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verifyhim · 04-14-2011, 09:35 AM

Client screening is not an exact science, but we just created a flowchart of the screening process. It will list out what pieces of information you can ask from a client, what you can do with the gathered info as well as the drawbacks. It can be used as a basic for your own screening. This is a very rough draft, if you have any inputs please let me know so we can update it.

http://www.verifyhim.com/chart1-draft.jpg

waverunner234 · 04-14-2011, 12:18 PM

That flowchart looks really overdone to me, does a girl want to spend 2 days + x amount of money to screen a guy who she's gonna meet for an hour? I don't think so.
Personally I'm a P411 basic + 6 and long term member at 3 other websites like theeroticreview, providerreport and ECCIE and I've never had any problem being screened.

Candence · 04-14-2011, 03:04 PM

Wow! I, for one does not have the time to do a verification on each gentleman that contacts me. And I don't proceed until verification is done... I would be out of business if I used this chart!

Just my two cents!

topsgt38801 · 04-14-2011, 03:32 PM

It would take a lady a long time to go through that chart and to top it off, if I was asked many of these questions, I am not going to respond. That is the reason I am on this board and have a pref411 account. If that is not adequate, I do not need to see the lady anyway.

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verifyhim · 04-14-2011, 04:15 PM

I agree. The chart is to be comprehensive as possible. Like I said, it should be used as a framework for your own screening. The goal is to have a complete picture what a girl can do with each piece of information. The level of screening is up to each person. Most girls do some parts mentioned in the chart not all.

Naomi4u · 04-15-2011, 08:55 PM

I screen very well and I would not use that chart.

Randall Creed · 04-17-2011, 07:38 AM

Full name, driver's license, general location, multiple phone numbers, email address(es), IP address, etc. With this information and the right amount of computer saavy, one could get OTHER info, such as social security numbers, family member names, their places of employment, so on and so forth.

Would YOU feel comfortable giving up ALL that to just ONE stranger about yourself? What if every provider used this kind of screening? Would the guy have to go through this process each and every time? What's stopping the cops from kicking your door in and taking this information from you? The reason I'm asking these questions is because storing THIS kind of information in an illegal capacity just has that, 'Oh, shit' feeling written all over it. Oh shit as in, someone else has this info and now wants to do something evil with it. What fail-safes would you have in place to keep this info from falling into the wrong hands? S1 used to take client's drivers license numbers down. This was years ago when I used them, and I'm still uneasy about that shit, even NOW. What if you or someone else becomes pissed at a client, for whatever reason? Are you going to have enough resolve within yourself to resist outing him? I mean, we don't know these girls that we're giving up information to. Every guy who gives up this amount of info is just a nerve twitch away from that person deciding that they need to be humilated or punished for whatever reason, warranted or not.

My conservative estimate is that I don't think this screening process would sit well with most guys.

HankyPanky96 · 04-17-2011, 12:36 PM

Screening is good. Too much screening leaves guy vulnerable, too little leaves ladies vulnerable. The knowledge of how a proper situation formulates and intelligence on legal matter always provides balance of security for all parties involved.

Melissa Nash · 04-17-2011, 12:59 PM

I love having access to P411 and Date-Check and the only reason I ever ask for employment info (such as a company website-some execs have their pic and bio) is if the provider okay's on the screening site are not recent. I do ask for real name if someone is not a member of a screening site (along with recent references)
I do think screening should be done to whatever extent makes the lady comfortable and that if you agree to see a lady who DOESN'T SCREEN because it's convenient and she can see you right then, well you are taking great risk of dangers that may be waiting for you when you arrive.

Chica Chaser · 04-17-2011, 03:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Rambro Creed

What if every provider used this kind of screening?

Hahaha! Good question!

I'm thinking that A LOT of ladies would be going hungry.
If my P411 references aren't good enough to your pass screening, I guess its just not that important to me to see you.

incognito isis · 05-02-2011, 12:53 AM

For the longest time I did not screen. Now I do, but I didn't for awhile.

sushiguy · 05-02-2011, 01:14 AM

If screening took that long I would and have lost interest in the provider. I understand the purpose of it but there must be some way to expedite the process.

ginainthemorning · 05-02-2011, 10:35 AM

I think she would beings, we have a serial killer that has buried 10 women in Long Island and we also have law enforcement STALKING US ONLINE. We also have a guy out in Seattle that had a torture chamber built in his trailer and was kidnapping escorts and torturing them in this sound proof room.
If a client is not date-check or p411 approved or has 2 references from other well established escorts that he needs to be screened.
I require his full name and city and state that he resides, what he does for a living and where he works and also require him to show me ID when we meet.
To expedite the process, you simply get date-check or p411 approved and this way you do not have to give out your personal info to every escort you see.
All verifyhim does, (and they do it badly as there searches rarely find much) is the same thing I do, use a public search database search, I can search property records, criminal history, I also then goggle the email address and cell phone numbers, run his name through all the blacklisting sites, which I know verify him can't do because they do not have ACCESS to most of those sites. Its all about getting several pieces of info to PROVE WHO THE GUY IS.
As a client you may think this is extreme, but from experience I can tell you that any escort that does not screen and gives out her location to anyone who calls, is going to create some drama for herself. Do you really think your safe at an incall location if the girl has 10 guys a day coming and going, and does not have a clue HOW TO BE DISCREET.
I have never understood why hobbiest do not want to gave out screening info but they have no problem writing explicit reviews, linked to their IP addresses.

ginainthemorning · 05-02-2011, 10:38 AM

Even if your name and cell number is found with a escort that PROVES NOTHING.
The way most escorts get arrested is the CLIENT SNITCHING ON THEM. Law enforcement knows the average JOHN is not a criminal, so as soon as they detain him, threaten to call his wife or employee, he SINGS LIKE A CANARY AND SNITCHES ON HIMSELF & THE ESCORT.
There is nothing illegal about selling a block of time as a escort, and its legal to hire a escort.

incognito isis · 05-02-2011, 11:55 AM

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Originally Posted by ginainthemorning

Even if your name and cell number is found with a escort that PROVES NOTHING.
The way most escorts get arrested is the CLIENT SNITCHING ON THEM. Law enforcement knows the average JOHN is not a criminal, so as soon as they detain him, threaten to call his wife or employee, he SINGS LIKE A CANARY AND SNITCHES ON HIMSELF & THE ESCORT.
There is nothing illegal about selling a block of time as a escort, and its legal to hire a escort.

Thats why it's important not to discuss anything over the phone or in person. All details should be ironed out via email only!!! If you meet a client and he starts talking about money or services, just say you don't know what he is talking about.