Can anyone help out noob? first time calling ES

[rumdiary101]

So, it' my first time calling an ES and I am nervous I'm gonna make noob mistakes. I am in council Bluffs Iowa right now. Since it's my first time would like to have a good experience, any suggestions? thx

[rumdiary101]

a little help? Cliffnotes? nothing extensive

[Guest041413-2]

Search "newbie friendly" providers...they can help you get established here and on P411, etc. Good luck and stay away from the "mean" ones. LMAO!!!

[Guest082513-02]

research research research!!!!!!! know her menu and rates. dont discuss and always show up with exact donation..no less. Respect gets u a long way in hobbyland

P411 is a wise investment that will open many doors

stay safe

[pyramider]

Use the search tab. Search is your friend. Now download some porn and have fun.

[MasterBaiter1996]

Originally Posted by LusciousLacy

research research research!!!!!!! know her menu and rates. dont discuss and always show up with exact donation..no less. Respect gets u a long way in hobbyland

P411 is a wise investment that will open many doors

stay safe

This ^^^^

And have fun.

[cumalot]

Make sure they have pic's and if they don't have nipple shots pass them over and go to the next one...ijs

[JDNorthface]

And stay away from BP. Stay right here, with researched and reviewed ladies. The more you can interact around here, the better your experience is likely to be. From time to time, we'll see someone show up around here and their first post says something like, "OK, I'm here. Everyone applaud and then someone screw me." Then we don't hear from them for months and their second post says, "Hey, I've been here for months, who's next?"

That's not really the best operating practice for this particular board. Try to be a citizen. Get involved and let people get to know your (online) personality. That will help.

[Old-T]

Make sure you understand what you are looking to get out of the session--as odd as it sounds it really does vary among guys. Some only want the physical aspects; others want more of a whole person experience. Neither is wrong, but it sure helps if you know what YOU are looking for and spend the time with someone appropriate.

Give yourself plenty of time to get there (or to be ready if she will visit you). No matter what you tell yourself you WILL be nervous, so minimize other items that would add to the nervousness--such as hurrying to be on time.

Let her know it's your first visit, otherwise she might mistake your nervousness for something else. Let her take more of the lead.

Bring a small gift. The size/cost doesn't matter. Wrap it. It isn't necessary, but it is a good way to break the ice--more for you than for her.

Don't have too many preconceived ideas about what exact steps have to happen in what order--relax and go with the flow.

[MsElena]

Listen to what Old-T said, great advice and most of what JD said.

Backpage isn't evil, it is one of the few venues ladies have to use in advertising that all the guys know of in the Omaha/Council Bluffs area. Some of us established providers still do advertise on BP.

You're best bet is to go look in the Nebraska forum and read the reviews. Find a lady that you think you'd be attracted to and contact her.

[alluringava]

As others have said, look for newbie friendly providers ( they're out there, and try to do some homework by searching on sites such as this one or TER or whatever where they have a section for newbies with all the Q and As and terms, etc). Everyone has to start somewhere.

[geecue]

Originally Posted by rumdiary101

a little help? Cliffnotes? nothing extensive

Its only natural to be nervous, I am still nervous sometimes. Just be yourself and the main thing is have fun. Like others have stated find a newbie friendly provider, that will take care of you. Oh by the way you will never be the same.

[ICU 812]

I would say don't rush anything. As others have advised, use the research button. Read the reviews. I'd pay for premium access for a while and get the full report.

Don't stop with reading here. Read each escort's own website and pay attention to how she wants to handle the donation etc.

Another thing I'd say is know your hobby budget but dodnt stint. If you can't spend enough for an un-rushed two hour session with a quality provider, wait untill you can. Bring the money you are committed to spend, and spend it without hesitation or regret.

Tip her.