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burkalini · 06-01-2011, 08:32 PM

Never have and never will. I have friends for that.

burner2157 · 06-01-2011, 09:49 PM

I've done it twice, but not on purpose either time.I was a newbie the first time and thought I could get another hour, but she said she had a outcall to go too.The second time she misunderstood I wanted 2 hours instead of 1 and had to go to a family event after seeing me.

Old-T · 06-02-2011, 08:54 AM

I have. Sometimes planned, sometimes not.

The best date I ever had with a lady--and a long time friend--was supposed to be all night until she had to go to an event at 8 AM. We went to dinner and the symphony, and since it was a stunningly beautiful summer evening, we walked around for an hour or so. She saw a quiet bar and bought me a drink as she had two herself, then we went to my hotel around 2 AM.

As I was hanking up her wrap she lay on the bed, and in five minutes was sound asleep. I undressed her, pulled up the covers, and let her sleep. A couple other dates were similar (with different ladies).

Often if I set up dinner with a lady I have seen several times it will be at no charge, but I often give them something anyway--especially when I found out one lady had cancelled a 3 hr date to have dinner off the clock with me. I didn't feel right NOT giving her something for her time.

GenesisNicole · 06-02-2011, 11:53 AM

I agree that it does happen.

I've had "no sex" type of dates with gents who just wanted company for the day, or had some "operating issues".

While I do enjoy sex (Giddy up), I also just hanging out and getting to know each other.....

G.N

am-a-pleaser · 06-02-2011, 02:38 PM

When it happens, either planned or not, it can be very enbjoyable for both people. I expect for the lady, it might be a welcome change from the norm.

Dragon7769 · 06-02-2011, 05:07 PM

I tried one time.

Provider I had seen quite a bit in the past was having her birthday, It happened to be the day after our meeting. Well i got her a small gift and setup an appointment, told her plainly that we could just chat and enjoy each others company and it was her choice on whatever we did during the appointment since it was sort of a birthday gift. Well about 3/4 of the way thru she tells me to get comfortable and well... you guys know the rest..... guess that was her choice too.

Old-T · 06-02-2011, 07:11 PM

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Originally Posted by Dragon7769

I tried one time.

Provider I had seen quite a bit in the past was having her birthday, It happened to be the day after our meeting. Well i got her a small gift and setup an appointment, told her plainly that we could just chat and enjoy each others company and it was her choice on whatever we did during the appointment since it was sort of a birthday gift. Well about 3/4 of the way thru she tells me to get comfortable and well... you guys know the rest..... guess that was her choice too.

It does often go that way, doesn't it. Kind of argues against those who see this business as ONLY about the dollars.

Guest011914-1 · 06-02-2011, 07:32 PM

i have had encounters like that and it was just as fun as a normal encounter...I have a BFE i see and he was in the hospital and I had planned on my own time to go and see him when he got out because I knew he lived alone and he than knowing me the way he does (we have seen each other a few times) invited me up and insisted on paying me. I knew not to argue with him but either way he knew I would be there for him....

Eccie Addict · 06-02-2011, 08:11 PM

Ladies is there a guy you consider a friend/client does it ever get to you that he always insist on paying for the time you spend with him?

Even when you're the one that made the decision to spend time with him.

I mean if you ladies decide to get together and hang out do you pay each other for your time?

Still Looking · 06-02-2011, 08:18 PM

Oh Boy!? Good One!

PhantomofTheOpera · 06-02-2011, 08:35 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Ok fellas.... How many of you pay or have paid for time/companionship only. No sex, just tge company of a provider?

I have done that and I have a great real world friend because of it. Was the best decision I made in a while and I don't regret it. I do miss my friend since she retired a couple of years ago and lives pretty far away but we stay in touch. My phone company loves me...

As for doing it again... maybe, if I find the right one.

Guest011914-1 · 06-02-2011, 08:49 PM

In relation to my post and your question what I did was I took a part of what he gave me and donated it charity...

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Ladies is there a guy you consider a friend/client does it ever get to you that he always insist on paying for the time you spend with him?

Even when you're the one that made the decision to spend time with him.

I mean if you ladies decide to get together and hang out do you pay each other for your time?

Eccie Addict · 06-02-2011, 09:04 PM

IV... Was that just a one time thing or does it happen to you often?

Old-T · 06-02-2011, 09:42 PM

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Originally Posted by Eccie Addict

Ladies is there a guy you consider a friend/client does it ever get to you that he always insist on paying for the time you spend with him?

Even when you're the one that made the decision to spend time with him.

I mean if you ladies decide to get together and hang out do you pay each other for your time?

I had one lady esentially say she felt hurt when I paid her for OTC time she gave me. It has made me much more aware of that and I no longer automaticly do so. I have found one way that allows both of us to ease our consciences when it's a lady I know can ill afford to skip a daid date: she can just offer to hang out with me at times, but then I can just send her a "no particular reason" gift at times, or a more generous tip. Not a one-for-one kind of thing, but we're both content with the results in total.

Fastcars1966 · 06-03-2011, 03:40 PM

That is not why I make dates with providers, but I have had a lot OTC time with a special lady friend. Dinner, events, and outings but the only time I pay her is for BCD time. We enjoy each others company and she would be offended if I paid her for hanging out although as another gentleman has stated she loves it when I buy her a nice gift especially something to wear. She even decided to stay the night after a night out on the town I paid her for the scheduled time, and she ask if it would be alright with me if she stayed. I did spring for room service the next morning, and that is why she is my ATF. I guess if you were lonely in a town by yourself and just wanted the company of a nice lady to join you for dinner or what ever and you did not know each other it would be expected I'm sure. That is just not my thing the only time I travel by myself is on business and I don't have enough time for that.