Why is it so difficult? Ladies, chime in!

[Hot Summer]

Originally Posted by xyzwibeancounter

"Most (95% or better) of the ladies in this hobby are doing this because they have to because they are out of options. Either they have run into really hard times (not their fault), or because they are addicted, or because they have made really stupid life choices."


Summer,


Very well said. After I've known quite of few, I can add another type of lady. A few ladies don't like to work in conventional jobs. And some of them think it's more lucrative than having a job. Then their are usually disappointed.

I think you you are mistaken i didn't say that the gentleman above me did .
I only respond to him

[Hot Summer]

Rooter its never rude to contact multiple ladies if you aren't receiving responses in a timely manner.
But Someone texting you at 3 am is not professional so you might wanna make sure you're shopping in the right store for better quality 😉

[HoustonRiley]

.....Out of the 8 local ladies you reached out to. How many had that "ask you for a dollar at the gas station look"? if yall stop choosing the homeley looking ones hoping for a discount and you might get better options. Theres not an amazing selection of ladies or gents in the area. So I feel your pain.

Good luck, also... Theres Me in Carthage, Malia & Emmie in Joplin. All 3 single milfs with all yes' reviews across the boards. I have a spotless reputation. I do amazing anywhere I go. Im home most of the time but don't post availability for home bc welp I often get the riff raff crap trolling crap and over all men bullying providers who they've never seen nor spoken nor pm'd but "know me" enough to talk shit. The men on Springfield boards troll the boards so much they're the direct reason for low quality providers in the area. These trolls have hated on Me for 2 years since I moved to the area. You can see the exact same trolls by their real names in local news comments doing the same. So thank the men in the area.. When they want dirt cheap, cheap is going to come with bad communication, iffy sessions, iffy ladies, jeans and sneakers. You want proper responses and lingerie You have to call the ones of us that have that spotless reputation of providing such.

GOOD LUCK. Some of these responses go directly with what ive said.its all supply and demand. When the demand is for low budget bad quality, that's what will be available.

[HoustonRiley]

Notice hes attempting to talk shit and some how shoved 95 percent of all providers into 3 boxes. You sir are the customer, as at another type of establishment, how much do you think you know about a business from the lobby ?? Seriously. Lol your comment alone probably has you on most do not see list I know you're on mine now, for your demeaning but needy ways. I dont see men who talk down on the ladies they pay. Alot us aren't as desperate you'd like to think we are.
HE probably thinks these things bc, again the homley ladies usually give pitty party stories instead of bomb ass sessions. Starting the difference yet?? All his reviews are from SKGs ladies. No pros No verified,so how can you comment on 95 percent. You can't.

Originally Posted by xyzwibeancounter

"Most (95% or better) of the ladies in this hobby are doing this because they have to because they are out of options. Either they have run into really hard times (not their fault), or because they are addicted, or because they have made really stupid life choices."


Summer,


Very well said. After I've known quite of few, I can add another type of lady. A few ladies don't like to work in conventional jobs. And some of them think it's more lucrative than having a job. Then their are usually disappointed.

[DallasRain]

hey riley
i have no ill will or striff against you... you are sexy as fuckkkkk and have a great rep here!!!!
buttttttttt
mr xzy is a good client of mine! He has always been good to me..he is a fave if mine!!!...and i may post on stg,but you know me & my rep here!

AND there are some awesomely beautiful gals here like you,katee,simone,addison..just to name a few... i may not be a beauty queen anymore & i am not a "young thang",but my body is actually in better shape than alot of 30somethings! And i provide a very low donation at home cause i dont need to make bank at home/i do that when i tour...but the guys will tell anybody, i provide top quality service!

i personally started doing this in my 20s when my kids were babies..it was to supplement hubbys income and it was also something i enjoyed doing...it allowed us some really nice lifestyle luxeries plus a nanny.
then in my 30s,i quit for a few years to lead a "normal" life (became a ministers wife lol)...but that didnt set well with us,so here i am again lol!!
Now that my kids are grown,and my hubby and I retired from regular jobs,i wanted to start having fun again AND add some extra money to our retirement funds so we could enjoy some luxeries like we did before.
i may not live in a fancy house or drive a fancy car.. but i am healthy,happy and have a fun life!! I luv what I do!! and i now have a side gig at a flea mkt booth for extra fun!!

[wyattholliday2]

Oh Houston, I am now properly put in my place. You’re right. I know nothing about the hobby. I’m just an uneducated schlep who doesn’t have a clue what he’s talking about.

