Why is it so difficult? Ladies, chime in!

[Wahooguy]

Today I reached out to eight ladies. I don’t think any of the ladies regularly in these Forums are keen on outcalls, so I turned to stg and back references to reviews here. Out of 8, 4 responded, two dont do outcalls, two went through the entire conversation and then never came and stopped responding. Am I being too polite? I didn’t negotiate or haggle, I didn’t ask for anything weird, etc. is there a trick to making this happen???

[Cherokeechief]

Welcome to Fuck for Bucks. Don't stop trying.

[Wahooguy]

I’m not a frequent flyer, so it’s still a learning curve for me. Hard to know if I’m saying something wrong or setting off red flags if I am too agreeable with prices or timeframes or whatever. That’s why amps are so appealing I think, although usually a let down. You walk in and you’re there. In calls seem like they would be easier, but usually require me scheduling to be out of the office, driving to town, and often the same thing happens when I get close. Their phone just stops working and I end up sitting around for an hour then driving home.

[grinin22]

Yes, unfortunately you are not the only one. Many of the skip the game girls are just very unprofessional. They or there s.o puts out the add then they get busy.
Only occasionally checking there phones, answering when they fill like it and then get paranoid, take up with another hobbiest, or forget which one, they was talking to.
One provider showed me the texts she received on her phone, mostly people sending bullshit.
It does suck, but I have started off talking to a couple gals and after wasting my free time all go ghost.
Happy hunting

[wyattholliday2]

Wahoo… I may take a lot of heat for this opinion but I will say you shouldn’t be surprised.

Most (95% or better) of the ladies in this hobby are doing this because they have to because they are out of options. Either they have run into really hard times (not their fault), or because they are addicted, or because they have made really stupid life choices.

Think about it, if they were really intelligent, had their act together, understood basic economics, and were good at organizational and time Management, they wouldn’t be in this line of work. They’d have real jobs. The fact that they’re doing what they’re doing in most cases exemplifies the fact that they aren’t good managers or entrepreneurs.

There are exceptions of course… Dallas, Katee, Hot Summer, and others that I have come across in my four years in the hobby are great at TCB and do this because they want to, not because they have to. Finding those diamonds in the rough are rare and generally means higher donation rates and more detailed scheduling and planning.

Just my two cents.

[DallasRain]

awww Wyatt..thx sexy beast.. been toooo long!

i try to be timely and efficient
but occassionally real life gets in the way! so if i screw up,i gave yall permission to spank me!!!!

[grinin22]

And as always Dallas is the best. Very professional. Also a great ass.

[Nelson78]

Yes getting women to respond lately is tough. Springfield is a little poor lately with consistent local quality. We miss Morgan, Lillian, Raven and Miss Godiva. No offense to any of the current ladies but those I listed would get back with you fairly quickly even if they were all booked. No response is so frustrating.

[DallasRain]

aww grinn thx baby!

i do apologize to anybody i have been silent too lately..been preoccupied w my flea market stuff

nelson we need to meet!

[Nelson78]

I just messages you.

[Hot Summer]

Originally Posted by wyattholliday2

Wahoo… I may take a lot of heat for this opinion but I will say you shouldn’t be surprised.

Most (95% or better) of the ladies in this hobby are doing this because they have to because they are out of options. Either they have run into really hard times (not their fault), or because they are addicted, or because they have made really stupid life choices.

Think about it, if they were really intelligent, had their act together, understood basic economics, and were good at organizational and time Management, they wouldn’t be in this line of work. They’d have real jobs. The fact that they’re doing what they’re doing in most cases exemplifies the fact that they aren’t good managers or entrepreneurs.

There are exceptions of course… Dallas, Katee, Hot Summer, and others that I have come across in my four years in the hobby are great at TCB and do this because they want to, not because they have to. Finding those diamonds in the rough are rare and generally means higher donation rates and more detailed scheduling and planning.

Just my two cents.

Your 2 cents is welcome here luv and thank you for speaking on my behalf

[Hot Summer]

Originally Posted by Nelson78

Yes getting women to respond lately is tough. Springfield is a little poor lately with consistent local quality. We miss Morgan, Lillian, Raven and Miss Godiva. No offense to any of the current ladies but those I listed would get back with you fairly quickly even if they were all booked. No response is so frustrating.

No response is a response no reason to be frustrated by it ....
Hopefully you can understand some of the new ladies only reply when they are available .
This is because they don't understand the concept of making a connection for a future appointment.
But then again some gentleman don't understand that concept either .
Anyways heres a few helpful tips .
Always come with respect such as introducing yourself fully and let the lady know you look forward to her response when she has time

[Theatrical person]

Summer is right. Being polite and respectful goes a long way. There are some ladies that I plan my visits with well in advance. Sometimes it's a last minute thing, and I might get luck, or I might strike out. I don't do a lot of repeats, but the regulars that I do have are very responsive. Once a girl knows you, it's much easier. Also, if you have a good working relationship with any of the superstars on here, they can provide you with a reference. Plan ahead, do your research, and stay safe my friend!

[xyzwibeancounter]

"Most (95% or better) of the ladies in this hobby are doing this because they have to because they are out of options. Either they have run into really hard times (not their fault), or because they are addicted, or because they have made really stupid life choices."


Summer,


Very well said. After I've known quite of few, I can add another type of lady. A few ladies don't like to work in conventional jobs. And some of them think it's more lucrative than having a job. Then their are usually disappointed.

[Rooter]

Originally Posted by Hot Summer

No response is a response no reason to be frustrated by it ....
Hopefully you can understand some of the new ladies only reply when they are available .
This is because they don't understand the concept of making a connection for a future appointment.
But then again some gentleman don't understand that concept either .
Anyways heres a few helpful tips .
Always come with respect such as introducing yourself fully and let the lady know you look forward to her response when she has time

Very good advice. I do, to quote Bill Clinton here, feel his pain. Lol. My wife and I have reached out to a provider and waited for a while, then another and waited. We have had 4 hours go by waiting 45 mins or so and the whole evening is gone. Not that we take this personally, but I would consider it rude to message 10 or so and have multiple answer back just to say, sorry going with someone else. I've often wondered about etiquette on how long you should wait.
Also half of providers that answer back either get derailed, get busy, fall asleep or don't feel we pass the process to continue. How long to wait between texts? We have literally been answered back at 3am 6 hours later. Of course, that's not common, but happens.