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Old 03-06-2019, 11:02 PM   #1
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I have never had a girlfriend because of this I have become very shy. How do you think if I order a girl from an escort, will it give me more confidence?
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Old 03-07-2019, 12:14 AM   #2
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Hun I would suggest you do a dinner date and multi hour with a good provider! Maybe even do an overnight and have a more relaxed night cuddling, watching a movie, etc! Explain this to the provider you choose to see as well and I am sure she would be happy to give you any dating tips. A lot of men do see a boost in confidence from seeing good providers! Good luck.
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Old 03-07-2019, 05:59 AM   #3
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Joco, I would suggest you not look for "dating" advice on here (a SHMB) and you should probably not be searching for your "girlfriend" or your "confidence" here, of all places!!

Good luck... look elsewhere!!
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Old 03-07-2019, 07:23 PM   #4
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I was super shy and Escorts helped me. In my 30s I decided something had to change. I started searching for new ideas and ran across a website how Escorts can help in the dating world.

It was a while ago since I read the site, but the website recommend finding an escowgrt who was willing to help, which meant being venerable. I started seeing three escorts and one seemed to taking an interest in my life and one day I told her my situation.

She helped me a lot. She gave me a challenge to go to the mall and walk up to people and start talking them. I took it a step further and videoed some of interaction. Man was i dweeb! It's understandable why I didn't get further than date no 2.

I would suggest looking at your clothes. Be the guy who is over dressed! Or are you under dressed? What good smells are coming from you?

Just a few thoughts to consider.
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Old 03-07-2019, 10:13 PM   #5
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I have never had a girlfriend because of this I have become very shy. How do you think if I order a girl from an escort, will it give me more confidence?
No, it will subtly undermine any shred of confidence you may have. Do you have a normal social life besides the romantic area?
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Old 03-07-2019, 11:47 PM   #6
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I shy and don't do think right. With escort you can just play like doll.but becarefull there many ripoff thugs and cop. As well as ones will take advantage it won't do any far as changing shyness in fact it will make it worse. Because she has have a big I add for you to see her.


Also all this talk about small talk dinner dates in first post. Serious do you think a shy guy like wants to have small talk as well or just get the wood wet and remember.
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Old 03-08-2019, 01:40 AM   #7
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No. The escort would probably feel offended if you order a girl from her. If she yells at you for overlooking her escort status to order a girl she could possibly say mean things to you. Your self-esteem would get worse.

You are in a candy shop and LOITERING. You did not enter the candy shop to share your vulnerabilities with the world.You know this already. Your self-esteem might improve when you quit posting “poor me” and do what you signed up for.

Place your order ASAP and review as accurately as possible. You may gain some credence. Your post seems overly naive since every resource you need is readily available.

Avoid saying you have never had a girlfriend.

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My advice to you. You need to get up with a girl from an escort several times. She will help you get rid of shyness, and you will become more confident in yourself!
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I have never had a girlfriend because of this I have become very shy. How do you think if I order a girl from an escort, will it give me more confidence?
reading past posts

what a crock of shit
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What would your wife say about that?

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?p=1...post1061299255
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What would your wife say about that?

https://eccie.net/showthread.php?p=1...post1061299255
Well, this thread has taken an interesting turn. Nice catch.
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your Welcome

also note Location of op is NY. Bit not one post in any of the 3 icky NY areas.

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yet if any true at all



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Jocontyne….Are you shy around your boyfriend too?
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