Maybe if you’d read a little more carefully, you’d notice that I left room for the 5% which you claim to be. We’ve never met, so I have no idea. But there are definitely escorts in this hobby who love what they do, know how to take care of business, are smart and educated, who love what they do and it shows in how their sessions and their life goes. I mentioned a few by name that I do have experience with, I’m sorry if your feelings are hurt that I didn’t mention you, maybe because we’ve never met and I’ve never attempted to meet you.

But I’ll stand by my original comment. If you take the overall number of ladies who are in this hobby (STG, ECCIE, P411, and UTR or other boards), you will find the vast majority live life’s of addiction, are living in hotels, don’t own transportation, have criminal records or pasts, have some sort of serious drama in their life, or generally life is not going well for them at all. I also left room in my original comment for those ladies that are generally down on their luck through no fault of their own.

Which is why when you find someone like the ladies I mentioned, they are a breath of fresh air. I’m sure there are others. I obviously don’t have an entire roster of all providers or prostitutes out in the world, but I promise You out of 100 ladies, finding 5 great jewels out of 100 would be a great feat. Which you basically made my point by mentioning yourself and two others in Joplin… THREE … if you add my three.. that’s 6! SIX out of how many women in all of Southwest Missouri. Not very promising odds for the client.

[wyattholliday2]

One last point, I’ve been a part of this community for 4 years and providers on this board make my point for me a lot when they make a comment like “Stick with ECCIE ladies who are reviewed and verified”. Even the providers on here and other communities acknowledge that the vast majority of SW out there are not very good. And you basically said that exact same thing I’m your post.

[DallasRain]

oh yea summer rocks too!!

[Unique_Carpenter]

Wahoo,
Tripped over this thread as I'm browsing Springfield forums before a lake trip. I'm going to condense a lot of above comments into a few key items.

Without more than a couple references, you're going to have very limited success setting a date. Even on this board, you're a new persona with limited activity.

Consider staying off boards that are full of "issues" and concentrate on boards like Tryst, p411, eccie. Riley is quite correct that stg not worth looking at.

Keep trying. It will simply take time (and I'm not talking days, but much longer) for you to develope a list of gals that put a smile on your face. And, consider prebooking at least a couple days out.

But, its on you to develop a relationship with any gal, and all gals require sufficient screening. Note that everyone, guys and gals, all have real world lives and sometimes simply have other stuff going on than hobby. Also, as a newbie, you simply have to accept that some gals let their fav dance card guys have priority scheduling. Frankly as a guy, I'll admit that there's a small handful of gals that get my priority scheduling. Btw, I've even lost a gal from my dance card cause another had scheduled with me earlier.

My point is, again, it's not the gals. It's you that needs to develop your hobby persona, and with that also develop references. And don't expect a reference to be able to respond on short notice. Maybe they're offline. Again, prebook. As an example, I'm booked until late Sept (and the last week of Oct, xmas week and turkey week are booked).

Last, I've dated some of the gals that are mentioned in, or have posted in, this thread. A couple are on one call and have crossed to rw with me. My point in mentioning this is two fold. 1st, again, it's on you to develope your connections to the gals, and 2nd, until you do that you won't realize what you're missing.

Ok that was rather long. Go re-read Chief's post at post #2. That's a lot shorter than my novel

[LeezaRenee]

I always give a reply unless I am at my regular job or I am not taking calls period. I would say 2 texts in a hour.. I would move on

[NotQuiteBond]

Originally Posted by LeezaRenee

I always give a reply unless I am at my regular job or I am not taking calls period. I would say 2 texts in a hour.. I would move on

I haven't been aware of you being a Springfield provider LR. How can I learn more about you? If you advertise elsewhere, I may have seen, but I'm not putting it together. Maybe PM me?

[Cherokeechief]

She goes by Leeza. You can keyword her on STG's. She has reviews here. I will not comment on the subject at hand again. There's always people out there who want to Shit and Vomit all over other people. Enough Said.

[DallasRain]

leeza pm me

[SooperLover]

It always goes back to how to treat another person. I know the original post was about providers not responding to a text. Honestly, the "why" doesn't really matter. It doesn't change a thing. Some stereotypes and strong opinions came out and that's not necessarily a good thing either. My own personal belief is that I will treat a lady as a lady. It doesn't matter if I've known her all my life or if we are meeting for a QV. When I'm with her, she is the most important person in the room. I will never assume I know why someone is doing what they are doing, just like I wouldn't want anyone to assume why I'm in this hobby. Maybe I'm just too much of a pleaser, but I feel that taking life in the moment and treating others as if they are Royalty has kept me pretty successful......and very happy. That's my $0.02

[Cherokeechief]

��