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Old 03-11-2011, 09:45 AM   #1
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happen to me last week....difficult with the So
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Old 03-11-2011, 09:53 AM   #2
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She shouldn't under any circumstance unless you called and she is just calling back.
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Old 03-11-2011, 09:56 AM   #3
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As I am single and unattached....they can call me anytime.
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Old 03-11-2011, 10:09 AM   #4
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That is just plain tacky and an invasion of privacy! I won't even call a guy if we have a date set up lol. He is given my number to call and confirm, and that's it. I have never done this to someone who is paying, and it keeps things in perspective.
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Old 03-11-2011, 10:12 AM   #5
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I would never call in a million years! Only with permission first !!


must not start new thread...must not start new thread ......must not start new thread LOL
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Old 03-11-2011, 10:14 AM   #6
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I don not call my clients out of the blue. I do understand that a lot of these men are married or have girlfriends. Like London said, It is a tacky business practice. I don't text unless they text me or let me know that text messages are ok (I do ask that question on my screening form).

I also don't go fishing for clients. If he wants to see me he can email or call me but I won't text him asking if he has "hobby time" and "hobby funds" like a lot of ladies do. It's just plain tacky but hey whatever works for them right?
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Old 03-11-2011, 10:15 AM   #7
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It is helpful for a client to give some guideline to a lady regarding calling him. Call me anytime. Never call me, I will always call you. Call me only if I have left a message. Call me only on the day of a scheduled date.

If a lady ignores our instructions, then we have a right to be frustrated or, if she continues despite repeated clarification, to get mad. If we have not communicated our preference to her, we should not be upset if she calls when we would prefer not or does not call when we would prefer that she does.

Myself, I am fine with a provider calling me, if I have first contacted her. Once I have made inquiries of a lady, she can call anytime, unless I request otherwise.
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Old 03-11-2011, 10:29 AM   #8
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I have a small number of ladies that I don't mind getting a call from. I just request they text me first to see if I'm able to talk.
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Never call.
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Old 03-11-2011, 10:48 AM   #10
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I don't mind if they call at all. I don't have a SO, so that makes things easy
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:19 AM   #11
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It is helpful for a client to give some guideline to a lady regarding calling him. Call me anytime. Never call me, I will always call you. Call me only if I have left a message. Call me only on the day of a scheduled date.

If a lady ignores our instructions, then we have a right to be frustrated or, if she continues despite repeated clarification, to get mad. If we have not communicated our preference to her, we should not be upset if she calls when we would prefer not or does not call when we would prefer that she does.

Myself, I am fine with a provider calling me, if I have first contacted her. Once I have made inquiries of a lady, she can call anytime, unless I request otherwise.
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I only call within instructions and EVEN then if he's married I prefer to contact by email. Sometimes it can be difficult if we have such a wonderful talking. However discretion and professionalism should be first.

I am open to phone calls once I have screened a person and I tell all my potential and previous visitors this. This allows for better communication. I also DO NOT check my voice mail so I need a quick text of when to call back, or I will just wait for you to call me again.

We all have our boundries and they should be respected.
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:36 AM   #12
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I don not call my clients out of the blue. I do understand that a lot of these men are married or have girlfriends. Like London said, It is a tacky business practice. I don't text unless they text me or let me know that text messages are ok .. .... If he wants to see me he can email ....

I do and I have!!

No phones call please. Email first, text if I text you, call if I say it's okay to call.....nuff said!!
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Old 03-11-2011, 11:41 AM   #13
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I do and I have!!

No phones call please. Email first, text if I text you, call if I say it's okay to call.....nuff said!!
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No phones call please......
...even if he has an incredibly sexy voice!!
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Old 03-11-2011, 12:25 PM   #15
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...even if he has an incredibly sexy voice!!
Well drats!
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