to "stop your life', you continued to work as a Provider.

Of course, you could simply look deep into his eyes and say "of course you are the only one", and he will believe it, untill he finds out different.