Female hobbyists

[Nicolet]

I asked this question before, but I thought I would give it another shot. Have there been female hobbyists on here before? This is a man's world, but what about the female monger?
Curious to see the responses.........

[Liliana Vess]

I am a female on here that hobbies with my husband. Of course it's very much a 'man's world', but that makes sense so it doesn't bother me. I really like delving/peering into various 'other universes', and the hobby definitely does not disappoint on that front. The language, the business side, the social interaction is pretty fascinating. Plus...boobies!

On ECCIE specifically, I am in a grey zone. I was briefly tempted to post the last review myself, just to see what would happen with the review credit. However, I respect that they want to keep some things males-only and I can understand why guys would not want some random chick reading all their business. This is partly why I created my own login and don't lurk on my husbands. Since there is no female-client board there aren't really a lot of people to talk about this with, but I am guessing the number of female hobbiests is extremely low. I have opted to just email my review comments to my husband and he puts them at the bottom of the ROS on his review.

[Nicolet]

You are correct that the guys don't want the ladies to see what's going on in their private space. I wonder if there will come a time for a female hobbyist to have a form of premium access, not to the men's room, of course! Only if there were enough female hobbyists to warrant that kind of change.
Non-traditional reviews are posted in Another Realm, its been very entertaining to read reviews like those posted in that forum. Although it isn't city specific, its great to have that option available.
I think it is fantastic that there ARE female hobbyists! I would love a session like that!

[pyramider]

I am not lowering my rates for any female fucktards.

[Nicolet]

<<<<<<<<<<< Saving my pennies!

[Liliana Vess]

I doubt that there would be enough non-provider females around here to have any sort of separate forums, although that would surely be interesting. It's not exactly a discussion topic you can bring up with your average set of friends.

I'll take a closer look at Another Realm; I had thought that was more for 'fetish' type encounters. A lot of 'couples' type hobbyists come across as one party being dragged in rather than any sort of equal interest. Not sure if I would have a lot in common with them...I guess time will tell.

[pyramider]

There is a wife that shares her SO in Dallas. I do not know of any non provider independent ladies that hobby. Some providers hobby.

[Liliana Vess]

I was asked the question if I would ever want to go out independently and I have considered it but just am not sure. I would assume most women that would be inclined to do so probably just pick non-provider women up casually in Montrose or something.

I wouldn't even know where to begin on the economics of the idea. Lower because of less wear and tear on the body? Higher because it's weirder and probably more work? The same because at the end of the day, business is business?

I know there is at least one other couple in South TX that passed some info on to us, so that was cool.

[Nicolet]

The reason I brought this topic up is because a couple that had a couple of sessions with providers, one is a female, the other is a TS, and they wrote a review of both encounters. The wife is the writer of the reviews, even though she and her hubby had a good time together with the providers of their choice, the review was placed in COED.
I mentioned Another Realm, because the forum is for out of the box ways of thinking. A perfect place for non-traditional reviews, like theirs.

[Ed Highlight]

Originally Posted by Nicolet

<<<<<<<<<<< Saving my pennies!

How many you got???

[wildwooly1]

I had a friend who used to let his wife pick the provider and then when the session was over he would do a review with her input on how the session went with her .
sometimes his wife would participate and sometimes she wouldn't depending on how turned on she would get during the session but she always watched .
They both were open swingers and he would return the favor and let her go out and pick up a guy from time to time and bring them back to their house and then he would watch while she enjoyed herself and sometimes it would turn into a threesome.
But as things go one got jealous of the other and before long it all fell apart...they are now divorced !

[pyramider]

Originally Posted by Ed Highlight

How many you got???

She is not quite there ... yet.

[DinDC]

About 10 years ago, there was a woman hobbyist on TER who used to write reviews of providers whom she had seen. It was shi+ hot! But she got into a relationship and left the hobby. She's def missed...

[Nicolet]

I think it would be HOTT to be reviewed by a female!

[wildwooly1]

Nicolet,
Why not do a double and then let the other provider review you in the coed section from where you have the appointment?
It would be hot to read it from a providers view !