$'s?, Dick?, Thrill?, Bored? Rational choice?

[notequiteatroll]

might be stirring up a hornets nest. not my intention, but some recent discussions got me wondering. plus i'm always kinda curious about this anyway.

the latest bit of this controversy came up in trinity's i quit thread. (guess we're all fired)
there's the 2 faces to guys attitudes regarding our lovely companions here.
we love that you get naked with us and swallow the salami, etc. then we turn around and get all moralistic and cheer a lady leaving what must be this horrid, putrid life of sexual depravity and desperation.
then one of our sweet ladies will come out and blast the gentlemen for suggesting that the ladies staying must be losers of one sort or another for debasing themselves. like slut shaming women we are just so glad are sluts on demand for us.

but the world of human motivation and choices and sex can be very confusing territory.
my guess is most people, including providers, probably would be pretty opposed to their daughters or moms or sisters going into the business. though correct me if i'm wrong.
so there's all the cultural negative bias. but we're sure glad there's some women that are willing to anyway. but why do we gentlemen hold onto the demeaning mindset?
(just to be clear i'm violently repulsed by the world of trafficking and all kinds of coercion with drugs or threats or beatings or etc. i do believe women can be here with us of their own free will.)

so anyway, after all that what i find infinitely intriguing is what is the provider's motivation for giving this a go and staying with it?
is it just the money? i would imagine it's around 97% of staying with it and about 100% of getting started (or maybe the other way around?).
but i've been with some ladies that sure don't make it feel that way.
and i always recall one of the sweetest dancers in tucson that embarassedly told me it made her fell so incredibly feminine that it gave her a real emotional high for guys to adore her and her company.

so i'm wondering if the ladies find it's basically piles of money stopping up their noses to an odious occupation or do you find other positive reasons to let us less than hunks enjoy ourselves with you?

are there ladies that share my dancer friend's excitement at being an object of desire. is there a thrill and a hi to the sexual energy that's surrounding you?
is there an element of just liking dick and getting fucked?
are other things just boring? there's the excitement of being rebellious, doing the unexpected. being daring?
does it just kind of make sense? use what you've lucked into? a chance to bank a bunch of cash and move on to something else when your desireability lottery ticket runs out, not have a boss, guys are just generally either nice or boring anyway? take certain precautions and it's not that dangerous? (or do you feel it's always dangerous?)

anyway that's probably been tldr. but just wondering.
and ladies, i'm glad you're here. and i at least hope there are some of you that kinda like being here at least a bit for somethings other than just the money.

[notequiteatroll]

oh yeah. i forgot spite/hatred as a motivation.
there was one bp girl that made it pretty clear she hated men and their lust and was totally just thrilled to pick their pockets for no skin off her back.

she was a bit scary.

[Iridemhard]

You forgot to add traumatic childhood sexual experience as one reason they are here. Id say there are plenty of psychological explanations as to why women are here. That goes for the men on here as well.

[Flyboy182]

Either side of the hobby can be good, or it can be horribly bad. If anyone on either side loses the power to make their own choices....its bad.

[Guest030317]

Money

Though CNN would have you to believe it's the drugs.

[Ginger Doll]

I guess I'm just the perfect combination of a nymphomaniac/capitalist.

No need to psychoanalyze me further... What you see is what you get.

[hogmanjones]

Originally Posted by Ginger Doll

I guess I'm just the perfect combination of a nymphomaniac/capitalist.

No need to psychoanalyze me further... What you see is what you get.

Lol, +1!!

[Ginger Doll]

Originally Posted by hogmanjones

Lol, +1!!

Thanks, hun.

& NQAT... I have to tell you – I just love your posts! Very thought-provoking, and you always have the gumption to ask the questions that no one else will.

[notequiteatroll]

so you want me for my mind?

[1inamillion205]

I dig this thread as well. Very thought provoking. It would be interesting to see how other providers feel.
glad you answered so candidly Ginger. It's nice to think at least one of you enjoys our company. ; )

[Danielle Reid]

I was going to answer, but I don't think you guys would care. So carry on.

[notequiteatroll]

but we do.
don't hold back, miss fiery.
most of what i have left is between my ears anyway. (and the hair on em)

[1inamillion205]

I wouldn't mind hearing Mary Beth

[Danielle Reid]

Don't wanna destroy the fantasy with the truth lol. All you need to know if that I'm here to make you feel loved like a fight-less marriage filled with sex and nakedness and drain your dick of every drop of cum

[notequiteatroll]

ha.
you coulda gone easy on us miss marybeth.



you know we're all in lust with your no bs persona.