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1bat2balls4u · 07-20-2011, 03:31 PM

Guys and gals, I've got a question and I'm just looking for thoughts on it.

I'm a total noob first of all. This has always been a fantasy of mine, but recently I've been able to travel on business several times per year. So now my fantasy can become a reality.

Being new, I have no references. The two established girls I've contacted won't see me. So I did some fishing around on BP and found a very attractive girl. The only thing listed on her ad was her phone number.

I called and we chated. I brought up rates b/c I had no clue what they'd be and she told me 200/hr. for an outcall to my hotel. I asked if she would take $150. She said yes but she can't do it for any lower than that. Now that was probably my first mistake, but I'm new and didn't see anything wrong with establishing that.

Anyway, she told me that she's recently moved to a city nearby from Houston and that she's new to the hobby. Said she has a couple of regulars that she's been seeing lately in the city in which i'm staying.

She has no reviews, websites, etc... Nothing. That's what makes me really nervous.

I asked her if she could meet me at my hotel for drinks first, and she agreed. We chatted for a while on the phone about random stuff. She seems fine. And i'm sure she probably is. I'm sure her lack of reviews, etc... can be attributed to the fact that she's basically brand new. She's been operating for just under 1 month.

Should I bust my cherry with this girl? Or just wait for something safer. The best girls in my area typically won't see newbies.

Thoughts...

Sweet N Little · 07-20-2011, 03:47 PM

I think from your requests I saw you are at the top of the state and there's not a lot up there but there are a couple of newbie friendly, also getting p411 will help you a lot.
I will pm you with there names

1bat2balls4u · 07-20-2011, 03:50 PM

Thank you so much S&L. I won't forget it

Sweet N Little · 07-20-2011, 03:56 PM

Your welcome ! Glad I could help

burkalini · 07-20-2011, 07:43 PM

Be Careful. No reviews and someone that agrees with alot can be LE. Not saying she is but just think about it.

Chica Chaser · 07-20-2011, 10:40 PM

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Originally Posted by 1bat2balls4u

Guys and gals, I've got a question and I'm just looking for thoughts on it.

I'm a total noob first of all. This has always been a fantasy of mine, but recently I've been able to travel on business several times per year. So now my fantasy can become a reality.

Being new, I have no references. The two established girls I've contacted won't see me. So I did some fishing around on BP and found a very attractive girl. The only thing listed on her ad was her phone number.

I called and we chated. I brought up rates b/c I had no clue what they'd be and she told me 200/hr. for an outcall to my hotel. I asked if she would take $150. She said yes but she can't do it for any lower than that. Now that was probably my first mistake, but I'm new and didn't see anything wrong with establishing that.

Anyway, she told me that she's recently moved to a city nearby from Houston and that she's new to the hobby. Said she has a couple of regulars that she's been seeing lately in the city in which i'm staying.

She has no reviews, websites, etc... Nothing. That's what makes me really nervous.

I asked her if she could meet me at my hotel for drinks first, and she agreed. We chatted for a while on the phone about random stuff. She seems fine. And i'm sure she probably is. I'm sure her lack of reviews, etc... can be attributed to the fact that she's basically brand new. She's been operating for just under 1 month.

Should I bust my cherry with this girl? Or just wait for something safer. The best girls in my area typically won't see newbies.

Thoughts...

I say NO...Hell NO! If she/you is discussing rates over the first call over the phone, huge red flag. Im sure they folks here will roast you a little, so I won't. I will direct you over to this thread for study before you make another call;

http://eccie.net/showthread.php?t=178982

Still Looking · 07-20-2011, 11:17 PM

Negotiated a rate? The gals don't publish rates and expect to have them negotiated. The rate is the rate! You’re not buying a house or a car here! You can always pay more, but if you negotiate a lower rate you are just asking for problems! All good things come in time! Take the time to make contact with a verified established provider that is newbie friendly. That provider can be your gateway to the hobby world! Remember, we were all newbie's at one time!